Perfectionists are really attractive, successful in their careers, and single-minded in their feelings, but do you know how tired it is to have a normal relationship with her?
Spy-style love + public toilet anxiety + stealing acting skills
Liu Xiaomin
Enneagram No. 1: Perfectionist
Characteristics: strong principle, diligent persistence, pursuit of perfection, easy to anger
In the TV series "Xiao Min's House", Liu Xiaomin, a sensitive and beautiful chief nurse, has an independent and strong personality, has a cleaning habit, and loves to wear small white shoes.
In her work, she is conscientious, has a high sense of responsibility and professional ability, and is the technical backbone of the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital.
In marriage, perfectionists are equally cautious, and this caution not only requires the other party to have higher qualities, but also attaches more importance to the impact of marriage and love on themselves and their families, and does not want to disappoint others, nor does they want others to fail themselves.
In the TV series, Liu Xiaomin's sensitivity to various details stems from her inner high standard requirements.
In fact, in addition to the vigorous mediation of her mother Wang Sumin, the initial combination of Liu Xiaomin and Jin Bo also has her own perfectionist values hidden deep in her bones.
Because perfectionists have harsh requirements for themselves and others, in life, they love to drill the horns and sometimes contradict imperfect reality, resulting in conflicts between interpersonal relationships.
One sentence to sum up: The life of a perfectionist is not perfect.
Talking about marriage with perfectionists can be said to be a self-cultivation. But maybe you can also meet a better version of yourself.
In the next issue, we will introduce you to the No. 2 model of enneagram: Who will be the giver? Welcome to the Enneagram series of characters in Little Min's House.