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Like is wanton, and love is restraint.
Han Han's words attracted the approval of thousands of young boys and girls. It's true that liking and loving look similar, but in fact there are vast differences. When you like someone, you only want to be happy with her every day, but when you love someone, you are willing to share her hardships.
Likes are: The person's strengths are attracting you, while love is: not even the shortcomings want to give up.
Like and love, although they are all good feelings for a person, but the degree is very different. Liking is only shallow level of attraction, it is a momentary good feeling, it is a momentary throbbing. But love is a lasting heartbeat, wanting to go to the twilight, wanting to go to the future together.
In the world of feelings, men's likes and loves are not the same after all, and what can do the following two things for you is mostly true love.
One: Collect your heart and plan for the future with you
As the saying goes, a man is a teenager until he dies.
Indeed, the childishness of teenagers will always be heavier, and likes and dislikes often occur in an instant. And mature men, after understanding what love is all about, will definitely not go back to the twilight, he will accept the heart for you, press the heart that was always in the mood, and work with you to plan the future.
In the TV series "Please advise more for the rest of your life", Gu Xiao was originally a playboy who "lived in a kaleidoscope of flowers and leaves do not stick to his body", but after meeting Sansan, he planned to get lost and open a coffee shop with her, slowly planning the future for her.
Gu Xiao was serious, because he finally understood the difference between like and love, and finally realized that when he really fell in love with someone, everything else would become a supporting role.
In the world of feelings, what women are most afraid of is to fall in love with an "unreliable" man, because such a man will always say that he likes, but his behavior has not changed at all, and in such a person you cannot see the future and read hope.
But a person who loves you is different, his heart is full of only you, for you, he is willing to give up other possibilities.
Two: Be obsessed with you and share the pressure with you
Like is just hormonal, there is not so much responsibility to speak of, naturally there will not be much investment. He may be with you all day, but that doesn't mean his heart is already occupied by you.
And a person who is in love with you, even if he can't be around you at any time and anywhere, but the most important position in his heart has long been occupied by you, he will care about your emotions, care about your pressure, he will be obsessed with you.
In "Please Give More Advice for the Rest of Your Life", the male protagonist Gu Wei is a very hard doctor, who is either on patrol or on the operating table every day, he loves Lin's school, but he can't accompany him anytime and anywhere.
But he will still care about her situation, care about her pressure, whether it is lin zhixue's father's body, or her beloved cello, as long as he can do it, Gu Wei will share the pressure with her, even if he can't do it, he will find a way to make her happy.
True love does not have so many years of quiet good, and perhaps only after seeing the chicken feathers of life, the difference between like and love will become obvious.
Like does not need to be responsible, cute is not the same, when a man loves you, he will not be able to help but be attached to you, he is willing to share the pressure with you, but also hope to be able to spend with you sad and happy.
When a man likes a woman, he may send her flowers and take her on a trip, but even if he has done all the romantic things in the world, he may not necessarily want to have a future with you.
But love is different, when a man loves a woman, he can't help but want to give her the best of everything, the most real waiting, the deepest companionship, want to have a future together, and turn many "coming to Japan" into a future within reach.
Likes and loves are different, and although they both stem from throbbing and attraction, the places where feelings go are very different. Like does not need to be responsible, but love is to invest, to be profound.
When a man shows interest in you and keeps showing it, remember to polish your eyes and observe to see if he loves you or just likes you.
In the feelings, those who are willing to do the above two things for you are mostly in their hearts for you, true love is not easy, and when you meet, you must remember to cherish it.
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