As the saying goes, "Many children and many blessings!" ”
This sentence is the anti-scale of young people in today's society, not to mention having children, even marriage has to be a little later, after all, youth is fleeting, and it is necessary to enjoy it in time.
However, there is a mother in 86 years who has given birth to 7 children in a row, and has become popular on a social platform, known as "Shippo Mother" Rongrong.
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One can't help but wonder, why did she have so many children? Is there any inhumane secret behind this?
Family difficulties, dropped out of school to go out to work
Rong Rong is a native of Jieyang, Guangdong Province, born in 1986, her original family is not rich, even poorer than ordinary families, which also exercises her self-reliant character.
In the early years, RongRong's father's business was very large, but later unfortunately went bankrupt, his temper became extremely grumpy, his health became worse and worse, and he could not even go out to work.
After a few years, the burden of the family was all on Rong Rong's mother alone.
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Rong Rong's family has 5 brothers and sisters, and she is the third oldest. Because the family's income was very small, the other four children dropped out of school one after another, leaving them with the honor of studying better.
Sensible, she wants to share the difficulties for her family and has the idea of going out to work.
When Rong Rong informed his family of the plan, his brother and sister immediately raised objections, and his mother, who had always been gentle, asked angrily: "What can you do without going to school when you are young?" ”
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The atmosphere in the home instantly froze to the freezing point, and little Rong Rong did not even dare to breathe in the atmosphere.
After a while, the calmed mother soothed the frightened Rongrong, and the mother lamented the miserable fate.
In order not to worry his mother, Rong Rong could only put on his school bag again and return to the campus.
Although everyone in Rong Rong's family is working hard for a better future, the miserable life has no intention of letting them go.
Rong Rong's father suddenly fell ill and needed maintenance treatment.
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As the pressure of life continued to increase, Rong Rong's mother had to go to work in the factory. When she returned early, her body gradually became overwhelmed and she fainted in the workshop.
The class teacher told Rong Rong, who was in class, and told her to take good care of her mother.
Rong Rong rushed to the hospital, and when she saw her mother's miserable white face, she suppressed tears for a long time. It wasn't until my brother and sister arrived that my mood stabilized.
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The doctor said: "The patient is malnourished, coupled with overwork, so there is a fainting situation, and it is good to rest for a while." ”
Rong Rong secretly felt guilty, feeling that he was dragging down his mother. She decided to drop out of school to work and take good care of her mother.
The older brother and sister saw the determined look on their sister's face and did not raise any more objections.
In this way, only the first Chinese Rong Rong began her own struggle, and she vowed to give her mother the richest life.
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Moreover, little Rong Rong decided to become an "unmarried" because he saw his mother's tired work for the family, and lived only for himself for the rest of his life, without worrying about family chores.
This idea was shattered by the appearance of a man, who was Rongrong's husband.
Meet true love and develop your own career
After dropping out of school, Rong Rong initially worked alone in society, because of insufficient education, coupled with minors, he could only do the hardest and most tiring work.
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Entering the factory to make screws, washing shoes on the street, etc., three hundred and sixty lines, each with its own difficulties.
Fortunately, RongRong endured hardships and stood hard work, faced difficulties, and regarded setbacks as stepping stones for future careers. But she was alone and still encountered risks.
On that day, Rong Rong saved up several years of salary to buy a mobile phone of 1500 yuan and put it in his bag together with his bank card. She carried her bag to the station, ready to buy a ticket home.
However, halfway through, he suddenly rushed out of the biker party and directly snatched the bag away.
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Rong Rong did not react quickly, and directly fell to the ground, watching the wages of the hard work being taken away. Although the case was later reported, it was not monitored, and Rong Rong could not see the appearance of the robber, which could only be a dumb loss.
Rong Rong walked on the road, the more he thought about it, the more aggrieved he became, and he couldn't help but sob. This scene was just seen by the man who drove by, and the man quietly followed behind, and then drove in front of Rong Rong.
After the man got out of the car, he handed Rong Rong a tissue and left his contact information: "If you need help in the future, you can call me!" ”
Rong Rong and her husband
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After that, Rong Rong wanted to understand one thing, that is, only if he was strong, he could not be bullied. She wants to start a business, she wants to make more money, she wants to be the enviable landlady.
