How old have you ever confessed the latter to someone else? Generally speaking, a little late maturity, the urge and courage to love may be in college or after graduation to work, and the precocious one at least until junior high school to have the courage to write a note to the girl. Now that the Network is developed, children are exposed to a lot of information and miscellaneous, so children mature earlier and earlier, and the time for "confession" is getting earlier and earlier, and it is not a new thing for primary school students to receive "confession" small notes.
This is not, the popular Hubei second-grade girls on the Internet received a "confession" note, and the video of her father crying and laughing after watching it has attracted the attention and heated discussion of netizens. Some netizens said: "My son said that he did not want to marry his daughter-in-law, and his daughter-in-law scolded, but also to earn money to raise dolls, wash diapers, and dolls also dig their faces"; and some netizens posted their own experiences: when they were in the fifth grade of primary school, they also received it, and they were very scared at that time, and they found a pit where no one was on the way out of school and buried the little love letters"; more netizens expressed surprise: "Are the children so precocious now?" ”......
In the video, a father picks up his second-grade daughter home from school as usual, and when the daughter gets in the car, she pulls out a small folded note and gives it to her father to show him what is written. Dad took a look at it, and the little note was pink and sealed with cartoon stickers, which was very cute.
Dad originally thought it was just some whispered words of children, and did not care much, opened a look, but a little crying and laughing, it turned out that this was a "love letter" written by a little boy to his daughter. The second-grade children have limited expression ability, and they draw a big love in their hearts, and the words "love you" are written on it. Dad was a little caught off guard and stuttered a bit": This... My mom." The little daughter did not feel any embarrassment, and laughed at the side.
This little girl can show the small note she receives to her parents, indicating that the family relationship is still relatively harmonious, and the child can trust her parents so much. It can also be seen that this is a good father, who must be very good to his daughter and know how to respect his daughter. The father did not live up to the trust and respect of his daughter, and after seeing this note, he did not reprimand his daughter, but was a little embarrassed and caught off guard.
Nowadays, children are ghostly, and due to the influence of the Internet, film and television dramas, they will also imitate intentionally or unintentionally. But this is not "early love", just a kind of substitution "family", so parents do not have to make a fuss about this situation. For the little boys in the second grade, it may be because today a girl wears a beautiful dress or combs a good hairstyle, and then it will think of the confession plot in the movie and tv series, and also engage in a "letter and affection".
Generally speaking, the so-called "confession" of children in the lower grades is just curiosity or follow-up behavior, seeing the couples in the TV series or seeing the brothers and sisters around them in love, thinking that they are very happy, they want to imitate it. At this time, parents should not make a fuss, such as facing a big enemy, give their children more love, take them to participate in more activities, cultivate their interests and hobbies, and when they find that other things are more interesting than this one, they will naturally forget such things as "confession".
Of course, if it is a senior student, there are really signs of early love, or you can not take it lightly, you can understand and respect the premise of sharing your own adolescent experience with your children at this age. Telling a child that liking someone is not a shameful thing to do, it means you've grown up. But now it is still too small, the problem is not comprehensive and objective enough, and the understanding of love is not profound, so you can appreciate each other, do not easily talk about love, guide children to communicate normally with classmates of the opposite sex, and encourage children to expand their circle of friends.