To prevent children from falling in love early, what is our most common trick?
That's right, the plain school uniform.
School uniform is a fairly good kind of clothing, high adaptability to the body, warm and breathable, suitable for men and women.
Similarly, at a glance, it is difficult to distinguish between boys and girls.
However, it is said that some schools have developed a new "anti-early love school uniform". You can't see it during the day, but at night, when you go to a small lawn and a small park, you will be found if you give it a little light. Of course, walking on the road will also be very safe, whether it is a car or an electric car, as long as there are lights will be found.
"Anti-early love school uniform"
Although the school will come up with many programs, although these methods are indeed effective, it is sometimes difficult to stop the children's "hot" hearts.
In fact, when children fall in love early, they will accidentally show traces in the details. As long as parents pay more attention, it is easy to find "signs".
As for whether it is loose or blocked, it depends on the parents' concept of early love.
Usually the appearance of the following 5 types of items may be "early love".
1. Couple items
Wearing a school uniform is the same for everyone, how to reflect the relationship between lovers? Couple shoes, couples mobile phone cases, couple jewelry and other couple items that are easy to "get together" are the best choice.
Why does the phone case still have a broken line?
2. Cosmetics
As the saying goes, "a woman is pleasing to herself", and children who fall in love early are no exception. If the original child who is facing the sky suddenly likes to buy cosmetics, it may also have a favorite object.
3. Beautiful post-it notes
When there are children in early love, they will also use some exquisite post-it notes to convey care and express love, which is not only convenient to use, but also easy to save, and we can also use it as one of the criteria for judging children's early love.
4. Cheap trinkets
Most of the children's pocket money is limited, and some cheap trinkets have become a way for children to express their love, such as bracelets woven with colorful ropes, simple head flowers, hair cards, etc., which may be the promise letters sent by the child's "lover".
Children in early love are usually not very sensitive to gender-specific items, but are sensitive to what the "other" sends.
Is this guy's wrist a head rope?
It's been discovered!
5. Small snacks beyond the norm
At the commissary near the school, you can buy a variety of small snacks, which can be put directly into your pocket or school bag, and it will not be easy for teachers to find. Boys and girls will also give small snacks between them, and if you find that your child's bag has snacks that exceed the usual habits, be careful.
In addition to items, the following changes have occurred in your child's daily state, and you may also be careful.
Nowadays, the Internet is unprecedentedly developed, and all kinds of youth literature, love variety shows, film and television dramas are filled with children's lives. Sometimes it's just likes, and sometimes it's just imitation.
Early love in adolescence is invincible, and parents should not rush to blame their children. After all, "blocking is better than thinning", the key is to teach children how to protect themselves in advance. Because girls are more vulnerable to early love, girls' parents should pay more attention than boys' parents and do a good job of family education.
At the same time, an era has the characteristics of an era. Children have children's lives, and adolescents do not understand how beautiful feelings are.
Although most parents intuitively feel: please let this day come a little later! When this day finally comes, we need to teach our children how to love than to prevent or encourage them to fall in love.
Like and be liked, rejected and abandoned, children will eventually experience the sweetness and helplessness of first love, but before all this happens, parents talk to him about the bits and pieces of love, can teach them in love, learn to love themselves, seriously love others. Keep your original intention and eventually grow into a responsible lover.
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