Why are we afraid of rejection? Tell you why from a special perspective!
We still use the genetic perspective to explain why we are afraid of rejection.
Our ancestors, the ancient ape people, had two genes in the race at that time, one was afraid of rejection. One is thick-skinned, not afraid to refuse, and after rejection, it is still the same as always!
When it comes to courtship, the ancient ape people who are afraid of being rejected, once rejected by the opposite sex, they will no longer make requests, and hurry to find another relationship, so that they can find a partner as soon as possible and start genetic inheritance work.
And the thick-skinned one is not afraid of being rejected, and after rejection, he is still not dead-hearted, or continues to wait. Just like this, I missed one opportunity after another, stumbled through the years, and ended up alone. Of course, this kind of gene has not been passed down.
With the passage of time, the gene of fear of rejection has been passed down. So we looked at the little baby and found that the baby was also afraid of rejection! But the current society is different from before, the thick-skinned can be mixed, and the thin-skinned can have a bad life!
So what do we do? What to do, quickly break through your own humanity, thick skin! [Teeth]
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