Life in the world, having children, passing on the generations, is something that every family will experience. However, for most people, having children is not an easy task. From a medical point of view, giving birth to a child also requires certain conditions and skills, otherwise it may lead to the occurrence of various diseases. So, how can you get pregnant? For every mother, it is not an easy task to have a child, not only to experience october pregnancy, but also to linger in the ghost gate of pregnancy, although the current medical level is already very high, but there are still certain risks.
Having an adoptive heir has become an important part of the family, with many choosing to have one or two children and potentially facing hefty fines.
However, in real life, there is a mother who is addicted to having children. Her name is Li Li, she is 28 years old and is an ordinary rural woman. Last year, after Li Li became pregnant, in order to let her body develop healthily, she began to seek medical treatment everywhere, hoping to find a way to treat the disease. After having 7 children in 13 years and spending millions of dollars on social support alone, the 36-year-old now threatens to have 8 children if she can.
What kind of family background made her so debauched, all out of her own free will?
One. Life-changing moments
Rong Rong, the mother of the seventh child, from Jieyang, Guangdong, has five brothers and sisters, ranking third. In this big family, Rong Rong became a veritable "little princess", because she was very sensible from an early age and loved to learn and imitate. Rongrong's father and mother are a retired couple, and they both have pensions for more than 30 years. Her parents lived in an era when multiple births were common because everyone was looking forward to changing the family situation as much as they did, after all, one more person had more hope.
However, the burden of a large population is very heavy, and one more person is an extra pair of chopsticks, and the daily cost is very expensive. Therefore, when the child is in primary school, the parents begin the "hope to become a dragon" like the education program. However, due to limited economic conditions, most parents can only hope that their daughters will become outstanding students. Life is even more stressful for an already poor family.
My father was rich and powerful in his early years, but later found a way out, opened a business outside, and made some money. Before this, Rong Rong and his mother lived on their own meager wages, and their lives were very poor. One day, her mother told Rong Rong, "Now if you want to make money, you must first sell your house." However, within a few years, the company went bankrupt and plummeted, and the life of a family of seven changed dramatically, disappearing in the blink of an eye.
After this, Rong Rong's father became very depressed, not only angry, but also getting worse and worse, until he had to undergo medication.
RongRong's mother was very gentle, and after her husband's career declined, the family had to take care of herself.
At that time, she was working plums in a factory, and she only paid $300 a month, but most of it was spent on giving her husband medicine, and it can be said that since then, the family has struggled to maintain food and clothing.
The children of the family were forced to drop out of junior high school because they did not have money to study.
After dropping out of school, Rong Rong began to work outside the home. In the newborn society, she faced many ups and downs, ostracized by her bosses and colleagues, but all of this she gritted her teeth and persevered, she knew that if she could not stand the only way to go back home, she was out to make money. However, when she saw her parents running around to make ends meet, she felt helpless. Because their parents have been working outside the home for many years, their income is limited, and their mother is not in good health, so the family's financial situation is very difficult. Thinking of her family's plight, she had to suffer in silence.
After working for a few years, she also saved some money. In order to change her son's new clothes, she deposited all the money in the bank. Now, she plans to use the money to buy a house and then buy a new mobile phone for her son. "I want to buy a second-hand house right now!" After sending some home, I saved some to buy a new phone.
But just as she took $1,500 out of the TELLER and prepared to go to the business hall, danger crept up on her without her knowledge.
Before she could withdraw her money, someone was looking at her. It was the weekend and she was riding her bike home. She had just put the money in her bag when she heard someone shouting, "Why don't you go yet?" She looked up and it turned out to be a group of men in civilian clothes. When she reached the sparsely populated area, a gust of wind blew through and her shoulder strap broke, and by the time she was able to react, the motorcycle duo had long since disappeared with her belongings.
Rong Rong, who had just turned 18, experienced such a thing, and was overwhelmed for a while, so he had to crouch down and cry.
