Educating children is an art, it is not easy to educate well, parents should pay attention to all stages of children's growth!
Nan Nan's academic performance in the sixth grade this year has been in the top few grades, and the parents of the children who are about to rise to the beginning of the primary school have no worries about her grades at the beginning of the primary school. But in terms of making friends, the child's mother began to worry about the child, once when the child was picked up from school, when the child's mother went to see the children in physical education class on the playground across the guardrail, that is, this time the child's mother found the problem.
When the physical education class disbanded the children's free activities, she found that almost all the children were chatting and playing games in groups, but only her own children did not have children to take care of, and she herself did not go to communicate with the children, sitting alone on the steps quietly watching other children play happily. Don't look at the daughter's learning is very good now, this psychological state of not being good at making friends will definitely drag the child's hind legs in the future days when they need to learn more knowledge.
Later, the child's mother went to consult a friend who was a teacher, and the friend said: The child's lack of ability in primary school will lead to easy learning problems in the future, and parents should pay attention to it.
1. Self-management
Self-discipline is a kind of life, children should start from an early age, "everything is predetermined, not predetermined" Parents should guide their children to learn self-management whether in learning life or in daily life, to clarify their learning goals can not blindly pursue speed, in some emergencies also have to think twice, if the child really can't control themselves, just take a deep breath in the first five seconds of the outbreak, and then consider whether this thing is worth being grumpy.
2. The concept of time
Whether the child's concept of time is directly linked to the child's integrity value, such as a child with procrastination, you let him write homework, he can grind the last thing from the afternoon to the evening is not willing to do what he is not happy to do. When this situation occurs, parents should tell their children the importance of time, clearly tell their children what kind of time period to do, if it exceeds this time period, then all the surrounding conditions can no longer support themselves to complete this matter.
Like Nan Nan's brother is a typical patient of procrastination, just in the second year of high school, he knows that he has more homework, Nan Nan's mother has also reminded many times, but the child is not easy to manage, he promised to write immediately, the game in hand and the outdoor basketball or do not leave the hand until play until Sunday night and then stay up late to make up for homework, so is it not worth the loss? Sunday night all night homework, not to mention the quality of homework, the next day When Monday goes to class, the child must be listless, the first day of the new week is wasted, how can the child's grades not regress after a long time?
3. Social skills
Social skills are essential for a person, so it is necessary to start from an early age to cultivate, many parents in order to compare grades, always blindly concerned about the quality of children's grades, blindly to the children to report a variety of cram school interest classes, cut away from the child's independent private space, did not leave room for them to make friends to chat and play games together.
This not only can not make the child become a really good person, but also let the child be isolated, if isolated in school is how painful it is, so we must warn you as parents, do not blindly pursue the child's achievements, to leave them enough private space, so that they are away from the psychological harm brought by "social fear".
Especially Nan Nan is still in elementary school, it is not too late, this time the child's mother began to cultivate Nan Nan's social skills, teach her how to establish friendly relations with the peers around her equally, encourage Nan Nan to make friends, usually pay more attention to the child's dating problems, and the child will slowly become cheerful over time.
Later, Nan Nan also successfully entered junior high school, and when she went to see Nan Nan at school, she found that she had many friends around her who chatted with her, and her grades were also steadily improving, and Nan Nan's mother who saw this change was very pleased.