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I wanted to fall in love early, but it was too late. That's what I thought when I was in college!
Love this thing, I don't know where to start with this boundary between morning and evening.
The definition of early love, in the eyes of most parents and teachers, is before adulthood. There are also a small number of parents who feel that they are eligible to fall in love after graduating from college! Because as long as you are still in school, you are immature.
I have to say that parents play too much double standard, and they don't ask themselves how old they were in love when they were young, how old they were married, and you were not long after marriage.
But it should also be admitted that parents and teachers forbid students from falling in love early, the original intention is good, children are simply ignorant of social experience, easy to hurt their physical and mental health because of love to affect their inner emotions, and eventually lead to a decline in academic performance.
This is a result that no one wants to see! Adults are more afraid that after children fall in love, they try to steal the forbidden fruit, which is the evil consequence of harming the child's life. Therefore, when children go to junior high school, especially into adolescence, parents are particularly "attentive" to their children's behavior, afraid that their children will move the careful thinking of "early love".
Of course, if the family is a daughter, it will be even more worried! I am afraid that the child and the classmates of the opposite sex have come closer to talk deeply. That is a little to tell the parents, junior high school girls early love signs, not only love to dress, these small details are often the key!
Want to sneak up on early love? You can't hide it!
The child naturally knows that his identity is a student, the task is to learn, and he should not have the behavior of early love. But a child is a child, especially as it enters puberty. The inner fawn will always keep bumping!
Coupled with the fact that the media is now developed and the information is exploding, it is mixed with a lot of improper guidance of love and love, and children cannot distinguish whether they are good or bad, and it is inevitable that they will imitate and learn. I thought that being in love was the best!
So the two restless children collided together and began an underground love. Do you think that if you secretly fall in love early, no one will know, you can hide the sky and cross the sea?
Please, even a cunning fox can't fight a clever hunter, you can't hide the little tail of "love".
When parents find that their daughters have become fond of dressing up, in fact, it does not explain anything, let alone conclude that the child is in love early. The heart of beauty is shared by everyone. Often some small details, only ten to nine stable can confirm that the child is in the abyss of love.
Whether it is day school or residential study, the child has pocket money, obviously the usual pocket money is enough, and even there is a balance, one day the child suddenly asks you for more pocket money! Say she's not enough.
Once or twice, it doesn't matter, if you do too many times, you will be fine! Every time you want pocket money, you can always make up a variety of different reasons. Give birthday gifts to classmates, the school has to pay the material fee, and you have to buy new stationery.
Isn't it hard to imagine that love can't cost money? Can't two people drink milk tea, eat a fried skewer, give a gift or something?
Where there is a "free" love, there is no love that does not cost money, and it is not good to always let male classmates invite guests!
Pocket money is needed, it must be spent. Surely it is impossible to just eat and drink, gifts and what to give each other, there is always a wear to see.
If you see that your child is receiving more and more gifts, and it is obviously not something sent by a female classmate, and there are some small things or gadgets that clearly show love, as a parent, you should pay attention.
Either the child has fallen in love early, or there are boys pursuing.
Experienced homeroom teachers and parents will also pay attention to some of the trinkets on the students. Bracelets, hairpins, it seems that there is no problem, but in fact, it may be engraved with the other party's "name".
The student thought he had hidden deep enough, sorry! You guys, the class teacher has played it more than ten years ago.
The reason why most of the children in early love are naïve and ignorant is that they think that the superficial effort in love is enough.
Although the couple's clothes are not afraid to wear, the couple's avatar is mostly to be used. And not so blatant couple headshots! To find that children are catty, parents and teachers need to have enough "detection" ability.
In addition, silly early love, children will find not only happy, but also troubled and sad. You find that the child's personality has changed, the mood is always fluctuating, and he can laugh silly when he cries inexplicably or looks at the mobile phone.
You'll have to be careful! At the same time, observation found that the child's circle of friends or QQ space, the release is always some strange content, most of them have ghosts. You say that the child directly blocked you, then there must be a ghost!
Early love is not terrible, what is terrible is to demonize it
Today's children, access to any information earlier and more faster than our parents.
Early love of this thing, in fact, there is nothing wrong with itself, what is wrong is that some of its negative effects are infinitely magnified by adults. You have to admit that there are couples who study the college entrance examination and both go to Peking University Tsinghua!
So early love is not terrible, what is terrible is to demonize it. The more terrible the adults talk about him, the more curious the child is, the more he wants to try, which is too normal.
Therefore, instead of prohibiting, it is better to guide correctly. How to boot? Parents and teachers talk to their children more about "love".
Practice has proved that the more parents talk about the topic of "love" with their children, the higher the children's requirements for love, and the more correct the values of love, then parents are still afraid of their children's early love?
Instead of talking about "love" with children, parents talk about sexual color change for sex education.
If you think about it, the school does not teach, the parents do not say, in the end, is not to let the children explore on their own?
Sex education should be put on the podium, generously taught, thoroughly explained, adults naturally do not worry about children crossing the line.
A little bit of a message
When I was in high school, there were pairs of classes in the class, and the class teacher talked many times, and also found the parents of both sides, but they could not break up the two of them.
Fortunately, they did not have graduation season is the breakup season, and happier, they have been walking into the palace of marriage.
When I went back to school to see the class teacher, the class teacher also jokingly said: I am the witness of the firm feelings of the two of you, if I can't pass this level, what else to talk about! Hahaha.
Maybe there is no sooner or later in love, only good or bad. What is good in love? For the sake of the other party, become stronger yourself and go to the end.
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