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Presumably everyone will not like a man who is smaller than himself, because young men are relatively naïve and do not appear so mature, so women generally choose men who are older than themselves, only in this way do they feel responsible, only to rely on, more importantly, they feel that there is a certain amount of savings, which is also the first condition for many women, must have money, no money will not choose, let's take a look at the following story.
Uncle Zhang is 72 years old
I'm 72 years old, and I haven't looked for a new partner since my wife died, and of course I've considered finding a wife, but what I'm more afraid of is that the other person doesn't like me like this, so I haven't been looking for a partner.
My children do not have much time to accompany me all the year round, and I spend every day with the old people in the village to go fishing, or play mahjong for a day, although the day is recorded very fast during the day, and I feel very full, but after the evening I feel that the sense of loneliness is particularly strong, I want to have someone around to chat with me, but it is difficult, every day is facing the empty room is really very depressing.
Later, my children also saw that I was in a bad mood, and they also wanted to take me over to the pension, but the reason why I didn't want to go was because I was afraid of bothering them, and I wasn't used to life in the big city, and I still felt that the countryside was relatively free and there were not so many rules.
However, a friend of mine saw that I was alone every day, and gave me an opinion that let me find another wife to accompany me so that I would not be so lonely, I was a little hesitant in my heart, I was afraid that I couldn't find it, and I couldn't pull down this face, and then my friend said: "You haven't tried, you don't know if you can succeed, so everything has to be tried to know the result" That is, after my friend said this, I decided to try to find a wife.
Before I went to my wife, I also discussed this matter with my children, I wanted to hear their opinions, fortunately, they all said that they suggested that I go and did not say anything against, and with the support of my children, my courage was also a little bigger, and I also had confidence.
Then I went to find the local red lady to introduce me to the object, otherwise the red lady introduced me to the object once, I want to give people 1,000 yuan, but I don't care, as long as I can succeed, how much money I am willing to give, so the red lady in two days to give me a lot of objects that match me out.
I have also interviewed a few, but there is no suitable candidate for me, some people do not like that I think I do not look good, and some even think that I am a little older, after a few I am a little disappointed, but also a little want to withdraw from the idea, but when I think of being alone every day, I want to try harder.
In this way, the red lady introduced me to a 56-year-old single woman, her name is Xiaolan, Xiaolan and his ex-husband divorced and did not find a partner again, but listen to the red lady said that Xiaolan looks very good-looking, and also very temperamental, although 56 years old, but the body maintenance is very good, it does not look like a 56-year-old person at all, so I think it is very in line with me, let's meet and talk about it.
When I met her for the first time, I was really amazed by her, because she was really good-looking, her temperament was very good, and her figure was particularly well managed, and her walking was very elegant, so I couldn't help but praise her: "You look really beautiful, I like it."
Then she smiled, so I thought she was perfect, and after the two of them exchanged pleasantries for a while, I asked her: "What work do you do now, you are very well maintained, it should be a good job."
She said: "I don't do any work now, and I don't want to work, the reason why I am so well maintained is that I don't get wet, I haven't worked since I divorced my ex-husband, I'm living with the property I got from divorcing him, so what job do you have now?", she said?
I said, "I'm retired, I'm doing nothing now before I was a hardware store and bought a van, and after I retired, I transferred the hardware store and left a van at home."
He listened to me say this and thought for a moment, and then said: "Yes, let me first make it clear to you, I have nothing now, no car, no house, no savings, that is, three no women, if I am with you, then you must bear my living expenses, what do you think"?
I said, "No problem, as long as you want, I will promise you what I can do, and you can talk about it if you have any other requirements."
She added: "And before I divorced my ex-husband, he owed a lot of debts, and then he used my identity to borrow money from other online loan companies, and now everyone is looking for me, and I can't find my ex-husband, so the money can only be repaid by me, but I don't have any money now, so if you can help me pay back this money, I am happy to be with you."
"You don't have to worry, as long as you give me 10,000 yuan a month and other things don't need you to take care of, as long as you can give me 10,000 yuan a month, I will marry you immediately." 」
When I heard her say this, the whole person was a little confused, I didn't think that since she was so direct, and also owed so much money, although I also have money, but I can't always marry a wife and have to help her pay her debts, but seeing that Xiaohong looks so beautiful, so temperamental, I also want to be with her, so I said to her: "If you really want to be with me, then I can also consider, give you 10,000 yuan a month, although this 10,000 yuan is a bit much, But the same thing is that if you really want to be with me, then we can all find a way to face this money together."
Anyway, I thought so, if she really wants to be with me, then the problem of money can be solved, and then she said: "And I don't like to stay at home every day, I prefer to go out every day, and travel with a group of like-minded friends, can you help me realize this wish"?
I said, "You want to go on a trip, that's no problem, I haven't been out for a long time anyway, I can take you out once in a while, if you're worried about the car, then I can go fix my van, and then I'll take you out every day, what do you think"?
When I talked about driving a van to carry her, she looked a little bad, and then he said, "Do you think it's appropriate for you to let me have such an elegant woman go and take your van"?
I said, "Isn't a van a car?" Although it is not as luxurious as those big-name cars, but my car can also shelter from the wind and rain, isn't it very good? Why pursue such high demands."
At this time, my face was already a little bad, because I had no good feelings for her, perhaps since she told me to help her pay off her ex-husband's debt, slowly there was no good feeling, when she disliked my van, I felt that this woman was not easy to deal with, if I was with her in the future, I would not be happy.
At this time, when she just wanted to come to talk to me, the red lady on the side may have seen my thoughts, and then immediately stood up and said to Xiaolan: "Otherwise, we will talk about this first today, and next time find a time to talk, the time is not early", and then the red lady pulled Xiaolan away.
When they left, I sent a message to the red lady saying that the two of us were not suitable, don't bring them next time, I don't like it, and I am afraid of her.
summary
Although it is normal for women to make demands, everyone likes to live a high-quality life, but we also have to see if we have this strength, and it is true that we do not have to make inches.