Two years after my ex-husband died, I decided to remarry. On the eve of the wedding, my mother-in-law found me, she handed me a paper bag, opened the paper bag, and inside was 100,000 yuan. I asked my mother-in-law: At this moment you send

Two years after my ex-husband died, I decided to remarry. On the eve of the wedding, my mother-in-law found me, she handed me a paper bag, opened the paper bag, and inside was 100,000 yuan. I asked my mother-in-law: What do you mean by sending me 100,000 yuan at this moment? My mother-in-law's words brought my thoughts back to the past.

I am 46 years old, my ex-husband died two years ago, and when he died, he weighed less than 80 pounds. When he was alive, he was a strong and healthy man, and when he fell seriously ill, he was tortured, and it was painful to watch.

I met my ex-husband when I was 24 years old, when I went into a factory as an apprentice, and my ex-husband was the workshop leader, and he was 26 years old.

The ex-husband was very serious and responsible for the work, he was very strict with our workers who entered the factory, and he was very patient when teaching us skills.

Two months after I entered the workshop, I learned that my ex-husband did not have a girlfriend, and he spent all his time and energy on work, delaying his love.

I was impressed by his character and began to pursue him. When I was 24 years old, I was still beautiful.

After we started dating, I learned that my ex-husband had a favorite girl, but he was shy and introverted, did not dare to confess, and missed many opportunities. This time, if I hadn't taken the initiative, I'm afraid we would have had no luck.

Love someone, just speak out boldly, leave no regrets, whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as you really like each other, don't be ashamed to express it.

After more than half a year of dating, we began to talk about marriage, although the parents of both sides had no opinions on us, but because of the dowry, there was no unity.

At that time, my parents offered a dowry of twenty thousand, because at that time, my ex-husband's mother, who had a serious illness a year ago, had spent a lot of money, and now they can't come up with twenty thousand, they can only take out ten thousand.

My parents insisted on twenty thousand, not one point less, and our love encountered resistance.

It was I who, in front of my parents, both begging and using other methods, forced my parents to lower the bride price, and in the end, my parents agreed to lower 5,000.

My parents made concessions, and I didn't want to embarrass them anymore, so I borrowed 3,000 for myself and my colleagues, and borrowed 2,000 from my uncle. When I borrowed money from my uncle, I told my uncle not to tell my parents about it, and I would pay back the money myself in the future.

The problem of the bride price was solved, and we had a wedding ceremony, and although the wedding was simple, I was still extremely happy.

The wedding is not grand, has nothing to do with love, and has nothing to do with the quality of marriage after marriage. After getting married, we became husband and wife, and we were very affectionate, and in the second year after marriage, I gave birth to a boy.

There are many people who lament that after having children, the quality of marriage declines, and the relationship between husband and wife begins to be estranged, but I have no such experience, even if I have children, I and my ex-husband are still in love with each other as before.

I thought that the two of us could do this, hand in hand for a lifetime, with white heads.

But three years ago, the ex-husband always felt stomach discomfort, I urged him to go to the hospital for examination, the ex-husband was always busy with work, and later, he really hurt so much that he couldn't do it, and the examination learned that it was a terminal stage of severe illness.

My ex-husband didn't want treatment, he didn't want to drag me down, he said: Instead of wasting money on me, it is better to leave it to the children and parents and let them live happily, especially the children, it is a continuation of my life, as long as he can be healthy and happy, I want nothing else.

But I couldn't give up on my ex-husband, and I tried to persuade and plead bitterly, and my ex-husband was very reluctant and admitted to the hospital.

I was going to take care of him, but my ex-husband wouldn't let me, he said: You still have a job, you still have to take care of the children, let the parents take care of me.

At that time, I was too simple to believe my ex-husband's words.

During the period when my ex-husband was hospitalized, everything, including taking him to the test and paying for the treatment, was done by my in-laws, and I just had time to come and see him, sometimes let my in-laws come home to rest, and I was here to spend the night with my ex-husband.

My husband stayed in the hospital for more than two months, and when he returned home, he lived for more than a month, and finally passed away in regret.

After my ex-husband died, my in-laws and my mother both advised me to find another one, after all, I was not very old, but I did not agree. Later, my mother-in-law gave me ideological work, she said: I know you can't forget my son, but he is gone, you are worthy of him, if he has knowledge underground, I also hope that you will live a happy and happy life.

First, it is the actual needs of life, and second, I don't want my in-laws and parents to worry too much about me, so I have the plan to find another one.

Remarriage should be more cautious, I also hold this principle, and did not rush, more than two years after the death of my ex-husband, through the introduction, I only met, my current husband, he is the same as my ex-husband, kind and simple, can be trusted.

After a period of interaction, we decided on the wedding date, but on the eve of my marriage, my mother-in-law found me, she handed me a paper bag, opened the paper bag and looked at it, it was 100,000 yuan inside.

I was very surprised, so I asked my mother-in-law: I remarried, why did you suddenly give me 100,000 yuan?

My mother-in-law explained to me that it turned out that when my husband was sick, although he was admitted to the hospital, he did not let the doctor take conventional treatment for him, but only let the doctor give him some cheap medicines, and the reason he gave to the doctor was that our family was difficult and had no money.

My husband gave me to my in-laws and saved all the money he used to treat the disease.

When my husband was dying, he also quietly told my mother-in-law that if I married again in the future, he would give me the money he had saved, because he owed me ten thousand dowry money that year.

After my mother-in-law finished speaking, I burst into tears, I know that this hundred thousand yuan is a piece of deep affection for my ex-husband, but I don't want this money, I think this money should belong to my mother-in-law.

Am I right in thinking this way? How do I convince my mother-in-law to take the money back and keep it for herself?

This money was left to you by your ex-husband, I think your mother-in-law will not take it back, behind this money, it is your ex-husband's blessing and affection for you.

You put the money away first, and when your in-laws need it, you give it back to them in another way.

Accepting this money may be the best comfort for your in-laws!