At the beginning of the 21st century, the wave of reform and opening up swept the country, and countless people realized the dream of "getting rich overnight", and Rong Rong also aimed at such a good opportunity and began the "gold test" cause of the big wave of sand and sand.
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Rong Rong first put the entrepreneurial goal on the clothing industry, because of insufficient funds, she could only ask people to borrow money, but everyone was very distrustful of the little girl's career, and few people were willing to lend her.
Rong Rong understood everyone's concerns, and every time she borrowed a sum of money, she wrote down an IOU, promising to return the time and additional interest, and finally solemnly signed the pledge, indicating that she would return it no matter what!
Friends and family were impressed by the little girl's determination and paid for her to start a business.
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Rong Rong worked hard to show his ambitions in the garment industry and successfully earned the first pot of gold.
But she did not stop the pace of progress, once again set her eyes on jewelry, made a lot of money, and then focused on skin care products, set up her own brand.
With the greater and larger career ambitions, Rongrong's value is also rising, and his family living standards are naturally moving towards prosperity.
During this time, Rong Rong and the man driving the car always kept in touch, coming and going, exchanging affection.
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The previously insisted idea of non-marriage has also been shattered by the emergence of the right person.
Rong Rong's husband is a high-achieving student who graduated from Peking University, and his parents are in business. After meeting both parents, the wedding date was set for an auspicious day.
Even if the man's family is prominent, Rong Rong's father insists on only 138 million yuan of dowry, he said that there is a meaning on the line, do not want others to say that his family is greedy for money.
Under the witness of relatives and friends of both sides, Rong Rong, who is less than 20 years old, entered the palace of marriage.
The tedious daily life did not disrupt the sweet two-person world of the two, and even became the catalyst for the couple's feelings, and the love was very sweet.
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"Getting married and having children" are two major life events, the completion of the former, the latter will follow.
After getting married, Rong Rong was too young and had his own career, so there was no rush plan for the matter of "devoting himself to the family".
But the in-laws are very concerned, especially Rongrong's mother-in-law, she is sad all day long, worried that her daughter-in-law is weak and will not be able to have children in the future.
But later, RongRong's performance made her mother-in-law applaud continuously, and even gave birth to a little worry.
Children are constantly being born, and the family can afford to raise them
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Children are the lubricant of married life and can make the family more complete and happy. As a strong woman, although Rong Rong is accustomed to the storm in the business field, he also imagines the scene of the baby lying in his arms.
With the help of her husband, Rong Rong took good care of his body and actively prepared for pregnancy.
In 2006, Rong Rong became pregnant. The whole family loves like a baby, hoping that the first child will give birth to a son, so that when he grows up, he can inherit the family's business.
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Unfortunately, October was a cute little girl, and although her in-laws were a little disappointed, she poured all her attention into it, and even built a baby room.
Rong Rong knew his mother-in-law's expectations, and soon became pregnant again, and gave birth to a son the following year.
The happy life of both children and daughters is unattainable for countless people, and the marriage concept of contemporary young people is to have fewer eugenics, and two children are already the limit of parenting.
After discussing with her husband, Rong Rong decided to live a good life for a family of four. But the "good pregnancy" did not plan to stop there.
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In 2008, Rong Rong became pregnant for the third time, and during the pregnancy test, the doctor congratulated her: "Yes twins!" ”
This serendipity made Rong Rong feel that it was a gift from heaven, and she decided to give birth, and her family was very supportive.
Although the twins' production pressure is much heavier than that of a single baby, and even life-threatening, Rong Rong did not give up.
To everyone's surprise, this time it was two sons. The mother-in-law smiled and closed her mouth, directly praising Rong Rong as a lucky star of her family, specifically to "open branches and leaves" for her family!
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Nowadays, families with four children are rare, even for the old-minded in-laws, it is enough to be complete, without any regrets.
Rong Rong's husband also advised her: "Don't give birth again, stop here!" ”
Rong Rong thought about it for a long time and decided to "seal his belly" and raise his three sons and one daughter well.
However, seven years have passed, Rong Rong's stomach has moved again, but "want" or "don't", the whole family has a dispute.
RongRong's husband first objected, on the one hand, he was worried about Rongrong's body, and on the other hand, he did not have much energy to take care of it.
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After all, today's children are not as simple as "eating enough to wear warm clothes", which requires parents to invest money and time, as well as correct ideological guidance.
