In "The World of Man", Bingkun wants to sell his house and move back to the old house because of the bright things. In this way, it would not be very convenient for Feng Yue to follow them again, so he wanted Zhou Rong to take Yue Yue away. Feng Huacheng heard the difficulty of the light, so he went to the temple and wrote a poem, but he did not expect that this brought a lot of pilgrims to the temple, so the problem of the light was solved. But in the trailer, Bingkun seems to be selling the house again. As for Yue Yue, Dong Mei said that she could pick her up at home.
Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng settled down in Jichun, although they were small, but if they wanted their daughter to move back, how could they have no place to live? At that time, Zheng Juan and Bingkun only had two rooms, didn't they also raise Feng Yue and Zhou Nan? Later, he also gave birth to Congcong.
The house is small, just Zhou Rong's excuse. Yue Yue actually wanted to go home in her heart. She said, "No matter how difficult it is in the future, I will take my child with me", but why doesn't Zhou Rong want to take Yue Yue home?
1, love is supreme
Although Zhou Rong is not a love brain, she is also a champion of the "love first" theory, as she said when she was young, love is her faith.
When she was young, she ignored her mother and insisted on going to Guizhou to pursue love. Four years later, when her father came to see her, she did not have any remorse in her heart, and swore that she would not divorce in this life, even if she broke off relations with her parents and cut off her family with her brothers, she would not abandon love. In her eyes, love is more important than everything, more important than family affection.
Later, she gave birth to a daughter, who, according to her, was the daughter she had cut with her own hands, the daughter she had protected with her life. However, on the train station back home, just because Feng Huacheng was taken away, she left her daughter and followed the family.
For so many years, while waiting for feng Huacheng's news, she went to class and never thought of picking up her daughter. After knowing that Feng Huacheng was safe, she chose to study for Peking University instead of picking up her daughter... It can be said that in her eyes, the daughter is far less important than her love.
For so many years, although she has been arguing with Feng Huacheng, in her heart, Feng Huacheng still occupies an important position. Just like this quarrel, just happened to be seen by Bingkun, she chose to maintain, saying that she was not careful, Feng Huacheng did not beat her.
Feng Yue was not as important as Feng Huacheng, so she would feel that it didn't matter where she put her daughter.
2. The indifference of family affection
Zhou Rong said that feelings come out of nowhere. That was her deepest feeling after being hit by her daughter again and again.
When Feng Yue was young, it was really inconvenient to take her to school, so she put her in her grandmother's house. At that time, in fact, she was still trying to find a way to close the distance between herself and her daughter. For example, during the winter and summer vacations, she came back to play with her daughter; and later, she and Feng Huacheng took Yue Yue and Nan Nan to Beijing to play together.
But as her daughter gets older, the more she dares to go near her daughter, especially now that she is in a rebellious period. On National Day, the whole family gathered together, happily ate the reunion dinner, and made an appointment to take family photos together. As a result, just because Yue Yue said that she would watch this episode and then go again, Zhou Rong was angry with her daughter.
Yue Yue ran away from home angrily because her mother turned off the TV, and Zheng Juan said" "You don't understand this child's temper", which deeply stimulated Zhou Rong.
Later, Zhou Rong watched Yue Yue's life, and she understood her daughter's estrangement from herself even more. This time at the parent-teacher conference, Yue Yue's grades declined, and the two quarreled again.
At this time, although Zhou Rong said that she wanted to take Yue Yue away, she did not dare at all, because she did not know how to communicate with her daughter.
Coupled with the fact that at present, her contradictions with Feng Huacheng are increasing day by day, and she is afraid that her return to Yue Yue will aggravate family conflicts.
After a long separation, their mother and daughter are no longer close, only indifferent. Under the indifference there is only quarrel, no warmth. At this time, Zhou Rong, can she still take her daughter home?
3. Inner inferiority
Zhou Rong did not dare to pick up her daughter, and there was a more important reason, that is, her current housing conditions were not good.
Before, when Zhou Bingkun was still crowded in the old house, Zhou Rong still had the confidence to pick up her daughter, after all, there was a house in Beijing at that time, and the conditions were good. But later, when they returned to Jichun, Zhou Bingkun had already bought a large flat floor, and Yue Yue still had a room of her own there.
Zhou Rong went to her daughter's room, saw the locked drawer, remembered her childhood dream, and knew that Yue Yue could no longer accept life huddled with her parents.
Therefore, she would rather let her daughter go to Zhou Bingyi's house to live in rather than let her return to her own home. Because Yue Yue can have a room of their own and a space of their own in their home, but not in their own home.
She quarreled with Feng Huacheng because of the unsmooth career. Originally, she was as smart as her brother, or graduated from Peking University, or a graduate degree, but she did not expect that in the end, she was not as good as her brother Bingkun, who did not graduate from junior high school, was she balanced in her heart?
Yue Yue returned home, and every time she quarreled with her and talked about the house problem, she had no place to look at herself, which would become her heart disease. Therefore, in order to avoid contradictions, she still sent Yue Yue to Dongmei's house.
Zhou Rong did not dare to take her daughter back, the most important thing was that she did not understand her daughter. What children care about is not the house at all, but the love of their parents!
In those years, if Zhou Rong took Yue Yue with her, no matter how difficult and hard it was, Yue Yue would not complain, but would be closer to her!
After all, the missing time still needs to be made up, and later Zhou Rong's more than ten years of accompanying her daughter in France is a compensation for her missing her daughter's growth!