The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
I don't know why, looking at the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in all the families, only a small part can get along harmoniously and harmoniously, and most of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will always have various contradictions, which is a headache.
Even husbands in the middle are helpless for this complex contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and most of them will choose to be silent, but some husbands will play the role of peace between mother and daughter-in-law, and strive to repair the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
01 Married for many years, the mother-in-law has never cared
Every time she sees someone else's mother-in-law saddle up for her daughter-in-law, taking care of her daughter-in-law's family everywhere, Xiao Rou's heart is very envious, on the contrary, her mother-in-law, since marriage, let alone take care of it, even if there is something to find her to help, she is also very reluctant and can push it.
However, on the contrary, her attitude towards her daughter's family is simply a world of difference from that of Xiao Rou's family.
But whenever there is a little thing in the sister-in-law's house, the mother-in-law will be nervous, and even rush to the sister-in-law's house without stopping, handle things for her, and then go home by herself.
But as Xiao Rou's husband, after all, it was his mother and sister, and he couldn't do anything about it.
However, when the mother-in-law does a little too much, especially when Xiao Rou asks the mother-in-law to help and is rejected, the husband will call the mother-in-law and complain about the mother-in-law, at this time, the mother-in-law will reluctantly agree to Xiao Rou.
In the face of such an eccentric mother-in-law, Xiao Rou also has no way at all, in addition to envying other people's mother-in-law so considerate, in the face of her own mother-in-law, that kind of strong psychological gap, it is difficult to adapt for a while.
Since she married her husband for many years, her mother-in-law is like a most familiar stranger, although Xiao Rou calls her "mother", but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is only stopped at the stage of first acquaintance.
02 Since becoming pregnant, the mother-in-law's attitude has improved slightly
In the first few years of marriage, because the economic conditions of Xiao Rou's husband were not too good, he did not plan to have children for the time being, until the husband's career was gradually on the right track, and the couple planned to have children.
When the mother-in-law heard that Xiao Rou was pregnant, she also expressed a look of joy in her words, which Xiao Rou saw very clearly, after all, there is a big difference between a person who is really happy and fake happy.
Since Xiao Rou became pregnant, the mother-in-law's attitude towards Xiao Rou has undergone earth-shaking changes, in order to facilitate the care of Xiao Rou, the mother-in-law moved from the countryside to Xiao Rou's home, taking care of Xiao Rou's eating and drinking three meals a day, even if the sister-in-law has something at home, the mother-in-law will also find a reason to resign.
For the change of mother-in-law, Xiao Rou naturally looks at it in her eyes and remembers it in her heart.
Since pregnancy to the birth of the child, the whole mother-in-law is with her, in terms of eating and drinking, the mother-in-law is more than three meals a day to prepare rich food for Xiao Rou, during pregnancy, Xiao Rou has gained a whole circle.
Xiao Rou's husband saw that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were getting along harmoniously, and the worries in his heart gradually disappeared.
03 After the birth of the child, because of a bowl of chicken soup, the husband saw the true thoughts of the mother-in-law
As for Xiao Rou, in the face of the careful care of her mother-in-law during pregnancy, her heart is also very grateful, although all this should be what the mother-in-law should do, but Xiao Rou still decided that after a while, she must thank her mother-in-law well.
After the birth of the child, Xiao Rou began a long confinement period, but it was this special thing that Xiao Rou gradually found that her mother-in-law seemed to be gradually beginning to slack off on herself.
Although she is also taking pains to take care of herself, she gives Xiao Rou the feeling that her mother-in-law is far less attentive and considerate than during her pregnancy.
When Xiao Rou told her husband what she found, her husband still thought that Xiao Rou was more hearty, and comforted Xiao Rou not to think about it.
However, one day, after receiving the call, the mother-in-law greeted Xiao Rou and hurried out, just at this time her husband came back from outside, and Xiao Rou, who was in the back room, asked her husband to bring the chicken soup that her mother-in-law had put on the table.
The husband saw the chicken soup on the table at a glance, and just at this moment he was also attracted by the aroma of the chicken soup, and he did not hold back for a while, so he stole two sips.
With this drink, the husband found something wrong.
Because during Xiao Rou's pregnancy, her mother also survived the chicken soup several times, and the taste of each time was very delicious, although this bowl of chicken soup was also good, but it seemed to be missing something.
At this time, he glanced toward the kitchen and found a bag on the kitchen table with the words "Freshly Boiled Chicken Soup" written on it.
All this is already very obvious, and this bowl of chicken soup is obviously not boiled first.
The husband who saw all this did not make a sound, but went out silently and called his mother-in-law.
"Mom, don't take care of Xiao Rou in the future."
Hearing her son's words, the mother-in-law pretended to ask a few words, but in her words, she also expressed her original intention of not wanting to take care of Xiao Rou.
After returning home, her husband told Xiao Rou all this, and after Xiao Rou listened, her heart was also very unhappy.
Originally, she thought that her mother-in-law was found by conscience, but it was because of the child, and when the child was born, her concern for Xiao Rou was greatly reduced.
Conclusion: In fact, there are not so many tricks for getting along between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as long as the mother-in-law is full of love and tolerance for the daughter-in-law, as a daughter-in-law, she will naturally know how to be grateful and honor the mother-in-law. However, I am afraid that for some reason, the mother-in-law is partial to the rest of the children, and even the daughter-in-law is confinement, and there is still inaction, then this kind of behavior will inevitably cause irreconcilable contradictions between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.