It took her a while before she thought of calling the police. That day, when she came home from work, she saw a middle-aged woman sitting on a neighbor's motorcycle, and she thought that if only she could buy a mobile phone, she said to the Biker Party, "I have 500 yuan." Fortunately, the 1,500 yuan she saved for her mobile phone was stolen by the gang of the Biker Party. It was also at this moment that a man walked in, comforted her, and accompanied her to the police.
It was this man who changed her life, they met as if they were destined, he always stood up to protect her, did not let Rong Rong go through the worst and most desperate days of his life, and gave her some money from time to time to make her life less tight.
The two got along better and better and soon became boyfriend and girlfriend. Together, the two like to dress themselves up and hope that they can become a beautiful and attractive person. Both like to wear designer clothes and like to dress up beautifully. Both love to travel. The man was also very generous, selling his family's necklace in order to make his girlfriend happy, and then taking RongRong to Guilin to play.
Two years after their marriage, Rong Rong knew that her boyfriend's family was actually very good, but her parents did not ask her to pay an expensive dowry, because they thought that doing so was different from selling their daughter.
However, the custom must not be less, so only 13800 yuan as a symbolic bride price, in today's society want to marry a wife, the bride price money alone is enough headache, fortunately to raise a son for a lifetime, but also to spend half a lifetime of savings to pay the bride price, which makes many families prohibitive.
Second, Bao Mama is crazy?
After marriage, although the glory is virtuous, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still inevitable, and the mother-in-law's life is not so difficult, but it is a little cold to her.
There was no other reason, but I felt that Rong Rong was weak and that childbirth was a big problem in the eyes of her mother-in-law. So, at the request of her mother-in-law, she decided to marry her son to a man surnamed Li. This man' surname is Li Jianming, and he is a person with certain cultural accomplishment and economic strength. He is Rongrong's husband. In their families, heirs are very important, and if you take a daughter-in-law, you can't have children, you destroy the incense inheritance.
The mother-in-law's worries were quickly dispelled by Rong Rong, and a year later, Jung successfully gave birth to the family's first child, the eldest daughter.
The birth of the child also improves the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, making the family more harmonious. This day will always be a beautiful and warm day in my memory, it was the first time I saw my daughter. When my daughter landed on the ground, my husband and I were surprised: this was the first time I had seen my daughter! But no one thinks that's just the beginning.
The following year, Rong Rong became pregnant again. Her father was an authentic farmer who ran a small workshop in the area. His mother was a beautiful girl who had not had children since she married him. Rong Rong is a typical Chinese. The good news of the birth of a boy 10 months after the adoption of the child is another good news for the family, although the man and woman have long faded from social vision, but the family still looks forward to having a son to inherit the family inheritance.
A man and a woman, the dragon and phoenix are auspicious. The couple has been living together for more than two years and the relationship has always been good. Their first child was born in April this year, and his name was Rong Rong. Both daughters are only children, and Rongrong's parents love them very much. This is the most ideal fertility list for every family, and I thought it was over, but RongRong was like a chicken, not satisfied with having two children but wanting a third. She wanted her mother-in-law to know that she was no worse than any other woman in terms of childbirth, so having a third child was part of her plan.
In the third year, the year of the Olympic Games, RongRong became pregnant and gave birth to her third child.
The mother-in-law smiled and closed her mouth, especially the thought of taking these four children to see relatives and friends on New Year's Day, and the red envelopes of relatives and friends were getting softer and softer.
The successive births of four little ones brought endless joy to the family, but the family was in the planned parenthood stage at the time, and the family paid nearly $1 million for social support alone.
There seems to be nothing to be sorry about being in pairs of four, even considering their current family situation, if they have another child, it is tolerable, but the pressure is great, so we all have tacit understanding and decide to end the day. In such a situation, children will have more opportunities to receive the love and education of their parents, thus forming a good family style. The impact of this fine family style on people is very huge. This is an indisputable fact. But man is not as good as the sky.
Eight years later, Rong Rong unexpectedly became pregnant. Her doctor said she already had five children, three of whom were girls, one was a boy and two were baby girls. Rong Rong wanted to beat all five of the children down, but in the end he didn't succeed. The pregnancy confused her, and this fifth child was not in her plans at all, so it was difficult to get her to leave.
