"This house was bought by my mother's family, and the little uncle wants to come and live there, but the trouble is to give half the house money!"

01.

This man, no matter what age he is, must be clear and reasonable.

As long as it is done, the general later life will not be too bad.

If you rely on the old and sell the old, you have to make inches, and in the end you often ask for food.

My mother-in-law is the second type, fighting for our filial piety, inching forward, and finally making everyone unhappy, and also affecting themselves to a certain extent.

My husband and I are college classmates, and although the relationship between the two is not vigorous, we have never been red in love at first sight.

From the beginning of my freshman year, I went all the way to graduate school.

His hometown is in the countryside, and it can be said that reading is the only way out, so after graduating from graduate school, he wants to continue to study for a doctorate.

My family is in this city, my parents are university professors, and to tell you the truth, I also want to continue my studies.

In fact, there is still a gap between our two families in terms of family conditions, and the reason why my parents agreed to this marriage.

It is entirely because my husband is a person, my parents feel that he is good to me, self-motivated, and practical.

My parents believe that economic conditions can work together, but good character is the basis of a happy marriage. Later, it turned out that my parents did not look at the wrong person.

02.

When our parents graduated from graduate school, they wanted us to get married first, saying that marriage would not affect continuing our studies, and that we had a family and no worries.

But my husband is still very hesitant, I am quite surprised, after all, we have gone through all these years, we have been in a good relationship, he did not spend the intestines ah.

Later, when I asked again and again, he told the truth, saying that he did not even save enough money for the down payment of the house, and did not have the face to marry me.

I was red-eyed, he has been saving, free time to work to make money, not only to give a little family, but also to save a sum of money.

So he has been in this big city for so many years, and he has too shabby except for a few good clothes that my parents and I bought him.

His efforts could have led to a good life, but he repeatedly mistreated himself in order to buy a house for us.

I said to him: Getting married and starting a family does not mean that if you have a house, you will be happy, as long as we have a good relationship, how about renting a house and getting married.

I'm good to say, and finally he agreed to get married.

The marriage room was bought by my parents, so it was time for me to marry.

My husband also took out his savings, but insisted on not writing his name on the house book, saying that he had a fraction, adding a name is too embarrassing, and he will not be comfortable living in the future.

I knew my husband was stubborn, so he didn't insist.

When I first bought a house, my husband wanted to buy the city center, which could be smaller, so that it was close to my mother's house.

But I insisted on buying a suburb, two-story duplex, and a lot of space.

My husband didn't understand it at first, but then he knew that I was going to pick up his parents to come and live, and the guests from my hometown could also live, so I bought a bigger one.

My husband is filial to his parents, although he is now in the big city and lives a decent life, he has never forgotten his parents in his hometown.

I often go back to visit my parents, bring gifts to money, and never forget my roots.

Because his hometown is relatively far away, it is very hard for him to go back and forth, so I have long thought of taking my in-laws to live after marriage.

When my husband heard my proposal, he blushed and said: You have this heart, I am very moved, let's go back and see more. My parents are uneducated, still have broken mouths, are more stubborn, live together, I am worried that you are not used to it.

03.

But I insisted, and I said to him: "The in-laws are old, come to the big city to follow their sons and daughters-in-law to retire, it should be." They are elders, no matter how many shortcomings, I can bear with it, everyone will be old."

At my insistence, the in-laws came over after more than a month, get along, my husband is actually not wrong, the in-laws have obvious shortcomings, unclear, unreasonable, and like to take advantage.

But I was mentally prepared to live my life.

In the end, it was unpleasant because of the fuse of the little uncle.

My husband also has a younger brother, and he has a headache himself.

The same mother's womb came out, and I didn't know how to make such a big difference. The little uncle did not like to learn from a young age, even if he did not like to learn after graduating from junior high school, he did not learn a technique to earn money to support his family.

I have been reaching out to my parents like this, asking my brother for money, and messing up to now.

However, the onlooker Qing, the little uncle is actually quite clever, he has become like this, entirely because of the in-laws doting.

People are inert, they can still live a good life without work, and how many people are willing to work hard. After the in-laws lived here for less than 2 months, the little uncle came over without greeting.

And once I lived for two weeks, I was also vaguely uneasy at first, I was willing to be under the same roof as my in-laws and give them a pension, but I did not want to raise a little uncle with hands and feet, and who was in his prime.

But then I thought that the little uncle was married, and he couldn't leave his wife and children in his hometown and live here alone.

So I didn't say much, but my husband kept asking when his brother would come home, but he was blocked by his mother.

In fact, I really did what I said, I have been hiding my patience, why didn't I hold back this time and quarreled. It's all because the mother-in-law has to get in.

A few days ago, it was almost midnight when I arrived home, and I found that my mother-in-law and uncle were still downstairs in the living room, and had not washed and slept as usual.

A face waiting for me to come back, there are important things to announce as well.

I guessed correctly, I put down my bag, changed my shoes, and my mother-in-law greeted me and said that she had something to tell me.

I didn't realize at the time that my mother-in-law was telling me that it was a decision, not a discussion with me.

While pouring boiling water for myself, I asked my mother-in-law what was so important.

The mother-in-law said with a serious face: My young son has no future in his hometown, so now he has decided to stay here and find a job, and in a few days he will go home to take his wife and children.

I was stunned, and my mother-in-law continued: My grandson's school, you let your mother and father find a way. The house has two floors above and below, just two brothers and one floor.

The mother-in-law was bold and said, that's how it was decided.

I was really angry, really, after my in-laws came over, I thought I was quite qualified as a daughter-in-law, but let me agree to the little uncle's family of three to move in together, which is impossible.

I tried to suppress the anger, and my mother-in-law said: The little uncle's family has lived here, it is not impossible, this house is my name, my mother's family bought it, the little uncle only needs to give me half of the room money.

As soon as my mother-in-law heard this, she became angry at the time, accusing me of being unfilial, cold-blooded and selfish, and difficult to hear anything.

Finally, I also called my husband, all kinds of black and white, adding oil and vinegar.

04.

The mother-in-law deliberately turned on the hands-free, thinking that her son would help her.

But her son knows his parents and knows me, and naturally knows what the essence of things is apart from these details.

He said sharply: "Mom, when you marry me, it is your daughter-in-law who has been wronged, but she insists on taking you over to the pension, and after you come, she has always followed you, and she has never been reluctant to spend money on you." Even if her brother had been living in this house for a month now, she didn't say anything."

"So, it's chilling that you say that your daughter-in-law is embarrassed for you." In addition, I don't agree with my brother's matter, he wants to come to the big city to work, he can, rent his own house and find a job. We could help but wouldn't bring the meal to our lips.

In addition, the house is indeed your daughter-in-law's name, she has the final say. If you make such a fuss again, then I will have to send you and my father back to my hometown. ”

The mother-in-law hung up the phone, did not say anything more, after a few days, the little uncle also returned to his hometown, the mother-in-law said that the little uncle is fickle, and does not want to work in the big city.

I didn't pick up the stubble, smiled, changed the subject, and asked my mother-in-law to go shopping together tomorrow weekend, it's almost the New Year, and buy you and your dad some clothes. The mother-in-law happily agreed.

I know a lot of people might say I'm too easy to let this thing pass.

But I was thinking that my husband was the one who had lived with me all his life, and as long as he could carry it clearly, know my difficulties, and know my goodness, I would be satisfied.

Although my in-laws are unreasonable and have many shortcomings, after all, they are my husband's parents, and I can do it without shame.

However, I still hope that the in-laws have experienced this matter, and the son has said so much, they can really listen to it, and they can be reasonable in the future.

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