What Lejia shows in "Do Not Disturb" is only a dime of his skill. In fact, his system is trying to use the most popular red, blue, yellow and green to answer the most important questions in life

What Lejia shows in "Do Not Disturb" is only a dime of his skill. In fact, his system is trying to use the most popular red, blue, yellow and green to answer the most important questions in life.

If you shout "character determines destiny" in front of him, you will definitely be scolded by this bald head.

He will tell you that what really determines your destiny is not your innate personality, but the personality you have formed, so everyone has the opportunity to change their destiny by cultivating themselves. If you don't believe me, then he will throw you ten real cases he has come into contact with at a very fast pace.

Of course, in the TV show, he will be more gentle. But you'll soon discover that he has a special knack for quickly finding the main characteristics of a person's personality in a matter of minutes and making wonderful and in-place reviews.

This is not a simple talent, but comes from the personality color analysis system he founded and the countless accumulated skills of reading people in the past ten years. Sometimes you may even suspect that he already has all kinds of models of people stored in his mind, and as long as he compares them, everything is clear.

If you want to trace the origin of the personality color analysis system, it is actually not unusual. There are billions of sentient beings in this world, and each of them has the same commonality and different individuality. Thus, the knowledge of dividing people into different types arises.

To evaluate such learning, there are several important indicators that cannot be ignored – first of all, it must be fun, secondly it must be useful, and again, it must be able to guide its own growth.

Fun, must be interesting, and only in this way can people enjoy it, rather than living in the academic hall. The most typical signs, such as the zodiac, are often the talk of everyone after tea and dinner.

Useful, you must have tools, there must be a set of tools, so that you know how to do it. For example, the Enneagram personality commonly used in the workplace.

Guiding yourself to grow, this is a higher level of kung fu.

When I recently reviewed and studied the personality color analysis system created by Legart again, I was surprised to find that this system has combined the above advantages.

To say simple and simple, the personality color analysis system can be summarized in eight words: insight - insight - cultivation - influence. Translated into the big vernacular, it is: figure out yourself, figure out others, make yourself better, make communication better.

To say that it is complicated is to spread the branches, just to figure out yourself, how difficult is it?

Know yourself – this statement is indeed the truth. But a lot of times it's just the right nonsense – how do you know yourself? What is the methodology, what are the tools, what is the path, what difficulties may be encountered, and how to solve them? - These are the keys.

Almost all growth plans are related to the answers to the above questions.

For example, there is a method called "contemplation." First contemplate your own breathing, constantly becoming aware and aware, then to contemplating your own body, then contemplating more subtle emotions, thoughts, and so on. This is a common introductory kung fu used by Buddhists.

For example, there is a method called "jing". Stand still, let all thoughts die on their own, until they can't stop thinking, and eventually the truth about yourself will naturally emerge. This is the Taoist preference.

For example, there is another method called "ginseng". Keep a bunch of people in a dark room for a week, and the only thing you're allowed to do is keep asking yourself the question— "Who am I?" ”。 This is the unique secret of Zen Buddhism.

It seems that all roads lead to Rome, but in fact, every road is full of twists and turns.

And Lejia spent ten years, in fact, constantly perfecting a unique method suitable for modern people, personality analysis is only the starting point of this road, and the final destination is that you still have to go to Rome.

It can't be said that his invention is more cattle than the predecessors, but with my personal experience with many people, this road is obviously more interesting and interesting, clear and precise.

First, Legart defines two words. Personality refers to the type of personality that people are born with; personality refers to the behavior of a person after being educated.

As a result, the question of "who am I" was divided into four by Legart: What is my natural character? What is my personality now? Why did I change from my natural personality to what I am now? How is my self in my eyes different from what others see as me, and why?

Don't underestimate this divide into four, explore your own path already in it.

For example, your natural personality is a lively and cheerful red, but now it is a cautious blue. So, you need to answer, why?

Whether it is the education of parents, or something in childhood, in any case, you need to explain this matter clearly. The process of this explanation is the process of exploring oneself.

This is the most basic kung fu, but also the most difficult kung fu. If you can figure yourself out completely, then it's only natural to get to know others better, to understand others, to communicate better with people.

Just a few days before writing this article, Legart said one thing that impressed me. He said that he once went to India for a devotional course, and at the same time, the music, the environment, the teacher's leadership — these unique atmospheres, when it comes to tolerance and love, everyone is touched and feels that they are full of love.

However, once out of the classroom, it doesn't take long for many people to go back to the old ways of everyday life — everything comes and goes quickly.

"If you can't truly understand the behavior of other people from the depths of your heart, how can you possibly produce lasting tolerance?" Lejia asked rhetorically.

Starting from the most popular red, blue, yellow and green, he has gone to the depths of the white clouds in ten years. ——April 19, 2010, Financial Weekly #Management #