In 2021, there was a lady Ning Shunhua who filed for divorce 5 times in 5 years, but the first 4 times were rejected and was on the hot search.
Her state in marriage is the object of being PUA.
Her ex-husband, Chen Dingren, once told her that he was born when his mother was 50 years old, from childhood to adulthood, but if he played with emotions, there was nothing he could not get.
Chen Dingren, who grew up in this environment, has a very immature personality, but whenever someone says "no" to him, he is furious.
Soon after the marriage, Ning Shunhua found that Chen Dingren had a gambling problem, and occasionally persuaded him, Chen Dingren lost his temper, and he threw up the table and smashed things again.
As the contradiction between the two grew, Chen Dingren not only punched and kicked his wife, but also vented his temper on his wife's family.
In an argument, he even slashed Ning Shunhua's brother with the back of a knife.
Even the lawyer invited by Ning Shunhua was threatened by Chen Dingren.
For the next 5 years, Ning Shunhua was running around to escape the marriage.
In order to be summoned to the court at any time, she had to give up her stable job in the big city and only work a few scattered part-time jobs.
Most of the money earned is also used for litigation and travel expenses.
Every time she went home to court, she was afraid that her husband, who was out of control, would run to block her halfway.
In the end, ning Shunhua was already exhausted and said to her relatives, "I can't feel the color of the world anymore." ”
Once a colorful life, only because of marrying a man who did not know how to control emotions, it has never returned.
Alison said in "Non-Emotional Communication": "Being able to control emotions is the most mature charm of a person." ”
When a man is impatient, essentially immature in his heart, he collapses when he encounters a small matter, equating emotional venting with problem solving.
Marrying such a person, without the nourishment of marriage, will also repeatedly suffocate himself in endless quarrels.
For the rest of your life, please be sure to stay away from those who are emotionally unstable.
Life is only once, you don't have so much time and energy to wait for a person to mature. #Emotional Review Awards ##北京头条 #
