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People often say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law in front, daughter-in-law in the back, only the mother-in-law first sincerely good to the daughter-in-law, there will be daughter-in-law's later filial piety. After the daughter-in-law gets married, every mother-in-law hopes that her son's married life can be happy and happy, and she can marry a daughter-in-law who pays for the family wholeheartedly. However, some mothers-in-law have never given their daughters-in-law a good attitude after they marry home, and they are guarding against their daughters-in-law everywhere.
For some mothers-in-law, the daughter-in-law has married into their own family, no matter what to do, they must be based on the in-laws, and some mothers-in-law even treat their daughter-in-law as a free nanny, not only to go out to work to earn money, but also to do a good job when they return home, even so, the mother-in-law does not regard the daughter-in-law as a relative, and always thinks that the daughter-in-law is an outsider.
Even if the mother-in-law can't treat the daughter-in-law as a relative, she can't use a hypocritical face to the daughter-in-law, from time to time to lie to the daughter-in-law, as an elder, shouldn't she have a broad mind, and being good to the daughter-in-law is really good for the son, so that the son's marriage can always be harmonious and beautiful.
01. Fall in love
Hu Xiaorui came from an ordinary family, her parents are also ordinary working class, Hu Xiaorui also has a younger brother, from a young age Hu Xiaorui knows that her parents work very hard, so she has to help her parents do more housework at home, and at the same time, when she is studying, she will never go to the supermarket all day like other children to buy snacks and eat.
Hu Xiaorui's quality of thrift and thrift has always existed, but she has not been frugal in everything, some things do not need to be bought, so Hu Xiaorui will not spend money to buy, such as going to college, the girls in the dormitory began to buy high-end cosmetics to decorate themselves, Hu Xiaorui never bought very expensive, as long as it is almost good. There are also some students who go to buy clothes in order to buy beautiful clothes without eating or drinking.
Hu Xiaorui never hungry or full in food, she knows that only a good body can do more meaningful things, so in the eyes of everyone, Hu Xiaorui has always been a girl with her duty, and is a good girl with good character and learning, so many classmates are willing to make friends with her.
Hu Xiaorui, who went to college, also hopes that she can talk about a sweet love like other girls, and some people can take care of themselves and care about themselves, but feelings also need to have fate.
In her sophomore year, Hu Xiaorui joined the school's table tennis club, proper exercise helps to be healthy, Hu Xiaorui thinks so, so she directly chose table tennis, although she has never touched this sport. It was also in this community that Hu Xiaorui gained his love.
After entering the club, it was necessary to train in groups of two, Hu Xiaorui and a boy were arranged together, this boy later became her husband, the boy's name was Wang Yifeng, and Hu Xiaorui was a student of the same class, but the major was different. Wang Yifeng has especially liked table tennis since he was a child, and he has played very well, and Hu Xiaorui is also very embarrassed about this, afraid that he has dragged others behind.
Wang Yifeng did not blame Hu Xiaorui for not having a foundation, but patiently taught her how to hold the racket and how to play. Slowly the two became more and more familiar, and also had a good feeling for each other, half a year of contact, Wang Yifeng saw a lot of excellent qualities on Hu Xiaorui, never spend money to spend a lot of money, think of his mother at home to tell him, in the future to find a daughter-in-law must not find a wife who loves to spend money, Wang Yifeng feels that Hu Xiaorui is very suitable for himself.
So Wang Yifeng confessed to Hu Xiaorui, and Hu Xiaorui also liked Wang Yifeng, a very patient boy, who had not seen him lose his temper for such a long time, so Hu Xiaorui agreed to Wang Yifeng's pursuit.
02. Life after marriage
Soon after graduating from college, the two found a job that suited them locally. Hu Xiaorui works at the front desk in a hospital, sometimes on the day shift and sometimes on the night shift. Although he sometimes went to work at night, Wang Yifeng would send himself to the unit every day, and Hu Xiaorui was also very touched by this.
A few months later, Wang Yifeng proposed marriage to Hu Xiaorui, and Hu Xiaorui took Wang Yifeng home to meet his parents, who were also very satisfied with this boy who looked stable and down-to-earth, but only asked him to be good to his daughter, and there was nothing else to ask for.
