The mother-in-law arranged for her daughter-in-law to cook and serve 9 people, and the husband looked at it coldly and went to the hospital to empty her husband's room

What gives a woman hope is not love, but the responsibility of the man; what gives a man a sense of security is not love, but the woman's dedication to the family.

If a man is not like a man, has no sense of responsibility, and has no responsibility, then the woman will eventually be disappointed to leave. And if a woman is not like a woman, does not understand virtuousness and kindness, and does not know how to honor her in-laws, sooner or later a man will divorce his wife and remarry.

In fact, in a family, a woman is willing to wrongfully honor her in-laws and endure her in-laws' accusations, in the final analysis, because of the man she loves deeply.

If men can't give her respect and care, and don't know how to defend her in front of her in-laws, then sooner or later women will choose to leave with a cold heart.

01. The mother-in-law arranged for her daughter-in-law to cook and serve 9 people

Zhang Qian did not expect that she had only been married into her in-laws' family for half a year, and she was arranged by her mother-in-law to cook and serve the 9 members of her in-laws' family. No matter how Zhang Qian explained that her cooking skills were not perfect, her mother-in-law still insisted, saying that this was the rule of the new daughter-in-law.

Hearing her mother-in-law say this, Zhang Qian understood that her mother-in-law was making rules for her. Zhang Qian was speechless and helpless. She is the only daughter in the family, and her family has been well-off since she was a child, and her parents have never been willing to let her do housework.

Even if you fall in love with your husband later, it is also the husband who takes the initiative to pursue, and after they are together, it is also the husband who rushes to take care of her, asks for warmth, washes and cooks, and everything is not.

It is precisely because of her husband's diligence and informality that Zhang Qian made up her mind to get married, even if she was posted upside down. Only now, she was driven to the shelves by her mother-in-law, but her husband stood by and watched indifferently, and did not stand up to defend her.

Zhang Qian asked her husband for help, but her husband advised her, the family is not easy to get together lively and lively, everyone is hungry waiting for you to cook, you don't let everyone down, hurry up and cook.

02, the husband is indifferent and indifferent

The husband was persuaded in this way, and Zhang Qian was dissatisfied in her heart, and she did not dare to leak it for half a day. But helplessly, her cooking skills are really limited, simple small stir-fry, you can make a few, but complex hard dishes, she can't make it.

Zhang Qian was busy in the kitchen for most of the day, and no one took the initiative to help lay the groundwork. The husband also wanted to help lay hands, but was pulled away by the mother-in-law, saying that the gentleman is far away from the kitchen, how can a man cook and cook? That's what a daughter-in-law should do.

There was no way to ask for help, and Zhang Qian finally made two hard dishes in the three-hour rush. But even so, he was still disgusted by his mother-in-law for moving too slowly, and everyone was hungry. Therefore, before Zhang Qian could clean up the kitchen, the in-laws spontaneously went to the table to eat, as if Zhang Qian was alone in the kitchen to do the aftermath.

By the time Zhang Qian was busy with hygiene and preparing to be served, many dishes had been left empty or turned into a mess, without a little appetite. Tired Zhang Qian, without the slightest appetite, left the table directly.

But before leaving the table, the mother-in-law did not let her go, said you don't go first, wait for everyone to finish eating, you put the dishes and chopsticks table away, and then go home, today everyone did not eat well, you can learn this cooking skill, the next dinner or you to take charge of the spoon.

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03, go to the hospital husband's room is empty

This remark of the mother-in-law made Zhang Qian's heart congested. It's just that she didn't say anything, not even her husband shouted, and directly took the bag and left. Just not far out of her in-laws' house, Zhang Qian, who was overworked, felt a sharp pain in her stomach.

Zhang Qian, who originally wanted to hold on to her home, had to turn to the hospital halfway. As a result, the doctor examined it, but directly announced that Zhang Qian was biochemically pregnant. Hearing that the child she had been looking forward to was gone, Zhang Qian cried like a child.

The husband who followed, after learning that Zhang Qian was pregnant with a child and miscarried, was heartbroken and directly slapped himself. And the mother-in-law still said cool words, saying that which woman is not pregnant and has a child, she is squeamish, do some housework and make some food and lose the child, too pretentious.

The mother-in-law tried to use these words to avoid her responsibility, but Zhang Qian still did not say a word. It wasn't until her parents rushed to the hospital that Zhang Qian left to return to her mother's house with her parents.

After Zhang Qian came out of Xiaoyuezi, the first thing she did was to divorce her husband and drive people out of the house and let others have two rooms. Isn't the husband foolish and filial, blindly obedient to his parents and brothers and sisters-in-law? Then get a divorce and let him live well with his parents and siblings.

The husband did not agree to the divorce, and also ran to Zhang Qianniang's house many times to apologize and plead. But Zhang Qian's heart had already died after losing that child. She did not want to live with such a man again, in front of her in-laws, her husband pushed his wife forward for the sake of face and filial piety.

The husband who returned to poverty overnight did not expect that because his parents instructed his wife to cook a meal, he had no children and family. But only Zhang Qian understood that it was her husband's foolish filial piety, and her mother-in-law's strength forced her to recognize the reality, and the marriage that was not right at the door could not really last.

Today's Topic:

Do you support Zhang Qian's divorce and stay away from foolish filial piety men?

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