Every school will have its own uniform, although the color and style of the school uniform may be slightly different, but without exception it is the same, slightly dull.
Therefore, many children are resistant to wearing school uniforms, especially some middle school students, because they think that school uniforms cannot show their beauty.
But no matter what the children think, the school uniform must be worn, of course, they hope that the school uniform can be designed to look better.
However, at present, the good-looking school uniform has not yet been designed, but a special school uniform has attracted the attention of the majority of netizens, and is known as the anti-early love school uniform.
Early love is not allowed by schools and parents, both then and now.
But no matter how much teachers or parents object, there are still many children in early love, especially in some boarding schools, and closed management provides children with opportunities for early love.
One principal would find boys and girls secretly falling in love every night when they inspected the school, and they would usually choose some more hidden places, such as the corner of the teaching building or the school grove.
In the darkness of the night, it is really difficult to be discovered by others.
Such a situation made the principal decide to find a way to change, after all, early love can not be indulged, otherwise it is likely to affect the future of the child.
So he decided to work on the school uniform, found a raw material that would glow at night through the Internet, and applied it to the new school uniform.
The biggest feature of this anti-early love school uniform is that it seems to be no different from the ordinary school uniform during the day, but at night it will be exposed in its original shape, so no matter whether the child is hiding in any corner, it can be found by others at a glance.
Nature avoids the occurrence of male and female students falling in love at night to a certain extent.
Although such a method cannot solve the problem of students' early love in essence, netizens still expressed their admiration for designers, after all, it is very difficult to have such a creative idea.
What are the effects of early love on children?
1. Cause children to abandon their studies
Whether it is primary or secondary school, the identity of the child is the student, and as the name suggests, learning is the most important task for them. Learning is not an easy task, and it takes time and energy from children to achieve certain results.
But early love will obviously take up the child's time, but also let the child indulge in it, full of thoughts are love. Therefore, most of the children in early love will have a decline in academic performance, and even some children will have aversion to school, resulting in academic waste.
2, leading to the child's concept of love is wrong
Love is originally a very beautiful thing, but because the child is still young, it is impossible to understand the true meaning of love, so in the process of early love, it is likely to have doubts about love for various reasons.
Especially after the failure of early love, it is even more discouraged about love.
What should parents do in the face of their children's early love?
1. Communicate patiently with your child
When many parents find that their children are in early love, their first reaction is to jump like thunder and will stifle the relationship through various violent means.
Perhaps on the surface, the child's early love is indeed terminated, but in the child's psychology, it will produce a rebellious psychology, leading to extreme things in the future.
Only by patiently communicating with the child and understanding the child's true thoughts can we guide the child correctly. Let the child know that love can be had, but not in the student stage, only by constantly enriching themselves and improving themselves can they meet the most beautiful love.
2. Understand your child's feelings
Early love in adolescent children is actually a very normal thing, and parents should learn to empathize with their children.
Because from another point of view, early love is a challenge for children, if parents can correctly guide and face this challenge with their children, then it may be possible to let children grow up in early love, but it is conducive to the formation of their correct concept of love.