Wang Yifeng's family was also very satisfied with Hu Xiaorui, looking at this girl dressed in ordinary clothes and dressed very ordinary, Wang Yifeng's mother was particularly satisfied, so the two families quickly discussed the marriage, and under the blessing of everyone, the two young people entered the palace of marriage.
Because Wang Yifeng's family is also very ordinary, the family does not have much money left after the banquet, and can not buy them a new house, so after the two got married, under the advice of Hu Xiaorui, the two rented a house outside, the rent is five thousand yuan a month, although it is a little expensive, but Hu Xiaorui feels that the world of the two is very good.
Only after renting for a month, the mother-in-law did not go through their consent to directly find the landlord to return the house, said to Hu Xiaorui, our family originally had no money, you two can not spend money indiscriminately, you must know how to be frugal, can not spend the money must not spend, from today onwards you two move back to our own home, save a lot of money! ”
"But I can live at home, I am far away from the unit where I work, and it is very inconvenient to go to work." Hu Xiaorui said to her mother-in-law.
"Isn't it two stops away, can there be more than five thousand pieces?" You young people just can't settle accounts, so you pack up your things and go home."
In this way, Hu Xiaorui was forced to live with her mother-in-law. Hu Xiaorui thought that in fact, it is very good to live with her mother-in-law, so that she can directly eat the meals made by her mother-in-law when she returns home from work, and she also works outside most of the time, and there will be no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
However, really living together, Hu Xiaorui found a lot of problems, the mother-in-law is not only frugal in many things, even in the meal is also careful, there are only two or three dishes a day, and all are vegetarian dishes, at the beginning Hu Xiaorui was embarrassed to say, after a long time, he said to his mother-in-law: "Mom, buy some meat to eat, we have not had meat to eat, and the body will lack something after a long time." ”
"It's not a child, there is still a lack of things, what can be lacking, I am not saving money to save money in the future to buy you a house?"
After listening to her mother-in-law's words, Hu Xiaorui was not good enough to say anything more, and then Hu Xiaorui tried to eat in the unit, she could choose a lot of nutritious meals, and her mother-in-law was even more happy to see her eating in the unit.
03. Divorce
In addition to the mother-in-law repeatedly reminded her to be frugal at dinner, in the dressing and makeup of the mother-in-law also from time to time to remind her not to spend money indiscriminately, Hu Xiaorui thought that the mother-in-law is also for her own family, so there is no rebuttal. In the next ten years or so, Hu Xiaorui has been living in her mother-in-law's house and has been eating at the unit.
On this day, Hu Xiaorui had to go to the night shift again, and hu Xiaorui had to go to the unit canteen early to eat before each night shift. When I went out of the house, I went to the bus station, and when I waited for the bus, I received a call from a colleague, saying that I wanted to change shifts with her for special reasons, Hu Xiaorui agreed very happily, the night shift was temporarily canceled, hu Xiaorui hung up the phone and went home again.
Open the door to the house, know that the mother-in-law and husband are eating, and the big fish and meat on the table are delicious. The eater was overwhelmed when he saw her return, stood up and said to her, "How did you come back, didn't you go to work?" Mom cooked some good food for the first time today, and was talking about saving some of your food tomorrow for a while. ”
"How did I come back, and if I don't come back I can see what you've done to me?" Is this your thriftiness? Co-authoring is to let me save alone, I said how to always smell the smell of meat, I always thought that someone else's cooking floated over, it turned out that there has always been meat at home, but it is not for me to eat. ”
In the end, Hu Xiaorui angrily went through the divorce procedures with Wang Yifeng and ended the 12-year marriage, such a home she did not want to stay for a moment, the whole family was deceiving themselves, and she was like a fool who paid wholeheartedly for this family.
The mother-in-law has good things only to give to her son, but also to avoid the daughter-in-law, such a differential treatment is also completely stupid, since married back to the daughter-in-law, should be treated like a relative, so that the family can be harmonious, the family can love each other.
The same woman, the mother-in-law is also from the daughter-in-law at that time, women why bother women, some mother-in-law has never regarded the daughter-in-law as their own family, always regard the daughter-in-law as an outsider, do not hesitate to use all kinds of lies to deceive the daughter-in-law, such a practice can only harm themselves and others in the end.
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