Thinking about it carefully, the three couples in "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life" just represent the three states in love.
Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue met each other at just the right age, and we went to the two directions of slow stew, although it was not warm, but such feelings were easier to last.
Along the way, the collision between the straight man Gu Wei's helpless hands and siblings and the hindsight of the little cute Lin Zhi School made us smile again and again.
Between them, there have been misunderstandings, and they have also eaten vinegar, and Gu Wei is very mature, always able to solve the misunderstanding in time, so as not to make trouble to the point of blowing the lamp and pulling out the wax.
Gu Xiao and Xiao Shan, on the one hand, they are the collision of The Sea King and the Queen of the Sea, on the other hand, they are the needs of the boss and the employees - Gu Xiao gave Xiao Shan a job, and Xiao Shan helped Gu Xiao achieve his career.
In my intuition, at the very beginning, Gu Xiao probably just wanted to talk to Xiao Shan, if it wasn't for the timely awakening of Lin Zhixue, their feelings would be difficult to go to the end.
Fortunately, although the two of them look debauched, in their bones, they are the kind of people who "do not fall in love easily, and once they fall, they will fight for themselves", and in the follow-up story, they will definitely be able to cultivate the right results.
In contrast, the pair of golden stones and seals is the most ideal state in normal love.
The two of them are originally green plum bamboo horses, the two grew up together, both parents know each other, both sides have similar family backgrounds and experiences, which can be described as a door-to-door pair.
The appearance is very matched, and the emotional intelligence IQ is comparable, that year was the hero of Huaqing University, is the envy of everyone to learn to bully couple. Then the two went abroad to study together, and another classmate returned.
But such a couple that everyone envies, the relationship is also problematic.
Screenshot of the TV series "Please Advise More for the Rest of Your Life"
On the one hand, Yinxi is a very insecure girl.
According to Jinshi, The Seal was in complete control of his life.
Regardless of whether he was in trouble or not, The Seal would have to pick him up on time; as long as the Seal made a call, the Golden Stone must appear on time; if it was just like this, the Seal seal would still have to check the post at any time and anywhere, and wanted to completely control the Golden Stone's every move in his own hands.
What seals to be sent in the circle of friends, what clothes to wear to manage the seals, and what people to communicate with the seals to manage...
At first, Jinshi may still enjoy this feeling, thinking that Yinxi cares about his performance, but after a long time, Jinshi can't stand it.
That day he told Yin Xi that he had something to do, but when Yin Xi and Lin Zhixue went to eat at the hot pot restaurant, they happened to meet Jin Shi and his friends who were also there, and a fierce quarrel broke out in an instant.
When I saw this scene, I began to feel lucky for Gu Wei, although Lin Zhi's school had a good relationship with Yinxi, fortunately, Lin's school was not Yinxi——
As a doctor, overtime is the norm, if Lin Zhixue, like Yinxi, requires Gu Wei to pick up and drop off on time, it is estimated that Gu Wei will not be able to work at all.
(Gu Wei's parents objected to Gu Wei being with Lin Zhixue, also for this consideration, after all, not every girl can understand Gu Wei's work like Lin Zhixue.) ）
"What I'm most afraid of every day is that Yinxi calls me, because she either checks the post or wants me to accompany him."
In the world of seals, the reason why he did this was because he lacked a sense of security, so he let Jinshi repeat the declaration of love over and over again to prove his position in Jinshi's heart.
However, such a proof has long become a burden for Jinshi.
On the other hand, Jinshi wanted his own private space.
Therefore, he would lie and run out to party with his friends, and the reason why he did not tell Yin Xi about it was because he knew that if he said it, Yin Xi would definitely not agree, and then he would become a joke in the mouth of his friend.
However, he never thought that this matter was actually bumped into by the seal.
After a big fight, the two broke up.
Later, I learned that Jinshi's escape was no longer a matter of one day or two days.
