Love is a matter of two people, but a crush is a matter of one person.
The German writer Goethe famously said: I love you, it has nothing to do with you. Loving a person is actually an emotion hidden deep in a person's heart, as long as he does not tell this love to others, this love is a private thing.
Loving a person does not necessarily have to have him, as long as you can see the happiness of his life, you will also feel sweet and satisfied in your heart, and the love for a person is hidden deep in your heart, which is actually very good.
Love is a wonderful thing, we always imagine it as holy and beautiful before we have it, but when we really live with the person we love, as the understanding between the two deepens, the shortcomings of both parties, and the incompatibility of each other in the way of life, will make the two people's good feelings for each other slowly become less.
Since ancient times, in those unforgettable love relationships, there are always missing and regretful, because of this, with the object of the love, it is not necessarily a good thing, and hiding your deep love for a person in your heart is not necessarily a bad thing, it will make this love more profound.
In the movie "Love Letter", the male protagonist Fujii Shu was deeply in love with a girl in middle school, but he did not express his love to this girl, but hid this love deeply in his heart, which made her have a deep nostalgia for this relationship and a beautiful fantasy after many years, which also became the eternal beauty in his memory.
The movie "Love Letter" tells us that it may be a good thing to hide love deep in our hearts and not tell others to know.
First, the beautiful love in memory always carries regrets.
The reason why first love is beautiful is because it originated in the era when emotions were most sincere, but often did not have a happy ending.
Psychologically, there is a famous "Chiconi effect", which refers to:
People are born with a drive to do things from beginning to end, and if he has experienced one thing and there is no happy ending to this matter, he is bound to feel a regret in his heart.
Using the "Chicconi effect" to explain first love, we can conclude that first love is beautiful because it always carries regrets.
In the movie "Love Letter", the male Fujii tree was deeply in love with the female Fujii tree with the same name as him when he was a student, and the two of them spent a sweet time on campus without guessing, the male Fujii tree deeply loved the female Fujii tree, but he was ashamed to confess, and could only record his love for the female Fujii tree in the title page of the library, hoping to be discovered by the other party.
Regrettably, the female Fujii tree did not have a gap to the male Fujii tree's love for her, and the love between the two finally ended with a regretful ending.
Because of this, in the heart of the male Fujii tree, this relationship will be beautiful and unforgettable, so when the male Fujii tree falls in love again, the object of choice is also Hiroko who looks similar to the female Fujii tree.
Second, love can be said to be a private matter hidden deep in the heart.
In the days when he was separated from the female Fujii tree, the male Fujii tree has always hidden this love deep in his heart, and has never mentioned it to others, even if his later girlfriend, Hiroko, who has almost the same appearance as the female Fujii tree, did not tell Hiroko about it.
Although the male Fujii tree when he first met Hiroko, it was because of Hiroko's appearance and developed feelings for him, but after the two fell in love, the male Fujii tree paid a lot of sincere feelings in this relationship, perhaps even he himself is not clear, whether the love he gives is for the female Fujii tree, or to Hiroko.
It wasn't until the male Fujii tree lost his life due to an accident that Hiroko found a clue to the female Fujii tree in his diary.
In my opinion, love is a secret that can be hidden deep in the heart, and it is not necessary to mention it to anyone, only when the night is quiet and I feel empty, I look for the sweet feeling from the memory alone.
Third, love someone, you don't have to get him.
Loving someone does not necessarily mean getting him, hiding memories of love in the heart, but can make this love eternal.
A couple who interact together for a long time, the two sides are bound to contradict each other because of trivial matters in life, so that their feelings for each other become depreciated, but if they are only placed in memory, this love will be preserved forever.
In the movie "Love Letter", although the love between the male Fujii tree and the female Fujii tree is short-lived, it exists eternally in his own memory, in every corner of the campus, and in the title page of every book in the library.
Falling in love with a person does not necessarily have to have him, and hiding love deep in the memory will make this love more glorious.
The movie "Love Letters" tells us that it is actually quite good to hide the love for a person deep in our hearts.
This regret of missing love will not only make this relationship precious in their own memory, but also make this love can leave a sweet mark in their own minds.
Perhaps when Fujii Shu died unexpectedly, he was not lonely in his heart, because there were people he loved, and good memories of love, and it was actually quite good to hide love deep in his heart.
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