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It is said that men have a first love complex, and when it comes to love or marriage, they always consciously or unconsciously compare it with their first love, but such an ending may not really be happy.
Some people have some things, with the passage of time, should be slowly diluted, so that they are responsible for others, if they blindly live in the past, how to balance the current life?
Mr. Cheng's hometown is in the countryside, the first love girlfriend is his college classmate, but because of the difficult family situation, can not enter the eyes of the first love girlfriend's parents, this relationship ended without a disease, many years later Mr. Cheng remembered this matter is still difficult to calm.
Later, Mr. Cheng worked hard, and finally dug the first bucket of gold, with the small achievements in his career, he also formed a family, and his wife and children also had it, but in his heart, there was always a faint loss.
At a party, Mr. Cheng met Ms. Wu, he couldn't help but look at each other a few more times, the more he looked, the more he felt that the other party was too much like his first love girlfriend, and even the tone of speech was the same, and the two people left contact information for each other at the end.
Mr. Cheng was originally very handsome, such a young and golden man is very lethal, everyone is an adult, many things do not need to be said too directly, things go in which direction.
In order to prove his true love, Mr. Cheng left all his wealth to his ex-wife and children, and only drove his own car to leave the original home, while Ms. Wu also abandoned the original family and threw herself into mr. Cheng's arms.
But when the two people really come together, life is not happy, the two sides will always be awkward because of such and such things, in ms. Wu's words, Mr. Cheng will always compare his ex-wife with her.
Once, Ms. Wu found a photo of her ex-wife in Mr. Cheng's wallet, and the explanation given by Mr. Cheng was the photo they left behind when they went through the divorce procedures, and he casually put it in his wallet.
Ms. Wu did not believe this explanation, she tore the photo in anger, and immediately angered Mr. Cheng, he narrowed his eyes, and almost moved his hand.
Ms. Wu said that Mr. Cheng also interfered with her dressing, every time she dressed up slightly, Mr. Cheng would sarcastically seduce other men, and when she was not at home, Mr. Cheng would throw away her short skirt, which made her incomprehensible.
Ms. Wu said that Mr. Cheng also has a bad habit of nagging unhappy things between them and his ex-wife, who in turn will stimulate her, causing two women to often attack each other, and quarrels are commonplace.
Once, Mr. Cheng drove Ms. Wu out, his ex-wife called, opened her mouth and shouted "dear", Ms. Wu pulled the car door to get out of the car in a huff, and put her feet down.
Mr. Cheng said that his ex-wife was deliberate, when he first divorced, he put down the harsh words, if the two of them came together, she would not let them live a leisurely life, she would toss them.
There is a saying that it is difficult to be happy in a marriage without blessings, and it seems that this sentence is really suitable for Mr. Cheng and Ms. Wu.
The two of them can come together, they each committed suicide to get rid of the original family, but behind them also left a constant bondage, Mr. Wu as a father, he often wants to see the children.
The relationship between the ex-wife and Ms. Wu is intolerable, the two people will fight when they meet, and Ms. Wu also does not agree with Mr. Cheng to see the child alone, she is not assured that her husband and his ex-wife will meet, after consultation, Mr. Cheng every time he sees the child, he must be accompanied by Ms. Wu's cousin.
Once, the child hurt his foot in play, Mr. Cheng and his cousin went upstairs to see the child, Ms. Wu waited in the car downstairs, and afterwards Ms. Wu kept asking her cousin what Mr. Cheng and his ex-wife had done, which made Mr. Cheng feel very speechless.
The second time Mr. Cheng went to see the child, did not take Ms. Wu, the cousin was also waiting downstairs, Ms. Wu knew, she complained about Mr. Cheng said: Again behind my back to seduce your ex-wife.
Mr. Cheng was suspected by Ms. Wu, and his ex-wife was also very dissatisfied with him, often calling him a, seeing that his children did not have the right to be free, and they also had to be watched, really not a man.
All of this makes Mr. Cheng feel that his life is a mess, he regrets his impulse to divorce, and sometimes he wants to slap himself before he can relieve his hatred.
Just when Mr. Cheng felt tired, Ms. Wu was pregnant, and Mr. Cheng was very unhappy about this, he said that after remarriage, it was equivalent to starting from scratch, and the burden of life every month was very heavy, and there was no need to be too anxious to have a child, but Ms. Wu insisted on giving birth to this child.
In the ten months of pregnancy, the relationship between the two people was very stiff, Mr. Cheng was indifferent to her, and sometimes he did not return at night, and It was Ms. Wu who survived alone.
After the birth of the child, another war broke out between them, this time more fiercely than any other, involving more people.
At first, two women quarreled because of the unpleasantness of watching the child, the ex-wife scolded Ms. Wu on the phone, and the ex-wife's mother called Mr. Cheng again, scolding him to the point of bloodshed, Mr. Cheng had nowhere to get angry, so he threw his temper to Ms. Wu and wanted to divorce Ms. Wu.
Ms. Wu said that if divorced, then take the child away, Mr. Cheng happened to be on a business trip in the field, he quickly called his cousin and asked her to take her mother to see, Ms. Wu thought that her mother-in-law took someone to rob the child with her, so she took the kitchen knife and said harsh words: If someone robs the child with her, she will die here.
The relationship between Mr. Cheng and Ms. Wu has come to this day, and both of them have problems, first of all, let's talk about Mr. Cheng:
As a man, in the emotional can not do the opportunity to make a decision, hurt the feelings of two people, in the first marriage, can not abide by the spirit of the contract of the marriage, and Ms. Wu emotional entanglement.
After forming a family with Ms. Wu, she and her ex-wife are constantly involved, so that there is a greater contradiction between the two women, and the ex-wife changes from a hurt person to a person who hurts others, and also makes Ms. Wu unable to find a sense of security in marriage, which will suffer from gain and loss, resulting in escalating family conflicts.
For Ms. Wu, the current situation of marriage is also her own fault, because the happiness she has stolen is not reliable after all, and happiness based on the pain of others is not happiness.
Since the man who chooses has had a family and children, you must accept this reality, he has a bond that cannot be abandoned, you can't ask him not to look at the child, this really can't be said.
Mr. Cheng's marriage tragedy also reminds all married men who want to be foolish, don't impulsively do stupid things, give themselves the opportunity to regret, even in the end, when they scold themselves over and over again, they can't go back to the past.
Life is not easy, we must learn to cherish, marriage is not a child's play, marriage is a commitment, is to stick to, keep their own heart, only in this way will not be confused, will have a not disturbed and happy life. Well, today is here, Jiajia hopes that each issue of the story can bring friends a little emotional thinking, like Jiajia please pay attention to me, to the article like collection recommended Oh, thank you we will see you in the next issue ~