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Sometimes the family is a warm and reliable harbor for us.
But sometimes it becomes a nightmare in life, leaving you with no escape.
The heroine in the next case met a difficult and terrible in-laws after marriage.
As the only daughter of the family, Wang Fang received two sets of dowry rooms given by her father when she got married.
She looks cute and has a good family, and she should have found a husband who is the right door.
But the timing was not good, and it was Liu Yongqiang, who married her, who came from a poor family.
Although Liu Yongqiang can have an income of nearly 10,000 yuan per month, he is a single-parent family and has a younger brother below.
And his younger brother only has a high Chinese, changed a lot of jobs in his hometown, and has been idle.
These family burdens made it impossible for him to buy a house in the city.
Even when in love, most of them are paid by Wang Fang.
Wang Fang's heart was soft, and after learning about Liu Yongqiang's family, she actually had an impulse to save him.
So after more than two years of love, Wang Fang agreed to Liu Yongqiang's marriage proposal.
It was said that it was a marriage proposal, but Liu Yongqiang could not take out anything that could be given in his hand.
The most basic wedding room can't be taken out, and he can't get the bride price.
I wanted to call my mother to discuss it, but my mother and brother asked for money.
There was no way, he could only make up his own loans, and he could barely come up with the money for the wedding banquet.
Wang Fang knew the difficulties of his family and did not want to embarrass him when he got married.
So she wasted all her strength to persuade her parents and resolutely prepared to marry Liu Yongqiang.
Wang Fang's father saw that his daughter was iron-hearted, so he confessed: "Fangfang, the female eldest is not left behind, and I and your mother can't stop you." But we only have one condition, that is, the dowry house can only be in your name, can you agree. ”
After all, Wang Fang's personality was stubborn, and he said without hesitation: "Dad, you can rest assured, he married me and did not value money." ”
Father snorted softly in his nose and did not speak again.
Soon the wedding was held smoothly, and the two also lived in the dowry room of Wang Fang's family.
This is the first time Liu Yongqiang has lived in such a good house, and it feels like a dream.
But he and his wife did not have a few days to live a stable life, and his mother called: "Qiangzi, you didn't blame me for not getting married, your brother fought with someone and broke his leg, he really can't leave." ”
Although Liu Yongqiang said that it was okay, there was a trace of bitterness in his heart.
Without waiting for the relief, the mother said: "Qiangzi, you are now living in a new house, and I have not seen my daughter-in-law here, so I bought a ticket to see you today." ”
Wang Yongqiang was still very happy when he heard it, and after cleaning up, he went to the station to pick up his mother.
After receiving their mother, the two talked and laughed along the way, and the mother also asked Wang Yongqiang if he wanted to prepare a red envelope for his daughter-in-law.
But Wang Yongqiang said no, so he took his mother home.
Wang Fang was very enthusiastic after seeing her mother-in-law, and she also went to the restaurant to order a good dish for her mother-in-law.
For several days in a row, Wang Fang called out to her mother affectionately, but her mother-in-law did not show any expression.
There was no waiting to change the mouth fee, and the mother-in-law always hinted that Wang Fang give her some filial piety money.
Wang Fang was not good at refuting her face, so she wrapped a red envelope of three thousand yuan at a time and gave it to her mother-in-law.
A few days later she asked her husband to pay the utility bills, but he said he had no money.
After inquiring carefully, I learned that my mother-in-law also asked Liu Yongqiang for some money.
She asked breathlessly, "Why does your mother want so much money, and do she still pay attention to me as a daughter-in-law?" ”
Liu Yongqiang could only comfort: "You don't know that my brother has not worked, my mother has been used to him since he was a child, it is estimated that my brother asked her for money, you have to bear more." ”
After this chat, Wang Fang learned that his brother was spoiled, not only did he not like to read, but he also fell into the vice of gambling.
At first, the family did not take it seriously, and it is estimated that in the past two years, the more they have played bigger and bigger, so that the family has also a lot of hearts.
Hearing this, Wang Fang felt a wave of disgust and fear in her heart, and this troublesome brother-in-law made her regret marrying Liu Yongqiang.
But she has just gotten married, and it is difficult to ride a tiger.
So she could only try to maintain her family and marriage, and did not let her parents worry about her.
And the mother-in-law saw that the daughter-in-law's family had money, so she asked Wang Fang for money several times, either to buy clothes or vegetables.
In fact, the money she wanted was privately subsidized by her younger son.
Wang Yongqiang also privately told his mother that he should restrain a little, let alone indulge his brother's gambling, and then suffer endlessly.
But every time the mother is simply perfunctory, and says that children grow up to understand things.
Several times down, Wang Yongqiang didn't bother to take care of his brother's affairs.
