Filial piety to parents is a traditional virtue that the Chinese nation has been promoting, and most people can remember the efforts of their parents, and when they are capable, they can serve their parents as much as possible and send them to the end of their lives.
But there are also some people, for various reasons, who do not take on the corresponding responsibilities, and even when their parents die, they do not come back to see them.
For example, the controversial Peking University doctor Wang Yongqiang is a very typical example, he took the opportunity to go abroad that year, cut off contact with his family, and did not return after 20 years of absence.
Before the mother was seriously ill and dying, she especially wanted to see him, and with the help of people from all walks of life, through the network platform, released a message to find her son, and the result was that the matter of mother and son, because of the extreme controversy, soon caused countless netizens to discuss.
At first, everyone agreed that wang Yongqiang, the son of the missing contact, was an irresponsible white-eyed wolf who criticized him.
In the face of public doubts, Wang Yongqiang, as a party concerned, confided the truth and complained to everyone that "blood sucking" parents left me with nowhere to escape.
What happened to Wang Yongqiang when he was young, and why did he describe his parents so much? According to some information, Wang Yongqiang was born in 1969, and there are 3 children in the family, and he is the youngest in the family.
After going to school, he has always had good grades because of his cleverness and cleverness, but his parents at home are reluctant to let him continue to study, and they all want him to give up his studies as soon as possible and go to work early to earn money to subsidize the family.
Wang Yongqiang, who has been educated, knows that only knowledge can change fate, and in order to make his parents change their minds, he stressed to his parents more than once that he must learn more cultural knowledge in order to find a good job in the future.
Unfortunately, his parents did not understand Wang Yongqiang's bitterness, insisted on letting him drop out of school, in order to maintain his studies, Wang Yongqiang had a big fight with his parents, and later carried a bag of flour, walked more than 50 kilometers to school.
After going to college, Wang Yongqiang received subsidies from the school because of his relatively good grades, and also received a scholarship given by the school.
Wang Yongqiang knew that his family was difficult, and after getting the subsidies given by the school, he sent them all home, and he himself took the remaining scholarships and barely maintained his life, and when he really had no money, he earned some hard money through part-time work.
Wang Yongqiang originally thought that after he sent the school subsidy home, his parents would understand his hardships and support his studies, but the development of the facts was unexpected.
Wang Yongqiang's parents, instead of understanding him, went all the way to the university to ask him for money, and if they didn't give it, they made a big fuss at the school.
Wang Yongqiang, afraid of causing unnecessary trouble, sadly and indignantly took out what little savings he had, barely meeting his parents' requirements.
After his parents left with the money, Wang Yongqiang was shy and starved for several days, relying on hard work to barely earn some money for food.
After suffering for a period of time, Wang Yongqiang, who studied hard, was admitted to graduate school, and the subsidy given by the school also rose to 72 yuan.
Wang Yongqiang, who was already hungry and scared, did not tell his parents about the school subsidy, and secretly saved the increased subsidy.
Later, the parents accidentally learned of this matter, and came to the school again to ask for money, this time the matter was very big, attracted the attention of many students, wang Yongqiang was also coldly watched by many people.
Even so, Wang Yongqiang still did not give up his studies and still studied in school. Later, he took the doctorate, and his parents, instead of rejoicing in this, felt that he had been studying and delaying his work to make money, and repeatedly asked him to leave the school as soon as possible and take up a position in a unit.
Wang Yongqiang ignored his parents' demands and insisted on going to Beijing to study. I thought that I would be able to stay away from my parents when I came to Beijing, but my parents still came to me and asked Wang Yongqiang to arrange a good job for my brother.
Wang Yongqiang's brother is a disabled person, it is difficult to find a job on his own, and he has been relying on his parents to take care of him.
Wang Yongqiang also knew that his brother's situation was very bad and he really needed a job, but he finally refused his parents' request.
At that time, Wang Yongqiang was just a student who was studying, not a cadre in the school, and even if he wanted to arrange a job for his brother, he couldn't find a way. After being rejected, Wang Yongqiang's parents were very angry and reprimanded him fiercely.
Later, Wang Yongqiang met a girl, and the two established a relationship because they truly loved each other. Before getting married, Wang Yongqiang contacted his parents at home, hoping that they would come to the wedding, but his parents took the opportunity to ask him for 1,000 yuan as a travel fee.
This money was equivalent to Wang Yongqiang's 10-month living allowance at the time, and he had already spent a lot of money on marriage and could not come up with 1,000 yuan, so his parents did not attend the wedding in the end.
Wang Yongqiang knew that the situation in his family was very bad, and he did not tell his wife about the situation in his family as much as possible, but the result was still exposed.
When she first learned about the situation of Wang Yongqiang's parents, her wife chose to understand and tolerate, barely maintaining for a period of time, and she desperately found that Wang Yongqiang's parents, like a bottomless pit, always wanted to find opportunities to ask for money, and if they were slightly dissatisfied, they broke their mouths and scolded.
In the end, Wang Yongqiang's wife chose to divorce because she really couldn't stand such a life. The departure of his wife's cruel heart caused a bigger blow to Wang Yongqiang.
He became increasingly dissatisfied with what his parents had done, and even had the idea of running away from them completely. After several turns, Wang Yongqiang found the opportunity to go abroad, and after arriving in the United States, he gave up his Chinese identity and completely cut off contact with his family.
Time rushed, 20 years passed quickly, Wang Yongqiang thought that he had completely got rid of the original family, but it turned out to be because of his mother's deathbed request, which attracted the attention of countless people.
In the face of reprimands and criticism from all walks of life, Wang Yongqiang, who thought he was very wronged, indignantly said his past experience. Wang Yongqiang's brother later said that his brother had not returned home, and there was indeed something unspeakable.
In general, Wang Yongqiang's family is indeed very complicated, he frequently quarreled with his parents in his early years because of his studies and money, and his experience was indeed lamentable.
Some people believe that Wang Yongqiang's parents gave him life, so that young him had the opportunity to learn. Although his parents did something excessive, he should not go away for 20 years, if he really wants to solve the problem, he can get along with his parents in a more appropriate way, rather than simply walking away.
There are also people who think that children should be grateful for the parents' efforts, but the children are not the slaves of the parents, the children also have the right to pursue their own happiness, Wang Yongqiang when he went to school, he has taken his own subsidies to give back to the parents as much as possible, the result is that the parents not only did not understand him, but made a big fuss, and even destroyed his family, Wang Yongqiang's final escape, completely forced by helplessness.
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