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"In the World of Man": Without Zhou Bingkun's filial piety of "raising the mouth body", there would be no poetry and distant places of the elder sister

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"The World of Man" claims to be watched by 400 million people, poking tears. What is most touching in the play is the tragic and joyful life of the protagonist Zhou Bingkun, his ups and downs, several ups and downs, can be said to have earned enough tears from the audience. But thinking about it carefully, this youngest son, who is the oldest in the Zhou family, is like the Easter egg of the Zhou family, just like the existence of the whole family's Dinghai God needle.

Zhou Bingkun, compared with his studious, intelligent and clever brother and sister, he is not proud, has a wooden personality, is quiet, and is not pleasing.

But it is such a young man with a generous duty, in that turbulent era, with his own pragmatism and diligence, while shouldering the burden of supporting his parents, while supporting a clear sky for his relatives. It was his wordless affection and heavy load that fulfilled the peace and joy of the five members of the Zhou family and the quiet years.

"In the World of Man": Without Zhou Bingkun's filial piety of "raising the mouth body", there would be no poetry and distant places of the elder sister

01. He is the only warmth that a mother can reach

The head of the Zhou family, Zhou Zhigang, followed the engineering team to the south and north for many years, and Zhou Bingkun's brother and sister went to the mountains and went to the countryside one after another. The elder brother Zhou Bingyi went to the corps, and the sister Zhou Rong went to the mountains of Guizhou alone for love, and there was no news.

In a family of five, only Zhou's mother and younger son Bingkun are left to rely on each other.

After graduating from junior high school, Bingkun quickly became an ordinary worker in the timber factory, busy every day in the morning and greedy, but the salary was not moving to hand over to his mother, and the dirty work at home, as long as he was there, he was all packaged.

Zhou's mother could not read big characters, and every time someone in the family wrote a letter, she relied on Bingkun to patiently read it to her mother word by word, and it was his sincerity that relieved her mother's infinite thoughts of distant relatives.

It can be said that he not only replaced the companionship of his father to his mother, but also replaced the filial piety of his brothers and sisters to his mother.

In that special era, he became the only warmth and dependence that his mother could rely on.

"In the World of Man": Without Zhou Bingkun's filial piety of "raising the mouth body", there would be no poetry and distant places of the elder sister

02. He made the Zhou family have a stable happiness

After going to the mountains and going to the countryside, the life of the Zhou family gradually became prosperous, and his brother Zhou Bingyi and sister Zhou Rong were successively admitted to Peking University. Later, his brother Bingyi married the governor's Qianjin Hao Dongmei, and his sister also married Feng Huacheng, a well-known Beijing poet at the time.

It can be said that the older brothers and sisters have their own aura, unlimited scenery, and are the façade of the Zhou family.

As said in the play, there are two kinds of filial piety: one is to nourish the mouth and the body, and the other is to nourish the mind.

To raise a mouth and body is to serve by the side of parents and take care of their parents' food, clothing, shelter and transportation; and to cultivate the mind is to go far away and fly high, to achieve something, and to make parents proud of it.

Obviously, Bingkun belongs to the former compared with his older brother and sister who cultivate his mind.

He is both ordinary and ordinary, still an ordinary worker, his wife Zheng Juan is even more miserable, her fiancé was shot, with her elderly mother and blind brother, and a child waiting to be fed.

But it was such an ordinary couple, after Zhou's mother was paralyzed in bed with cerebral hemorrhage, hiding from everyone in the Zhou family, and the couple worked together to shoulder the burden of taking care of their mother.

Bingkun went out to work, Zheng Juan took care of the housework, washed and cooked, took care of the mother-in-law on the sickbed, and kept this small home clean and orderly every day.

In order to dredge the meridians for her mother-in-law, she humbly learned massage techniques and put her delicate hands on the scars of the years.

In this way, because of her careful care, Zhou Mu recovered from a vegetative person identified by a doctor to a healthy person who talks and laughs.

As the eldest brother Zhou Bingyi said: "Mom is here, home is there." ”

Indeed, back home, with a mother's name, is happiness!

And the happiness of all this is precisely because of the existence of the Bingkun couple, they are like a needle that fixes the sea god, fixing the Zhou family in a stable happiness.

"In the World of Man": Without Zhou Bingkun's filial piety of "raising the mouth body", there would be no poetry and distant places of the elder sister

03. He gave his loved ones poetry and far away

Because of the stability of the Zhou family's base camp, the Zhou family brothers and sisters rushed to the cause wholeheartedly. The elder brother Bingyi relied on his ingenuity and thorough handling of things, and his official fortunes were prosperous, and he climbed all the way to the position of mayor.

Sister Zhou Rongrong returned to her hometown, because she had the bottom of knowledge, she studied continuously, becoming the youngest associate professor in a national key university, and the road of life can be said to be smooth.

Although her sister Zhou Rong and brother-in-law Feng Huacheng were both Kochi and scholars, because of the shortage of housing at that time, neither of them was allocated housing. Therefore, they put their only daughter Yue Yue in foster care with their younger brother Bingkun, which was for several years, until Zhou Rong's school was assigned to housing, yue Yue returned to her parents.

For so many years, Bingkun and Zheng Juan have been working hard and raising Yue Yue, and their lives are hard and difficult. For the sake of the life of a family of several people, Bingkun did not rest for a day, from the timber factory to the soy sauce factory, he worked hard for this family.

In that era of being hit by the "wave of layoffs" and "the tide of reform", he did the hardest work and lived in the most dilapidated houses. Even so, he did not cry bitterness, shouted tiredness, and did not look for his sister Zhou Rong to live a penny of living expenses.

After supporting them, their lives slowly got on the track, opening restaurants, bookstores, and the Zhou family finally moved from the slums into their own homes.

They also considered that Yue Yue was a girl, afraid that her living life was inconvenient, and specially left a separate room for Yue Yue in the courtyard, but let their two sons and four parents squeeze in a small space.

It can be said that if her sister Zhou Rong did not have her brother Bingkun, what courage would she have to go to other places to pursue love? What power does she have to stay in Beijing to study and develop?

It is precisely because of Bingkun and sister-in-law Zheng Juan that they have no worries and can safely pursue their own poetry and distant places.

"In the World of Man": Without Zhou Bingkun's filial piety of "raising the mouth body", there would be no poetry and distant places of the elder sister

04. If you can find dreams in poetry, someone must make a living for you in the fireworks

Therefore, no matter what years are quiet, it is just someone who is carrying the weight for us.

If you think you can still dream poetically, someone must be making a living for you in the fireworks.

I'm impressed with that.

My husband is a veteran. After retiring from the army, he has been running his own possessions for the rear of our family. Because my health has not been good, so the size of the family, inside and out, three meals a day, eating and wearing, child transportation, support for the elderly, all rely on him to support and maintain.

It was precisely because of my husband's reassuring pill that my condition was stabilized; it was precisely because of his patience that my emotions were alleviated.

At the same time, because of his protection, I have leisure time, I can read books and newspapers, dance and ink, and pursue my poetic feelings in the text.

Whenever I think of this, I am particularly grateful to my husband, who is like Zhou Bingkun in "The World", seemingly speechless, but the most pragmatic and affectionate; seemingly obscure and inconspicuous, but the greatest and most responsible existence.

Therefore, grateful for the gift of life, only cherishing what you love and cherishing the present is the best reward for the people you love.

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