The era drama "The World of Man" has come to an end.
In the whole play, the woman who was scolded the most should be Weeks. From the beginning of hiding from her parents and secretly running to the mountains of Guizhou to find Feng Huacheng, zhou Rong's "selfish" label could not be torn off.
Later, in order to study for herself and become a professor, Zhou Rong selfishly threw her daughter Yue Yue to her brother and sister-in-law, completely disregarding how difficult it was for others.
Later, her daughter Yue Yue fell in love with Zheng Juan's son Nan Nan, and Zhou Rong actually ran to persuade Zheng Juan to agree to Yue Yue's interaction with Nan Nan, completely disregarding how embarrassed her brother and daughter-in-law would be.
Zhou Rong is such a selfish being, so she was scolded miserably.
In turn, the most praised woman in the whole play is Zhou Bingkun's daughter-in-law Zheng Juan.
It can be said that those who have seen "The World of Man" have hardly not praised Zheng Juan.
However, in real life, everyone praises Zheng Juan, but no one wants to be her; Zhou Rong, who everyone hates, is estimated to be what most women want to live.
First, a woman like Zheng Juan, in reality, has a high probability of being disappointed
In "The World of Man", Zheng Juan is a good woman who is tough and kind and understands righteousness.
During the time when Zhou Bingkun was taken away, she was taking care of Zhou's mother, who was unconscious.
And when the selfish Zhou Rong threw her daughter Yue Yue to Zhou Bingkun to pursue her ideals and career, Zheng Juan did not complain and took on the responsibility of raising Yue Yue.
Later, Zhou Bingkun went to prison for hurting Luo Shibin because of negligence, and it was Zheng Juan who supported the whole family by selling popsicles and doing small business.
This woman, really too kind, is also too good.
However, as many netizens said, Zheng Juan is very good, but she also has to meet Zhou Bingkun, but how many people in this world are Zhou Bingkun?
So in reality, women like Zheng Juan who put down their careers and needs and pay all for men and families will not have good results.
As the saying goes: once a woman gives up herself, she gives up the initiative in life.
Second, a woman like Zhou Rong has a point that is worth learning from all women
In "The World of Man", Zhou Rong is selfish enough to be scolded by almost all the audiences, but in fact, leaving aside her selfish style, Zhou Rong actually has one point that is worth learning from all women, which is to love yourself, have been trying to run, to live as you want.
Because of this trait, so Zhou Rong ran all the way, whether it was obstinately going her own way, running with her family to find Feng Huacheng in the mountains of Guizhou, or throwing her children to her brothers and sisters-in-law, leaving housework to Feng Huacheng, thinking about Peking University with one heart, pursuing her own academic and personal development, what Zhou Rong wanted was just to work hard and live as she wanted.
Like the great scientists and artists who have their minds set on their own intoxicating careers, most of them do not have the time or energy to think about anything else.
This is a kind of paranoia, but without this paranoia, successful scientists, physicists, etc., will probably not be born.
From this point of view, Zhou Rong also has a certain paranoia, as if something has been pulling her, making her keep moving forward, always moving forward.
Yes, it is true that Zhou Rong is selfish, but many women who have boiled themselves into yellow-faced women for the sake of their families, husbands and children after marriage need such a little Bit of Zhou Rong's paranoia.
When, women can put their own needs, their inner feelings in front of their husbands and children, when women will really mature.
Third, living as you want is the career of every woman's life
Zhang Ailing said: "To experience, and then to regret, to do what you want to do, to choose what you love, not in the eyes of others, your life should live for yourself." ”
For women, why not?
Pour all your energy and feelings into your family and into men, and eventually you will find that you will only get farther and farther away from what you want.
Just like Zhou Rong in "The World", it is because she lost her housework to Feng Huacheng, lost her children to her brothers and sisters-in-law, ran all the way, and worked hard to grow upwards, and finally, she became a better self.
Just imagine, if Zhou Rong is tired of family affairs every day, surrounded by pots and pans, around children, around her husband, living in a mess, and making herself a yellow-faced woman, will Cai Xiaoguang still love her?
However, we can not be as selfish as Zhou Rong, give the child to the younger sister who has no obligation to manage the child for himself, and put his own needs above the needs of others, but pursuing himself, constantly improving himself, and letting himself always grow and progress is what each of us should learn from Zhou Rong.
Speaking of which, Zhou Rong's selfishness is indeed repugnant, but sometimes, it is not a good thing to be appropriately selfish.