Because it is controlled too tightly by the seal, every time Jin shi sends a circle of friends, it must be specially grouped. Although I don't quite approve of Jinshi's approach, I think that the reason why he took this step may be to get rid of the control of the seal.
If this is the case, Jin Shi's temper this time is an outburst after countless accumulations.
However, as an elderly person, I really don't understand Yinxi's attitude towards the circle of friends.
In my cognition, the circle of friends, in addition to recording their own life, is to put forward their own views, collide in the circle of acquaintances, and make their understanding of things and reason deeper.
Because the most basic meaning of the word "friend" in the circle of friends is that people with like-minded intentions are people with equal wisdom and pattern.
Of course, there is another situation, that is, the completion of task-style work sharing, which cannot be regarded as a real circle of friends.
To some extent, I am very much in favor of the circle of friends group, after all, the people we know, originally from different circles, those things you send, others may not be able to understand.
Of course, there are still some problems with jinshi's practice of setting up a separate group of seals, and he always feels that by doing so, he is somewhat suspicious of treating seals as a different kind.
In fact, in my intuition, the biggest problem between them is the lack of communication (of course, maybe they have communicated, but Yinxi can't listen).
After saying that they broke up, because the two did not contact each other for two days, Yinxi was very broken, even if she went to the club with her girlfriend, she was not really happy.
"I'm here to vent, and I'm not really looking for a man." From this sentence, we can hear that Yinxi cares about jinshi. If he didn't love Jinshi, he would definitely have been taken astray by Xiao Shan a long time ago.
As for Jinshi, even if he plays games with friends, he can't get much interest. After seeing the photo of Yin xi going to a club with his friends, he was instantly lost.
On the one hand, such a person is angry, angry that the seal would do this, on the other hand, it is also because of worry, worried that the seal will be hurt.
However, due to the little boy's fragile self-esteem, he could not be like Gu Wei's boyfriend who burst into flames and rushed directly to the bar to take Lin Zhixue back.
In this comparison, we will find that Gu Wei is really reliable, although he is very busy, but as long as he is idle, he will try to accompany Lin Zhixue.
As for Lin Zhixue, although some little girls have a temper, on the whole, she is still very sensible and rarely makes unreasonable trouble.
In a way, the way Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue get along is the real adult love.
According to the usual routine, after this incident, the two of them will definitely calm down and communicate well, as long as Yinxi can understand that the real sense of security is not stuck together at all times, Jinshi can understand what Yinxi really cares about, and the problems between them can be solved.
At that time, they will certainly be the envy of everyone.
Yinxi wants a sense of security, this is a girl's normal psychology, her biggest problem is that she has not grasped the degree of it, in her opinion, this is love and care, but because of the degree, this love and care has become a shackle.
The more she wanted to grab The Golden Stone in her hand, the more the Golden Stone wanted to escape.
Jin Shi wants to have his own private space, which is also a reasonable thing, his biggest problem is that he did not communicate well with Yin Xi, but adopted a passive confrontational approach.
The more he confronted, the more insecure the seal became.
One desperately wants to catch it in his hand, and the other desperately wants to escape, thus forming a vicious circle.
In this way, this outbreak of Jinshi is also a good thing, which can make them calm down and think about the relationship between each other, after all, they still love each other.
If you wait until the love disappears and then breaks out, maybe the two people will really be separated.
There has never been an absolute standard answer to what a good love looks like, but from the experience of Jinshi and Yinxi, it is not difficult for us to draw a conclusion - the more people who love each other, the more they need to communicate well.
Only by communicating well, you will understand her concerns, she will also understand your pain, as long as you understand each other, this relationship can naturally last.
Of course, all of this is based on the premise that you really love each other.
Without this premise, other understandings, respect or not, are illusory castles in the air, as long as a little touch, those false beauty will fade, let us see the most cruel truth.
It's just a pity that the red dust men and women in reality have not understood this truth, and there have been countless points and combinations.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）