Divorce does not leave home, I think this is a helpless move. This often happens because the house is the joint property of the husband and wife. After a divorce, one party has nowhere to go. Because the cost of renting a house was too high, he could not afford to find a house to pay the rent. Therefore, the two people discussed and decided that two rooms under one roof would be divided into two places, sharing the kitchen toilet.
In this way, we will live together first, and then move away when one party has a way. Another special situation is that the child is in the stage of college entrance examination, and the divorcing spouse leaves home for fear of affecting the important stage of the child's life. Therefore, the husband and wife discussed that for the sake of the children, they would temporarily live together and divorce without leaving home, and wait until the children were admitted to college and then completely separate from each other. This particular case is beyond the scope of this article.
Husband and wife divorce do not leave home, although it is a helpless move, must live under one roof, but the nature of the relationship between husband and wife has undergone fundamental changes, which requires each other in the process of getting along, to pay attention to their words and deeds, to have a degree of control.
First, the three chapters of the law, the special requirements of the other party's attention in advance warning, so that the other party does not cross the line.
Since we are divorced, we can't still have the same as before, without any concerns about each other. To put forward their own requirements, they must first make three chapters of the law, and then let the other party pay attention to it ideologically, so that they can live together under one roof in the future and have less unnecessary friction. And it affects the quality of life of each other in life together.
Second, give each other a relatively independent space, do not disturb the other party's life when there is nothing to do, and feel that it is reasonable.
Divorce, there is a fundamental change in the relationship between each other. So, don't go your own way in life and constantly disturb each other. When we get along with each other, we must know how to respect each other's living habits. Don't make the other party feel embarrassed because of your own behavior. It even affects each other's daily lives. And don't look at each other's behavior, put forward all kinds of unnecessary opinions, so that each other feel that life together is troublesome and can't live.
Third, in the economy, we must clearly calculate the accounts, and we cannot not go without calculating, so we think that the other party does not matter.
Divorced, the other party's money has nothing to do with you anymore. So don't always think about taking advantage of each other in life, and feel that it doesn't matter if you eat a meal. In the past, it was because of the existence of the relationship between husband and wife, and now you and the other party need to go their separate ways. If people are kind, thinking about their previous feelings, and making some delicious food for you to eat, you must also know that etiquette is still exchanged, and you can't make yourself an iron rooster, and the hair is not pulled out. As a result, the relationship between you will often become colder and colder.
Fourth, do not participate in each other's life, the other party has friends to visit, they should try to avoid.
Divorced, even if you live under one roof together, don't interfere with the lives of others. Sometimes, due to habit, we may unconsciously increase our behavior because we are under the same roof, pay attention, and even produce a certain illusion at some specific environment and time point. Thinking that it is still a family can influence each other. Therefore, when the other person has a friend visiting, you should learn to withdraw from her space after you are busy. When the other party has an event to participate in, there are no special circumstances, and you do not need to attend together, causing others to misunderstand that you are still in marriage or have been reunited.
Fifth, try not to bring the opposite sex to spend the night, reduce the various embarrassments when meeting each other.
Although you have divorced each other, there are naturally all kinds of inconveniences under the same roof. So, when you already have other emotions, don't easily bring the opposite sex here for the night. Because after all, it is the former and the current, it will invisibly put some pressure on two people. Especially in the current position, if you feel that there is still a reason between you and your ex, and the cut-off complex is in it, even if you and your ex are innocent, she will have many uncomfortable feelings in her heart. Will be jealous, jealous, will trouble you. Therefore, do not easily let the opposite sex stay here to reduce the occurrence of various contradictions.
Sixth, the things you mind, you must let the other party know at the first time, understand the importance of peaceful coexistence.
When the other party does not do it properly, be sure to tell the other party at the first time. And the other party also needs to understand the other party and improve what they have done. Don't think that the other party is picky, looking for fault for yourself, and can't get along with yourself. Understand the importance of living in peace with each other, and only in this way can two people divorce and not leave home to reassure each other.
In fact, divorce does not leave home, which is an abnormal mode of life. It is the helplessness of man. As two people who have walked out of marriage, they don't really want this life to continue. Therefore, there is a chance, or one party should bravely walk out of this special mode of life that divorces and does not leave home, so that there is a real end point between each other, and there is no longer a trace of dragging mud and water.