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He is Wang Yongqiang, a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University, and his rural parents have worked hard to cultivate him to grow up, but he disappeared after his studies, and even refused to see his seriously ill mother for the last time. There has been no contact with his parents for 20 years, why is Wang Yongqiang so desperate?
For 20 years, Wang Yongqiang's parents have not given up looking for him, but now his mother really can't wait, there is not much time left for her, there is really no way, so they went to the media for help, hoping to help them find their son.
The old man on the hospital bed looked haggard, and at first glance, he was tormented by illness, and the pleading eyes were revealed through the screen, making many people burst into tears.
For a time, many netizens were indignant and began to denounce Wang Yongqiang, calling him "unfilial", but the protagonist was hesitant to show his face.
The old man thought of his young son, the old man said that his young son is called Wang Yongqiang, from childhood are very obedient and sensible, the results are also very good, or Peking University postdoctoral fellows.
In 1999, Wang Yongqiang insisted on going to Japan to develop, who knew that he would never return, and even broke off contact with his family. Netizens have joined the ranks of finding people, or say that people are powerful.
Through the clues provided by the old man, netizens quickly found Wang Yongqiang. It turned out that Wang Yongqiang had already gone to the United States, and he had a very good job, a perfect family, and a very happy life.
However, when Wang Yongqiang learned the news that his mother was critically ill, he was not at all moved, as if it had nothing to do with him. What caused him to be so cold-blooded and ruthless, Wang Yongqiang said not to bother him anymore, he would not go back.
After this news was reported, netizens were angry and accused him of being a white-eyed wolf, and so many years of books were read in vain.
In that era, it took a lot of effort to cultivate such an excellent son, and I thought that I would be old and dependent, but I didn't expect that it would be difficult to even meet him now.
When Wang Yongqiang was admitted to the doctorate, he still had contact with his family, and he often communicated with his parents, and the words of concern in the letters were completely different from his current attitude. What causes a critically ill mother to turn a blind eye?
Wang Yongqiang was born in a rural family, the family life is not rich, who knows that his brother has another serious illness and disability, and his parents, who were expecting his brother to share the pressure on the family, have failed.
Because the family urgently needs a labor force, they can take care of their brothers in the future and earn money to help the family share the pressure. It can be said that his parents gave birth to him with great expectations, and Wang Yongqiang was doomed to his tragic fate from birth.
In that era, being able to eat enough was the only thing people pursued, and the only source of income in the family was to rely on their parents to sell rat poison to make ends meet, and parents were exhausted in order to be able to feed their children, and they simply did not have the energy to pay attention to their children's learning.
Although life is very poor, this does not affect Wang Yongqiang's love of learning at all, and he very much wants to change his current poor life.
There is only one way to learn in front of him, which further strengthens his idea of "reading changes his destiny".
Wang Yongqiang had a great talent in reading, his grades in school had always been among the best, and there was no cram school to study in that era, completely by his own ability.
Wang Yongqiang had excellent grades and sought rewards from his family, but he did not expect that his brother was jealous because of his brother's excellence, which made him hate the injustice of fate.
The dissatisfaction in the heart of the eldest brother will be vented out on him, and Wang Yongqiang has become the punching bag of the eldest brother. At first, he would still complain to his parents, but every time he got the result was that his brother was ill and wanted to let his brother go.
His parents did not feel that learning well would bring them anything, in their view, children do not need to learn too much knowledge, as long as they know words. Anyway, I will go out to work in the future, as long as I have a healthy body, I can earn money to support my family in the future.
Wang Yongqiang, who was admitted to middle school with excellent results, thought that he was one step closer to leaving the village, but his parents actually forced him to drop out of school, saying that he was the only labor force in the family, hoping that he could quickly go out to earn money.
He often talked about the children next door in his ear, saying that people have been working in the factory for a long time and made a lot of money, what is the use of you reading such books?
Although Wang Yongqiang had no way to refute it, he did not compromise. He used various methods to persuade his parents, and finally reached an agreement, Wang Yongqiang went to high school after half work and half study, which did not affect earning money.
Wang Yongqiang knows that learning is his only way out, he abandons all factors that affect him, and devotes all his energy to his learning.
