Parents, if you have boys in your family, remember to read today's article.
The 3 bad habits mentioned in this issue of the article should be changed by parents so that they can cultivate their sons into manly men who stand tall in the sky.
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From "helping" children everywhere to asking for help from children
A parent near Nan Nan once told me that she fed her son from childhood to junior high school, because her son did not like to eat.
Whether the son is thirsty or not, water is brought to the son's mouth; help squeeze the toothpaste before brushing his teeth; prepare clothes before going out... In short, no matter what, he has to help his son think about everything.
As a result, my son is now almost 30 years old, and he will forget to brush his teeth when he wakes up.
I believe that similar examples are not uncommon, so raising a son, you say that your son's own life can not take care of himself, but also hope that he can make any big career?
To borrow a poem used by Li Xian, "How many difficult things are in front of you, since ancient times, boys should be self-reliant."
Parents should let their sons do things, discuss things with their sons, communicate with their sons as adult men, let him learn to make decisions, and treat him as a man, not a child.
In this way, he can grow up faster, men naturally like to pursue a sense of value, if they can do a lot of things on their own from a young age, so that he can become more confident, more and more responsible, and his ability and pattern will improve faster than other peers.
Therefore, parents should change their concepts, do not use their sons as flowers in the greenhouse to raise, and think about how to help their children do this and that, but let their children help themselves to do this and that.
From picking children's faults to more praise, motivate children
Boys are generally more naughty, often while playing games while writing homework, parents can not always pick the child to say that they are not attentive, desertion, greedy, not good at writing homework, what is the use of playing games? What can be done in the future?
After receiving these negative news for a long time, the child will behave more and more negatively, simply breaking the jar and breaking it, letting you say it and ignoring you.
Wise parents usually do this, saying to their sons: Baby, you are the best, is it time to concentrate on homework? I'm sure you'll be able to do it soon!
So the point is up to you, maybe you have an unexpected gain!
Last but not least, let the child feel loved
It is important for children to feel loved, and it is said that a good childhood can cure a lifetime, and a bad childhood needs a lifetime to heal.
I hope that parents can do this well, but the so-called love does not mean that there are needs, nor does it mean all kinds of praise, but to respect and accept the child, respect the child's ideas, and accept the child's inadequacies.
If the child has done something that should not be done, then tell him: Baby, the mother loves you, but I do not approve of your approach, if it is the mother, the mother should do this, do you think the mother's approach is feasible?
Parents should communicate with their children patiently, so that children can feel your understanding and respect, rather than blindly accusing and scolding, we must let children feel the firm love of parents for him.
Speaking of this, I believe there will be parental feedback, Nannan is really standing and talking without waist pain, the child will not be so obedient, and he said it well, that is, he did not listen, I was angry to death, how to communicate well?
If this is the case, Nan Nan can only tell these parents that the child is still young, like a blank piece of paper, the paintbrush is in the hands of the parents, and what they want to draw depends on the parents.
Children are their own children, if they cannot be well educated, and they are not willing to learn how to educate well, it is difficult to cultivate good children.
After all, parents are the child's first teacher, and the words and deeds of parents are subtly influencing the child.
Therefore, parents should do a good job of setting an example for their children, parents can read the article several times, engrave these contents in their minds, remember in their hearts, even if they can help parents a little, this article will not be written in vain.
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