"If you hit it, you will fight, and the skin will not hurt the bone!" As for being so pretentious?! Still want to hit my son? I don't care about you! 6 months ago, Ms. Gong, who earned only 8,000 yuan a month, was beaten again by her husband Mr. Xu, who lost 140,000 yuan in mahjong, and the 70-year-old mother-in-law actually insulted her so fiercely...
The thing is this, this year's 38-year-old Ms. Gong, who lives in the countryside of Luoyang, Henan, 10 years ago, but for love, married to Nanchang, Jiangxi, after marrying her husband Mr. Xu, not only has a pair of children, but also opened a building materials shop, the business is booming, there is a house and a car, the life should be happy and happy.
However, the good times are not long, just 3 years ago, the husband suddenly fell in love with playing mahjong, not only for the business in the store, for a pair of children is no longer concerned, more importantly, quietly outside a variety of loans to play mahjong, there was a fierce dispute between husband and wife, the family completely lost the warm atmosphere of the past.
Considering that the child is too small, the marriage is not easy, and the husband has repeatedly promised not to play mahjong again, she decided to put the shop directly out, work together in Hangzhou, and the husband is far away from the mahjong hall, the couple's monthly salary is nearly 20,000 yuan, should be able to pay off the previous debts, a good life, to create a warm harbor for the children.
She never expected that 6 months ago, she had just left work, and actually saw her husband returning by bus, and after some inquiry, her husband actually told her.
"Our car has been mortgaged to others, and now we still owe 140,000 debts, I just can't help it, and I touched the mahjong game on the Internet again, hurry up and pay me off the debt!"
Subsequently, she and her husband had a fierce argument again for this debt, and she was also beaten up by her husband fiercely, and the most excessive thing was that when her mother-in-law saw that she was going to fight back and beat her husband, she actually domineeringly inserted into their marital contradictions and insulted her.
"Hit it, hit it, hurt the skin doesn't hurt the bone, is it so pretentious?" Do you dare to beat my son? I don't care about you! ”
The husband's non-cherishing marriage behavior, the mother-in-law's calf protection, and the verbal violence that does not distinguish between right and wrong, completely ignited the anger in her heart, wanting to divorce, and the husband refused, so that she did not know how to be good.
In desperation, I had to find the "Gold Medal Mediation" column group of Jiangxi's famous emotional mediation column, hoping to help her mediate the marital conflict between her husband and wife through the joint help of media reporters and mediation teachers, and get together as well as possible.
Subsequently, at the enthusiastic invitation of the mediation teacher, she and her husband came to the mediation scene at the same time, however, at the beginning of the mediation, when she said that she wanted to divorce, her husband directly left the mediation scene in anger.
Fortunately, after the patient communication of the mediation teacher, her husband Mr. Xu returned to the mediation site, and Mr. Xu told the mediation teacher.
"I came to mediate today, mainly hoping that she can give me one last chance, the child is so small, do not divorce, I can completely quit playing mahjong and other bad habits, change my heart, re-be a person, be a husband, a son and a father, and assume the responsibilities and obligations that should be." If she still insists on divorce, there is really no need to continue mediating! ”
In this regard, the mediation teacher first expressed his position.
"Of course, we are here to persuade and not to persuade and leave, can help you analyze the problems in the marriage, in order to correct in time, in the end whether to divorce, or you choose by yourself, then the woman Ms. Gong, are you still willing to give this man one last chance?"
She told the mediation teacher.
"To tell the truth, since he contracted his bad habit of playing mahjong three years ago, we have quarreled with each other countless times, and given him countless opportunities, and even helped him pay off his debts many times, and took money from his mother's family to help him start a career, as a result, he disappointed me again and again, not only did not provide a little security for me and my children, but also repeatedly abused my family, especially after losing money, it was inevitable to beat him badly!" 」
"Not only that, a few months ago, we also signed an agreement to restrain his behavior, and as a result, we lost another 140,000 yuan, mortgaged the car, and my mother-in-law also spoke ill of me, violating my bottom line, I really can't stand it, I just want to get a divorce to get rid of it!"
Immediately afterward, the mediation teacher contacted her parents and mother-in-law separately, and expressed different views on their marriage, her mother-in-law said.
"I have now lived separately from them, whether they want to divorce or not, it has nothing to do with me, a few months ago, there was indeed verbal abuse of the daughter-in-law, that is, I also saw that the daughter-in-law actually wanted to beat my son, I must want to protect my son, I said that, of course, my son also has shortcomings, that is, he has playing mahjong and other bad habits, or I hope that my son can correct his mistakes!" 」
Her mother also said.
"For this son-in-law, there must be a big mistake, losing money again and again, giving countless opportunities without knowing how to cherish, and now we are willing to give him a chance, but we have to divorce first and then see his performance!" 」
In the end, the mediation teacher also gave several opinions after listening to each other's parents' opinions.
First, according to the description of the mediation scene, in fact, the woman still has certain feelings for this "unaffordable Adou" husband, but the man has not known how to cherish, and the initial anger can also be understood that the man finally realized the seriousness of the problem and wanted to save the body language made by the marriage.
Second, in the face of the problem of marriage leaving, the twisted melon is not sweet, rather than painstakingly saving the marriage, it is better to make changes from its own problems in time.
Third, at the end or beginning of a marriage, we should not take the child too much into the whirlpool of contradictions, and we should think about whether the feelings in this marriage are still there.
After listening to the words of the mediation teacher, each other also recognized their mistakes, were willing to give each other a year of cooling off, and then decided whether to end the marriage in the end...
In this regard, the headlines dear brothers and sisters, what do you think? If you were Ms. Gong, what would you do? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to interact and discuss together! #Emotional Emotion # #Emotional Review Awards # #我要上头条 #