Rong Rong is also a little troubled, because the prenatal and postnatal body recovery will last a long time, and her career is in an upward period, and there is no room for a little mistake.
When Erbao (Rongrong's second son), who was born in 2007, learned about it, he cried and begged his mother to give birth to the child, saying that he liked his brother very much and would take good care of his younger brother and sister.
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In addition, the 8-year-old second son is also worried about Rongrong's body: "My mother said that if I hit it, it would affect my body, and I didn't want my mother to be hurt." ”
Because of his son's words, Rong Rong ignored her husband's objections and insisted on giving birth to the fifth son, who was a son.
As soon as she opened her stomach, she became more and more uncontrollable.
In February 2018, Rong Rong gave birth to a daughter, and in 2019, Rong Rong became pregnant again and gave birth to a boy.
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Rong Rong's husband saw the situation and thought that he could not be born again, so he went to the hospital for sterilization. Although he was a little dissatisfied in his heart, after learning about RongRong's concept of fertility, there was also a change.
Can't help but be curious, because for women, giving birth to a child is to slip around before the ghost door closes, and physical fitness and other aspects will be affected, but why should Rong Rong have so many children?
Elders influence and don't want to waste good genes
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Although Rongrong's parents did not live well, Rongrong's grandparents were a pair of fairy lovers, and the two had a total of six children, including entrepreneurs, professors and doctors, who were successful parents, and they were a good example of loving fathers and strict mothers in front of their children.
Rong Rong said: "Grandpa is the person I most admire, he teaches his children to be serious and responsible, and his children are also very filial and loving. ”
It is precisely because of her grandfather's personal demonstration and persuasion that Rong Rong understands that the love and education of a family can be passed on, and she also has the idea of creating a big family.
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To this end, Rong Rong also specially formulated "family rules": parents should not quarrel in front of their children; accept the mediocrity of their children; do not deceive their children; do not criticize their children in front of people.
In order to get along with the children on an equal footing, the Rong Rong family has a "weekly meeting", where the whole family sits together and can say any opinions they have, learn and progress from each other.
Moreover, Rong Rong has many children and multiple children, but also in order to inherit the excellent genes of the couple.
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Because RongRong's husband's IQ is as high as 140, this kind of genius is only 1% in the world, such as Einstein and Hawking, after Einstein's death, his brain was cut into 240 pieces by humans to study.
Although Rong Rong does not have such a high IQ, his appearance is outstanding in the crowd. She once said: "I don't want to waste my husband's high intelligence, I hope that my children can fight for it!" ”
And the performance of the sons and daughters proves that Rongrong's persistence is correct.
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The seven children are well-behaved and sensible, understand the mother's dedication to the family, and also understand that their parents cannot take care of the whole family because of sometimes busy work, and then take care of each other, do not run or make trouble, very literate.
Every time you go out, you basically don't have to worry about RongRong, you only need to be responsible for beauty and enjoyment. Children are "big and small", such as the old three pipe old seven, the old two pipe the old six, the old pipe the old five, and the old fourth is responsible for all kinds of miscellaneous things.
Once Rong Rong was ill, the eldest two elders and three took turns to stay in front of the bed to take care of it, which was very intimate. Every time Rong Rong came back late from work, the warm man would stay at the bathroom door and wait for his mother to wash up, he said: "I am worried that my mother is too tired and will fall down inside." ”
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Today, Rong Rong is 34 years old, she is still beautiful and independent, and she has her own career. In addition to being busy, she will also share her family life on a video platform, attracting a large number of fans to watch, and have praised Rongrong as a brand of women in the new era.
With the increasing popularity, some brands continue to talk to her about cooperation, and even give 100,000 yuan an advertising fee to ask her to endorse her own products.
Although the businessman is very profitable, but RongRong insists that "a gentleman loves money and has a way", so she does not want to try and set a bad example for her children.
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Now RongRong is still making great achievements in her career, and each of her children has thrived under a good education and achieved a better life.
I have to say that the glory of daring to have 7 children has a courage that ordinary people cannot reach. After she stepped into marriage, she did not rely entirely on the success of her husband's family, but worked hard to run herself.
In the vast world, all sentient beings, everyone has a unique way of life, but also has their own difficulties. However, happiness is always in our hands, and the wealth that adds to the icing on the cake and the strength of the mud struggle can have different happiness.
The heavens and the earth are big, and the happiness is the greatest!