She asked her family for advice first, but both her husband and mother-in-law advised her to take it away, after all, having children is a painful thing for women, and how many people have tried once or twice, but are reluctant to try a third time.
However, at this moment, her second son ran to her with tears in his eyes and said to her, "Mom, please don't beat your brother off, I will take good care of him in the future." ”
Rong Rong was very touched to hear this, and she made up her mind that since the birth of the child was the will of Providence, she would get it anyway.
At this time, Rong Rong's position in the family was already different, and she could say many things in one sentence.
Instead of being a full-time housewife like other women, she started her own business and was very successful, not only opening a home clothing factory, but also opening a jewelry company and her own cosmetics brand.
A success story highlights that she is a strong woman, so she has absolute dominance in the family, and she insists on having a fifth child, which no one can stop.
Three. Brilliant record
By the time her fifth child was born in October 2016, RongRong had begun a new life, and now she was self-sufficient and able to support more children.
Financially autonomous, she didn't care, and sometimes she wondered what a great career it would be to have a basketball team, and in the days that followed, she gave up trying and decided to have a basketball team as soon as she became pregnant.
So in 2018, she gave birth to her sixth child, and in 2019, she miraculously became pregnant again, and although her husband strongly opposed her to having another child, she gave birth to a seventh child, and the family's evaluation of her was crazy.
Many netizens want to know, so many children, can a family bring children?
However, their family does not need these worries, and only needs a few nannies and financial conditions to support her waywardness.
She was also asked why she had so many children and her reaction was surprising.
She thinks her husband's genes are good, 140IQ is unusual, and it would be a waste not to seize the opportunity to have more.
In the face of so many children, of course, there will inevitably be a scramble for affection, and many parents of families are overwhelmed by family affection, and even a bowl of water is difficult to balance.
However, it doesn't seem to exist in this extended family, where seven children get along well, and the older children will always consciously take care of their younger siblings, not to mention the kinds of simple chores that these children will take turns doing.
Even when the mother came home from work, a group of children greeted her at the door, some helping her with slippers, some helping her massage, some pouring tea for her, and more booing and greeting warmth, the mild weather was fascinating.
After a short break, she would cook for the children and settle down one by one.
Surrounded by them, her life became colorful, and although the queen only enjoyed a few minutes a day and then paid like a servant, it all seemed so sweet.
After sharing her story on social platforms, she attracted countless fans.
Before long, she became an Internet celebrity, with the increase of popularity, more and more merchants saw her business opportunities and offered to cooperate with her, but she did not care too much, but more and more merchants invited her to advertise shooting, giving her a large amount of money.
She just wanted to share her life there and she didn't want to change it for any other reason. To end the business, she overcharged and made an unreasonable offer, saying that a one-minute advertising video would cost $100,000. Her reasoning was "I'm not fighting alone!" But in reality, she was pulled down by these merchants because her advertising videos were deleted by them by various means. How should she face it? Want to stop these businesses.
But no one expected that instead of retreating, they would rush to work with her, and there were many more people, more than 100 people. "The current market is really hard to do!" One consumer told reporters, "People are too lazy right now!" "Actually, it's an interesting topic. If you want to make money, where do you spend it? One hundred thousand, 100 is ten million, there is a lot of business, who has the courage to turn it away.
However, Rong Rong, a mother of seven, is upset about the money she earns so quickly, and she doesn't want her children to have such unrealistic dreams of getting rich in the future, because the money that is earned quickly is often spent quickly.
Motherhood herself should set an example for her children, and every step should be a down-to-earth step.
In general, a woman who is well married is incapable of living the best life possible. If you want to be happy, you have to make yourself a woman. Women should learn to use wisdom to control life, know how to change the world with actions, and know how to use wisdom and courage to overcome all difficulties and setbacks. Only in this way can we have our own future! Always take the initiative into her own hands, then her life will be more confident, even wayward capital.
Having seven children is something that every family can't imagine, and facing a fine, not to mention from young to adulthood, and even getting married, is a huge amount of money without foundation.
Rong Rong in this article is obviously lucky that she not only has a good husband, but also has her own successful career, allowing her to be so capricious in many situations.