His efforts were not in vain to be admitted to college, but Wang Yongqiang, who was full of expectations, was poured a basin of cold water by his father, saying that there is no money for you to go to college at home, so don't go.
For Wang Yongqiang, he had already stepped out of this poor place with one foot, how could he give up at this juncture and resolutely go to school.
During his college years, his parents had asked him to drop out of school many times, but Wang Yongqiang did not accept defeat and went on, and he also received the school bonus with excellent results, which made him reduce the pressure on his life a lot.
Thinking of his parents who worked hard at home, he did not hesitate to send some of his subsidies home.
Wang Yongqiang thought that the road ahead was bright, but he did not expect that this was the beginning of the nightmare.
But what I didn't expect was that since then, my parents have become more intense, often writing to him for money. You must know that Wang Yongqiang earns money and spends money on his own in college, but his parents have not given a penny, and Wang Yongqiang still has to rely on this money to go to school.
After learning about Wang Yongqiang's situation, the teacher reported to the school that the school's leaders and teachers were very distressed, they could not bear to see such excellent students, every day to eat a full meal and distracted, Soochow University decided to exempt Wang Yongqiang from tuition, as far as possible to help him solve the difficulties in life.
But so what, in the face of his parents' demands, Wang Yongqiang had no other choice. They saw that it was profitable, and instead of asking Wang Yongqiang to drop out of school, they intensified their oppression of him.
Even if he was later admitted to the Institute of Physics of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, his parents did not stop exploiting him, but he was still angry and strong, and became a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University in 1997.
At that time, it was already rare to be admitted to university, let alone admitted to peking university as a postdoctoral fellow. Wang Yongqiang became a proud talking point for his parents, and the neighbors who saw Wang Yongqiang's parents did not hesitate to praise him, which was very useful to Wang Yongqiang's parents, and they also had the confidence to speak in the village for a while.
His parents were at home receiving praise from their neighbors, but Wang Yongqiang was thrifty at school and had to send home some money withheld from his few food and clothing.
Not only that, the parents also bragged in the village, saying that their son had the ability, but in the future he would arrange work for his brother in the city, which was really bragging, Wang Yongqiang was just a student, who had the ability to arrange work for people, it was simply a fool's dream, Wang Yongqiang resolutely refused, for which his parents also had a big fight with him.
In the face of his parents' unreasonable teasing, Wang Yongqiang is no longer the child who was obedient to his parents before. The graduate student's bonus was still very rich, and his life was improved as never before, and this time Wang Yongqiang did not send the money back but saved it himself.
I thought I would hide the sky and cross the sea, but one day my parents went straight to the school to find him, and scolded Wang Yongqiang in front of many teachers and students for having no conscience, being a white-eyed wolf who was not familiar with feeding, and even secretly hid the scholarship for you to go to college, and there was a sick brother at home, did you ignore it?
Even if the students knew the truth of the matter, Wang Yongqiang could not argue with it, and the people in the school pointed at him and accused him of filial piety. Wang Yongqiang couldn't understand why his parents were doing this to him.
Wang Yongqiang had no choice but to take out all the money, which calmed the anger of his parents and left the school. His parents' behavior made him feel cold. After this incident, Wang Yongqiang was really disappointed in his parents.
While studying, Wang Yongqiang met the daughter of his doctoral supervisor, which brought light to her life, and the two encouraged each other to spend a good time. But his parents were very opposed, they thought that it was too expensive to fall in love, and it turned out that their parents only had themselves in their eyes, and they didn't care about his happiness at all.
Wang Yongqiang had already seen the true face of his parents and decided to marry his girlfriend despite their objections. After all, marriage is a big thing, and Wang Yongqiang still hopes that his parents can attend his wedding.
So he told his parents the news, not only did not receive blessings, his parents even released words, if you want us to attend the wedding banquet must give us 1,000 yuan appearance fee, this 1,000 yuan at that time is not a small amount, Ah, Wang Yongqiang was at a loss for a while. Have you ever heard of a showdown fee for attending your son's wedding? It's ridiculous.
Wang Yongqiang did not get used to his parents this time, resulting in only his uncle present at the wedding ceremony, and his mentor was still very unhappy.
After getting married, his parents still did not let him go. Often call to let me send money back to find a relationship to do things, etc., three days at both ends will be a whole time, do not agree to cry and make trouble, really take them no way.