But Na Cheng thought, his incomplete brother could poke a big basket.
It turned out that he had recently lost gambling and owed a lot of money to others.
When the old lady heard the news, her back sweated in fright and her eyes darkened.
She trembled and told her son Wang Yongqiang, but he could only be in a hurry.
Because he had never had much money in his hands, now he could only persuade his mother to sell his old house to pay off the gambling debt.
But when the old lady heard that the house was sold, she refused to do so, and even asked her son to find a way to sell Wang Fang's house.
She had to say that she had a house and sold it and had no place to live. And the daughter-in-law has two suites, and this section must help.
Seeing that her son had been hesitating, the old lady sat on the ground and cried. He also said that if he couldn't get his daughter-in-law's house, her family would not be able to survive.
Wang Yongqiang's heart softened, and he decided to go home and discuss the matter with his wife.
But just halfway through talking to his wife, Wang Fang started a fire: "Your mother took the wrong medicine, that's the house my parents gave me, your brother is old!"
Wang Yongqiang heard that his face was very faceless, and he quarreled with his wife for a while, and the two slept in separate rooms that night.
For several days in a row, Wang Yongqiang was looking for an opportunity to bargain with his wife, but they all broke up unhappily.
And Wang Fang completely chilled her husband because of this incident, and also began to fear the bottomless pit of her in-laws.
She consulted a lawyer to protect her property and then filed a divorce lawsuit in court.
At this time, Wang Yongqiang did not expect that his wife would divorce her, and he wanted to call to keep her but found that he could not get through.
He could only rent a house temporarily and find a way.
The mother and brother of the old family have been waiting for his news, and finally the old lady can't help but call: "Son, do you have any news here?" People here are collecting debts, and the underworld is scary. ”
Seeing that Wang Yongqiang had not been speaking, the old lady said again: "Didn't your mother say, son, your daughter-in-law married two suites, sold one set to your brother to pay off the debt, you still have a set!"
Wang Yongqiang smiled bitterly at this time: "Mom, you don't think about beautiful things, I don't have a room." Wang Fang has divorced me, and I rent a house now. ”
The old lady was speechless on the other end of the phone, and suddenly her heart was cramping, and she almost didn't go back.
Although Wang Yongqiang was divorced, it seemed that the throat that was strangled by his mother had a trace of air entering...
The hero in the case, in the bottomless exploitation of his mother, finally paid the price of divorce.
This tells us that marriage is not only inseparable from the families and backgrounds of both parties, but also makes us understand the following two truths.
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First: there is a degree of help, and there must be no excessive "subsidies" between close relatives.
Family affection should be the most selfless emotional connection in the world.
But there are always selfish parents, so that family affection has become a moral magic weapon to satisfy selfish desires.
In many multi-child families, it is easy for parents to favor one of these children.
Not only do you dedicate your love and energy, but you also want other children who are not valued to help him get biased.
This unfair approach is undoubtedly ruining the life of another child.
Therefore, after understanding this, every child who is not valued by his parents must learn to protect himself.
Treat relatives who are not worthy of help, let alone risk their own interests and lives.
Know that your over-subsidy cannot be exchanged for the affirmation and attention of others.
Your "selfless dedication", in the eyes of your loved ones, may be just a tool for profit.
Remember that in the adult world, the first thing is to learn to be independent and learn to love yourself.
You must know that there is no bottom line of help, but it is an act of harming others and harming yourself.
And the one who ends up eating the consequences of self-inflicted evil is precisely the one who is the most stupid.
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Second: In the face of the in-laws' "blunt knife cutting meat", women should refuse in time.
Women's situation is always more difficult in families where exploitation and eccentricity exist.
As the saying goes: love the house and wu, so when the husband is not valued by the in-laws, it is even more bitter as his wife.
When your husband is exploited and exploited by your in-laws, you will naturally not let go of your daughter-in-law.
If a woman's husband can be sensible and measured, there is still room for salvation.
Afraid of encountering a husband like in the case, not only did he not dare to refute his mother's accusations against his brother, but he really ran home to let his wife sell the house.
Such a confused man, as his wife, did leave early and good.
Even if he knew in his heart that his mother was doing something wrong, he was already guilty of an unforgivable sin when he did not take practical action to protect his wife.
Therefore, in marriage, women should also remain rational and sober at all times.
The in-laws have to move in again and again, like every blunt knife cutting meat.
This kind of temptation must be rejected in time and stay away as soon as possible.
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In fact, every family has a difficult scripture to read.
Therefore, whether it is relatives or mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't embarrass each other anymore.
After all, life is short, and it is not easy for us to come together to become relatives and lovers.
It is better to be considerate and cherished, and to care about everyone around you.
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