In marriage, if you have children, do not divorce easily, because the harm caused by divorce to children is irreparable, and in life, such examples are very common, some couples, because of contradictions divorce, children have become the saddest people
Adults, should be responsible for their own behavior, do not in order to pursue their own happiness, forget the flesh and bones, as the saying goes, ten fingers connected to the heart, children are also the parents' "heart meat", how to bear to say that separation is separated, not to mention a complete family, the growth of children is very important
However, the day is going to rain the woman to marry, this is no one can stop the thing, such a tragic scene in life, I don't know how many times it has been staged, each time is to make people feel sad, not too soft heart, but as a parent, should think more about the child
On December 21, a netizen in Shandong posted a video in which a woman sat on the wedding car, and the woman's family members under the car were different, the bride was a mother who had already given birth to two children, so why did she sit on the wedding car? Is it to make up for the wedding with your husband?
According to informed sources in the village, the mother of the two children did not make up for the wedding, but remarried, and among the people who came to see them off were these two children, one looked five or six years old, the other was two or three years old, the eldest son had to hold back tears, watched his mother sit on the wedding car, pursued his own happiness, and silently shed tears
And the younger son did not want his mother to leave, under the car has been crying loudly, tearing his heart and lungs to call his mother, but the mother on the car is obviously indifferent, and then the child's grandmother picked up the child, the child also kept reaching out to find the mother to hug, but this mother is like an iron heart, did not get off the car, and did not even shed a tear
This scene is particularly sad, and then, the car starts, and the mother who has two children, took the wedding car to her own happiness and left the two children behind
This scene, let people can not say the heartache, originally women to pursue happiness is also their own rights, but regardless of the child, it is indeed painful, some netizens said, this mother is really too much, how to pull the child big and remarry it, so that the child's heart is more sad
Even if the previous original family is not good, whether the child follows the father, or the father has an accident, can not leave when the child is still young, the future growth of the child without maternal love is affected, the mother is anxious to remarry, anxious to pursue her own happiness, but hurt the child
Some people also speak for the mother of this child, some netizens believe that women's youth is not much, since the last marriage is over, whether there are children or not, women have the right to pursue happiness, why women must take children, delay their own happiness, how to remarry when they are older?
Women should consider their own happiness, children can be left to others, their own happiness is the most important, women have the right to choose happiness and pursue happiness, children can not become a "drag oil bottle", so it is normal for women to remarry, and others have no reason to intervene
Anyway, the child is innocent, even if the mother does not like the original husband, or the husband is gone, then you can not watch the child crying, always have to hug, comfort the child, so it is also humane, sitting in the car, watching the child cry, is not painful, such a mother is too cruel
Only the mother is good in the world, and the child without the mother is like that
After this mother gets on the wedding car, she may never come back to visit these two children, and once she has a new child in the new family, will she still receive these two sons? Marriage brings women not only feelings, but also responsibilities
Onlookers can't stop the tears from flowing, but this woman is indifferent, which really makes people not understand, the mother has the right to remarry, but the first condition is to ensure that she and the child are happy. If it is only for their own happiness, regardless of the child's feelings and future, then this mother is a failure. Will a person who doesn't even love his own children get true love?