Today, there is already a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women.
According to the results of the census, there is already a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women on the mainland, with a value of about 116.9:100, and the number of men far exceeds the number of women.
Such a result may cause men to panic, is it about to face the risk of hitting a single stick? If you don't work hard, the consequences are really unimaginable.
Survey shows that more than 40% of young women in the mainland decided to be "unmarried"
In a survey report, nearly half of the 100 women who were tested said they had no intention of getting married, even in recent decades.
Among them, the women who hold this view have different degrees of education, including graduate students and doctors, as well as undergraduate and specialist students. Their ideas all coincide, and their spiritual world is more important.
In addition, the economic base is not an important factor influencing their decision. Many of the women who decide not to marry do not have a regular income, and their daily expenses need to receive parental relief.
Even so, they never thought of marriage as a means and shortcut to change their destiny. They have always believed that as long as their desires are not so strong, life can be simple and beautiful.
Moreover, women who choose not to marry also said that those friends around them who "fell into" marriage have become unrecognizable, have no freedom and life to speak of, even if they go out to meet friends, they will not leave the family in three sentences.
What are the reasons why women choose this?
Self-emotional experience: repeated defeats, lost the courage to start again
Many girls will have a "love brain" in love, simply put, girls will be immersed in love and can not extricate themselves, they can only see the side they want to see.
As long as the other party gives them a little benefit, they will have the illusion that they are the happiest people in the world. And they will also self-hypnotize, immersed in this illusion all the time.
Girls in this situation are very likely to be hurt in love. On the one hand, it is because they have lost the ability to distinguish between good and bad, and they are overwhelmed by love and cannot distinguish whether the other party is good or bad.
On the other hand, it is because the other party has pinched their characteristics and deliberately used them to hurt them. It wasn't until they were squeezed dry of their last bit of use.
Influence of the original family: The parents' marriage is very unsuccessful and they do not want to repeat the mistakes of the past
In the original family, how the parents' feelings will directly affect the formation of the child's concept of marriage and the concept of mate selection, if the parents love and create a harmonious family atmosphere, the child will also be full of security.
But if parents are always noisy, start wars at every turn, and even sometimes affect children, how can children form a correct view of marriage?
After all, their parents have not done a good job of role modeling, and when their children grow up, they will only keep recalling the dark times they have experienced, erecting sharp thorns on their bodies, for fear of hurting others.
In addition, even if the parents are in harmony, it will have a certain harm to the child. Because children can clearly see the difference between their parents, they will even become very inferior, afraid that what they have done wrong will worsen their parents' feelings.
Adolescent Memories: First love does not leave good memories
It is said that the first love is the most beautiful memory, and everyone's first love that begins in the green and ignorant period is pure, not mixed with any material factors, and even can not care about anyone's eyes.
As long as two people have good feelings and look at each other with love in their eyes, no one and nothing can tear them apart. Even if you don't come to the end, after many years of looking back, you will still raise the corners of your mouth.
But if the first love is not as beautiful as we think, it will have a great impact on the future love life. Because even when you only test your feelings, you don't get the love you want, let alone the interests!
What if you pour out everything you show to the other person, but you lose outright? Such a humiliating experience is as uncomfortable as picking your own skin. It's not so much about letting it go, it's better to kill it in the cradle.
Today's Topic:
What else do you think are the reasons why women choose not to get married? Are these reasons acceptable to you yourself? If someone around you chooses so, will you exhort you? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!