Wang Yongqiang carefully hid this matter after remarrying, but after a long time, he would always show his horse's feet. At first, the wife was still very enthusiastic, but as the appetite of the parents grew, the tolerant wife could not stand it.
Because his wife proposed to go to Japan for further study at work, Wang Yongqiang thought about it again and again and told his parents the news. At first, his parents strongly opposed it, but Wang Yongqiang had already figured out the psychology of his parents and told them directly that he could earn a lot of money by going to Japan, and when he had saved enough money, he would go home and build a new house for you. Wang Yongqiang finally went to Japan with his wife as he wished.
When Wang Yongqiang arrived in Japan, he would talk to his parents on the phone twice a month, and he thought it was a scene of motherly kindness and filial piety, but he didn't expect that it was just a matter of asking for money and giving money.
Parents seem to have become accustomed to calling as soon as they need money, and Wang Yongqiang seems to be used to it, and every time his parents call, they transfer money to the past, and do not want to regenerate the incident. Because he knows that now he is not alone, he also has his own small family, and he does not want to be affected by his parents. But the result was still not what people wanted.
The parents were no longer satisfied with asking for money, and asked Wang Yongqiang to take them and their disabled brother as well. Originally, I had worked hard abroad on my own, but now that I had not established a foothold, how could I have the ability to pick them up?
Wang Yongqiang was forced to the point of near collapse, and his temper became very grumpy. Because his parents did not know how many times he had quarreled with his wife, his own family also needed to spend money, but the in-laws were like a bottomless pit, the wife could not see any hope, and with the passage of time, the feelings of the two were almost consumed. Finally, his wife filed for divorce.
Since then, Wang Yongqiang has hated his parents, and the little affection that Wang Yongqiang has left for his parents has completely dissipated at the moment of his wife's divorce.
Wang Yongqiang completely broke out, this is the first time in so many years that Wang Yongqiang has lost such a big temper to his parents, and the sudden roar frightened Wang Yongqiang's parents a lot, but they did not feel that it would have any impact, and they did not know that Wang Yongqiang had cut off all contact with his family since then.
Wang Yongqiang resolutely went to the United States, he wanted to completely get rid of this pair of "blood-sucking" parents, and his parents never heard from him again. The family suddenly lost their financial resources, and the life of the old couple became very poor.
I had to spend it before, I thought life would go on like this, and I didn't think about saving money. The eldest son has no job and has been nibbling on the old, the cost of the three people is not a small amount, the old two had to go back to the old business, continue to rely on the sale of rat poison to make a living.
During the period in order to find their son, they even ran to the son's ex-wife's house to find Wang Yongqiang, for these two old people Wang Yongqiang's ex-wife is really not close, it can be said that it is very annoying, directly said a sentence "don't bother me again in the future" to drive them away. No one will give a good face, it is simply pouring salt on people's wounds.
The two old men did not believe that their son would disappear at first, and then went to the public security bureau to report the case, which was not good, the son even canceled his household registration, and the two panicked, but still did not realize where the problem was.
In the blink of an eye, it was 20 years, and Wang Yongqiang learned about his parents' recent situation under the advice of netizens. In the face of sneering and insults, Wang Yongqiang only replied calmly, but he was always reluctant to show his face. Is Wang Yongqiang really an ungrateful person?
The old couple may have really regretted it in the past 20 years, but Wang Yongqiang has already blocked his atrium and will not open it so easily.
Now Wang Yongqiang's life has finally calmed down. If he had obeyed his parents' ideas and dropped out of school to work, he might still be at the bottom of the ladder day and night, living for his eldest brother and parents, and so on from generation to generation.
In the eyes of their parents, they will always only have themselves and their eldest brother, and they will never consider half a point for Wang Yongqiang. Wang Yongqiang may still feel sad before, but now that home has nothing to do with him anymore.
For him, that home was a cage that he had worked so hard to break free, decades of destruction, and it was hard to get away from the nightmare, how could he be willing to come back? In the face of this situation, the old couple can only regret it for life.
As the saying goes, poor people must have something to hate, and not seeing the younger son in the end does make people feel pitiful, but Wang Yongqiang's past also makes us feel sad. Filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, is there a better solution for Wang Yongqiang than abandoning his parents?