Author: Xuan Xiaolei
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Gu Xiao in "The Rest of Your Life Please Give More Advice" has always been a prodigal brother, the family has money, only children, unscrupulous eating, drinking and fun, girlfriends are certainly not many, even if he does not look for, there are a bunch of people chasing after him.
The easier it is to get this way, the more it feels boring, so Sansan is also smart, even if you like it, you must be restrained, you must be reserved, and you must leave some leeway.
Of course, it is not good to be too deliberate in trying to get away with it, it is hypocritical, and clear-eyed people can also see it.
Therefore, Sansan should be regarded as the kind of girl who is originally very free, and at the beginning, she saw that Gu Xiao had many female friends, and she could not easily be with such a person, unless she was also playing an emotional game.
Even if you play, you have to make people look good and have self-respect.
So at the beginning it was rejection, but at the same time, I found that the boy was still very cute, not really incurable or morally corrupt, and gradually became interested and liked.
At this time, the refusal is obviously a little unsteady, and there is room for some provocative meaning.
Gu Xiao was also provoked by this repeated "rejection", unilaterally chasing after it, and thinking of ways to please and pursue Sansan.
The two were together because of this, and most of them were also Gu Xiao's harder and more persistent, and finally impressed Sansan.
Such feelings are actually still a bit mysterious, once accepted, the enthusiasm will still slowly dissipate, the person who has been currying favor with the other party at the beginning, finds that the other party no longer needs to please, and sometimes loses interest. If the other party is also deeply in love with himself and surrenders to himself, he will be proud again.
It's like a game, to win or lose, to play a game of who loves who is more.
If you can continue to find each other's good in getting along, and really be attracted, it is still stable, or it is also the kind of fast food love that is easy to end at the beginning.
And true love is mostly not like this, at least not one party is trying to please, but two people can't help but smile with joy when they meet. It is frank and frank to admit that it likes, it is not afraid of the other party's pride and sincerity, and it is also a natural coincidence of feeling and action.
Just like Gu Wei and Lin Zhi's school, the two people have a good feeling for each other, almost together, or the same pay after the heartbeat, the same sincerity, no reservation, no trick, no routine.
For example, when Gu Wei was at The School of Yulin, she accepted it, agreed to it, and showed happiness.
Sansan wanted her to be a little reserved, to occasionally refuse, or to behave a little implicitly, but she felt that there was no need, as if there was nothing to hide, such frankness and true feelings, you need to meet each other's sincere people, otherwise, it is indeed easy to be pinched.
Fortunately, Gu Wei is also the kind of person who does not retain, so it is logical that two people can be logical, and this love will look strong and close, and it will look moving and smooth.
Xi Murong said: "Don't refuse to say that beautiful vow because you may change; don't dare to ask for a heartfelt encounter because you may be separated." There is always something that will stay, leave it to be an immortal mark, so that those who do not know each other can also know how deeply I have loved you. ”
This is a reminder that it is not a shameful thing to like a person, if the other party is also sincere, it is a fortunate thing, if the other party does not like themselves enough, it is also a lack of fate.
But to love is to love, to express it is brave, to be true, to dare to love and dare to hate, and to be confident.
Fear of change, fear of being deceived, fear of starting and ending, is the common sentiment of people, but brave expression, listening to the heart to act, is also a very moving performance.
Because if you truly love someone, you are happy to see him, and even if you don't get it, it is a very beautiful thing to see him.
Of course, we can love and express it frankly, but we can't entangle people who have no intention of us, and we don't have to bother with people who are dismissive of us.
After all, love is a matter of two people, and the people who are always calculating with you, or the people who use you, or the people who play you, are still weighing and approaching.
It doesn't have to be paid for, but hopefully the person you fall in love with is the kind worthy of love. For example, equally frank, sincere, kind.
That way he won't tease you, take advantage of you, mock you, even if he doesn't love you, he'll reject it responsibly and politely keep his distance.
At the same time, want to know if the other party really loves you, see if he behaves when he meets you, whether he will laugh involuntarily, or his face is expressionless and cold, the former is irrepressible, the latter is afraid of being misunderstood by you.
Speaking of this, looking back at Sansan, in fact, if you are careful, you can find that she has long liked Gu Xiao, but she is afraid that he will be hurt if she accepts it too quickly, afraid that he is just playing games on a whim, so test him more.
But every time she sees him or receives a message from him, she can't suppress her smile, so it can be seen that the person who always can't help but grin at the corner of her mouth must be the person you like.
Even before you even notice it, your expression is already exposed. Probably because he can feel that Sansan is also interesting to himself, Gu Xiao will persevere in catching up with her before giving up.