In the world of feelings, most women yearn for love. Hope to meet men who rush to each other.
To be honest, the life women want is also simple.
Marry and have children with people who love each other, build your own family, have people who love each other three times a day, and have your own warm nest.
But reality is always harsh. Because "falling in love" is not a one-man affair.
Only one person silently perseveres and will definitely fail.
Not only can you not maintain the relationship between two people, but you may also hurt yourself, and when it is serious, you will lose both.
You know, a middle-aged woman who has experienced the frustration of the love scene, if she is single for a long time, will be very lonely inside.
Seeing sisters or friends around them get married, seeing others showing affection, very envious.
At this age, most women are married, or already have a heart, and they expect someone to be by their side.
However, if the sisters and relatives around them want to introduce the object, sometimes women will quickly shake their heads, try to hide their inner desires, and make their external appearance less lonely and loveless.
Some middle-aged women long for love, but they will not easily express their sincerity, and they will not take the initiative.
Middle-aged women suppress the feelings in their hearts for a long time, resulting in the process of intersex interpersonal relations, as long as the man wholeheartedly shows her sincerity.
She'll be easily moved.
For example, this Ms. Zhang, 39 years old, divorced for 3 years.
The pain of divorce is enormous, and after 3 years she has had a hard time getting out.
In fact, although Ms. Zhang loves her ex-husband very much, she was deeply hit by her ex-husband's contempt in this marriage, and fell into deep self-doubt after the divorce.
At first, her ex-husband always felt that Ms. Zhang was worse than other women, which made Ms. Zhang feel more and more inferior to others.
In this way, although she is far away from self-denial after divorce, ms. Zhang always feels inferior because of lack of self-confidence.
Like Ms. Zhang,a woman who has been single for a long time and longs for love, no one cares for her, hurts her, and over time, she will think that she is not worthy of being loved.
This kind of unconfident woman, when men show her sincerity and let her see hope and motivation for the future, she is easily moved.
Especially in real life, whether a woman lacks love or not, it is easy for clear-eyed people to distinguish. Because of the long-term lack of love of a middle-aged woman, her lifestyle is different.
Therefore, middle-aged women who have been single for a long time and desire love in gender exchanges mostly have the following 6 characteristics, which can be seen through at a glance!
01 is very active in the group
People in society are busy and always feel that there is not enough time.
Only occasionally do the group bubble up and say a few words to everyone.
But women who have been single for a long time are always idle and like to use their mobile phones to pass the time.
I always like to ask people what they are doing in the group.
Mainly because single women are prone to loneliness in their hearts, don't want to be alone, and always want to spend time faster.
When someone in the group comes out to speak, the woman will reply immediately. He is very enthusiastic and worried about disturbing others and has private conversations with them.
And in general, this kind of loveless woman wants to fall in love, if the boy is good to himself, the woman will often agree to be with him.
So, when a man likes a woman and wants to pursue the other person, seeing that the other party has such characteristics, he can seize the opportunity.
02 will actively find topics to chat with you
If a woman doesn't lack love, she won't spend time chatting with other members of the opposite sex, let alone actively looking for topics.
A woman who falls in love, time is precious.
However, single women, except for housewives, every day except for work, the favorite thing may be to hold the phone and not let go.
Women want friends of the opposite sex to talk to them and pass the time by chatting.
It shows that women are lonely inside and do not like to be alone.
So, men should seize the opportunity. It is best to accompany women every day and actively chat with women. In this case, the woman's heart will be open to the man.
03 Always sad, lonely dynamics or selfies
In reality, women who have been single for a long time will feel depressed if they are alone in an empty room.
She had a lot to say, but she couldn't find anyone to talk about, so she was upset.
No way, women can only send some sad, lonely selfies or dynamics.
This is the "bait" that women want to have a man around them who can pursue themselves and accompany them, and deliberately want to throw out.
Because women crave love and want to have happiness.
04 Frequently like and comment on the dynamics of others
If a woman has an object or is in a relationship with another man, the woman will devote most of her time and energy to this man.
As a result, women pay little attention to the dynamics of others in their daily lives.
On the contrary, if a woman is very short of love, the woman's leisure time will become very much.
In addition, women like to look at mobile phones, like to watch dynamics, often like, leave messages, to interact with others.
The main thing is that women's hearts are very lonely, and women want to feel their own sense of existence, always comforting their hearts by praising the dynamics of others.
Then I was silently comforted in my heart: I was not alone, and there were other friends and strangers around me. Fool yourself in this way.
05 Change avatar and nickname frequently
In mobile phone WeChat, do you meet women who often change their avatars and nicknames?
Because women want friends around them or the opposite sex to pay more attention to themselves and can actively chat with her.
To be honest, this behavior actually represents the loneliness in the woman's heart, wanting to get the warmth and care of the opposite sex.
Usually this kind of woman is very specific to men and is also very serious about feelings.
06 Spending a lot of money
After Ms. Wang got married, she resigned to be a full-time mother at home, and her husband ran for her family to earn money outside.
Ms. Wang saved money during her marriage, and after the birth of her child, her life was more difficult.
Later, Because of her long-term long-term divorce, Ms. Wang suddenly became obsessed with online shopping.
At first, it was a variety of daily necessities, and later cosmetics, clothes, etc.
It turned out that the long-distance life in the marriage made Ms. Wang lack love for a long time, so she looked for satisfaction through blind shopping.
Some women have been single for a long time and will feel that their lives are meaningless, and when they look for comfort in the material to fill this spiritual gap.
Write at the end
In the interaction between men and women, when a woman lacks love in her heart, if a man is actively good to a woman and pays for a woman, as long as a woman feels the man's care and love, the heart will belong to the man.