Marriage means a lot to women, and a good marriage will make women feel happy all the time.
Some people say that marriage is a major turning point in life. There is still a certain truth in this sentence, throughout the ages, countless people have found the right lover, and since then they have become more and more smooth.
But there are also negative examples, such as some women, married to a man with bad character, and the result is a lifetime of pain.
Compared with men, marriage is more sacred in the eyes of women, so it is worth treating with care. Even if they find that their freshness to their husbands is faded, most women do not throw themselves into the arms of other men for the first time, but try to find ways to make the relationship between husband and wife more intimate.
In real life, the reason why many couples go to the strange road is that the man has a new love, but he still hides his wife, and when he is discovered, he can only end up with divorce. It can be seen that the men who can withstand temptation are still in the minority.
How to tell if a man is worth entrusting for life? Just see if he has the following 3 characteristics! Once the other party has, but you have to be cautious, the experience of people who come over tells you that it is difficult to get happiness after marriage when you marry such a man.
1, like rhetoric, promised things can not be done
At the same time, Xiaole has a very talkative boyfriend, and every time the other party comes to pick up Xiaole from work, he will bring exquisitely wrapped gifts.
Xiao Le said not to buy it next time, but the sweet smile on his face was still obvious.
But at a company party, Xiao Le was drunk and drunk, crying with pear blossoms and rain, and constantly complained that her boyfriend was a negative man.
It turned out that when the man and Xiaole were together, they also had a girlfriend, but they told Xiaole that the girl was his relative, but he borrowed it from his home.
After the matter was revealed, the man begged Xiaole to give him a chance, and made a number of promises, Xiaole did not propose to break up because he still loved him.
I don't know if the man saw Xiao Le's soft heart, and he converged for a while. Later, it was found that he was ambiguous with the woman, and Xiao Le even received a message from the other party, which was full of provocation. At this time, Xiao Le was completely cold-hearted, and finally left without hesitation.
Hurt XiaoLe, obviously not as happy as before, all day a depressed look, presumably after a while, to recover, in love with a person who should not be loved, you can imagine how painful her heart is.
I don't know if you have found that some men are always indispensable to the assistance of "sugar-coated shells" when pursuing women, but some women are good at this mouth, so that they are blinded by men's rhetoric, and the other party believes everything.
When you truly love someone, you will not be willing to make the other person sad. Especially men, they will never make a promise to the person they love, and men will remember what they have said to each other.
Only men with a playful attitude will try their best to get a woman's heart, and when they feel tired, they will also dump women without dragging their feet.
Among them, women who do not love themselves are often deceived by some men, and they can't find anyone after getting pregnant, and there are too many such examples in life.
2. Obey your parents' words
Her friend Xiao Tong has been married for five years, and she has only summed up the experience of these five years in four words, that is, "regret not the beginning."
The child and her husband were married by Fengzi, and the two people did not fully understand each other at all, and they both entered the marriage.
After marriage, the child encountered one strange thing after another.
The child never expected that her husband's personality could be so weak that when he was not very familiar, he thought that the other party was only not deeply involved in the world and had a simple personality. As a result, after being together for a long time, the child learned that her husband was a man with no opinion, and he did not want to make progress, but had to get by.
It is said that when a child educates a child, the in-laws and mothers-in-law often insert a foot, the child is ready to reason with the in-laws, and the husband always stands on the side of the parents without asking the reason, simply taking the words of the parents as "holy will".
Sometimes the tone of the child is heavy, the in-laws will complain to the husband, and then the child will be accused by the husband, a lot of long-winded, the main purpose is to let the child be filial piety, be obedient, the child will be annoyed to death, and the personality will become more and more irritable.
The child said that when the child is older, she will have to seriously reconsider the relationship with her husband, and now she will have to put up with it for the sake of the child for a while.
Educating children is undoubtedly a big issue, many parents because of their too strong personality, educate their children like a robot, decisively carry out the parents' orders, as if they are carved in the bones.
If the man you like is born in such a family, don't marry him too quickly, because the chances of regret are very high.
After all, habit is a terrible thing, and if a person is used to obeying their parents, it is difficult for them to have a rebellious mind.
Unless it is the kind with a particularly rebellious personality, the relationship between such a person and his parents will certainly not be very good.
Marrying into such a family, you can imagine what kind of situation it will be.
Moreover, there are very few people who are not ready to marry and have children, and when they have children, they cannot leave it alone, and the in-laws will insert another foot when the time comes, and it will be very depressing to think about that day.
There are many female friends and do not know how to keep a sense of distance
Recently, the drama "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life" is very popular, in addition to the interaction between the male and female protagonists is very interesting, the interaction between the male protagonist's cousin Gu Xiao and the female protagonist's girlfriend Xiao Shan is also very interesting.
In the play, Gu Xiao is a proper playboy, who loves to eat, drink and play, and the speed of changing girlfriends is not generally fast.
Xiao Shan is also not a well-behaved woman, and it is not too much to describe her as a "love field master".
The contest between two people can be described as "Aquaman" meeting "Queen of the Sea".
Two people who are not bad in nature, the audience is still looking forward to them to come together.
But in reality, people like Gu Xiao, there are many female friends, playing with great heart, in order to pursue a person, all kinds of stalking, do not give up until the goal is reached, every girlfriend will not be in contact for a long time, anyone will doubt his sincerity.
Moreover, when pursuing Xiao Shan, Gu Xiao was still ambiguous with other women. Falling in love with such a person will definitely be very tired.
Love relationship is an exclusive relationship, women need more sense of security, imagine that their husband has many female friends, where do you go to find so much confidence to keep him.
Unless the husband completely cuts off contact with those women, I believe that few men will do such a move.
Let a fun-loving man take care of it, the difficulty coefficient is extremely high.
If you don't want to clean up all kinds of messes for your husband after marriage, it is best to stay away from a man like "Gu Xiao" so as not to be heartbroken.
epilogue:
Marriage is not a child's play, so it is more important to treat it with caution. Some people may think, what is that, divorce if it's a big deal.
But in fact, two people together, married and have children, will involve many problems, not to say that the breakup can be separated.
Needless to say, how many people become "uncool" during the divorce cooling-off period, and a bad marriage is like going through hell for a woman.
Once the man you love has the above three characteristics, don't think about being comfortable after marriage.
So women must be sober, don't know that there is a fire pit in front of them and jump, this is simply a joke about their future.
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