I'm remarried! The other party is a woman 9 years younger than me, Liu Yu. More than 3 months ago, I said to her, "Let's be together!" So we started a new life. New life first

I'm remarried! The other party is a woman 9 years younger than me, Liu Yu. More than 3 months ago, I said to her, "Let's be together!" So we started a new life. On the first night of her new life, Liu Yu went to take a shower, I don't know how long it took me to fall asleep, when I suddenly woke up and went to the bathroom to find her, she was not inside. I was surprised, and it wasn't until the end that I didn't know what was going on

My name is Xu Jixing, and I am 51 years old this year. Opened a technology intelligence company. Many years ago, it was very difficult to start a business at the beginning, and I also paid a lot of effort and sweat in the process, and I almost went bankrupt many times in the middle, but with the help and support of various friends, my company has also come back to life and become larger and larger.

Seeing that the company is becoming more and more mature, and my lover and I are increasingly wanting to enjoy life, we are planning to travel around and walk around more. But at this time my lover was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. He was treated in the hospital, but passed away more than a month ago.

In fact, after returning to the taste, a while ago she said that it was a little uncomfortable, like chest pain, let her go to the hospital is also prevaricated by her, think it is a little bit of a disease, not worth going to the hospital. She just can't afford to spend it.

My wife followed me all the way through the business, and she helped me a lot. Later, the business gradually improved, and I made money, but my wife was still like before, never spending money indiscriminately. He also always donated some money and books to charities, and funded the schooling of many Tibetan students. Those children have also grown up and have a good life.

After my lover left me, I was sad and on the verge of collapse. The company was also handed over to its subordinates to manage. I rested at home for a while. The child was also worried about my state and would take me out for a walk or go fishing. At that time, I was just 50 years old, my wife died, I was still a little physically weak, and I needed someone to accompany me. So the child has been with me, but gradually I feel that this is not good, I have hands and feet and I can't move, don't always trouble the child.

One of me was outing with my two children and their respective husbands and children, and when we were about to reach our destination, a car broke down on the side of the road, and my children and I rushed up to ask if we could help. The owner of the car is a woman who looks like she is in her thirties, very beautiful and temperamental, and that feels very similar to my lover.

Seeing that it could not be repaired, I said to help tow the car away, after connecting the car, I got into this woman's car, on the way to the garage we have been chatting, her name is Liu Yu, 42 years old this year, opened a beauty salon on the central road.

I knew through the chat that she was divorced 3 years ago, and I was very happy to hear that she was also single, and I asked for her contact information and WeChat at that time. After returning home, I also chatted on WeChat for a few days and gradually became friends. We later went out to dinner and watch a movie together. Slowly she became interested in me, but she didn't say it or show it much.

The next day I went for a walk with her in the park, and in the park I confessed to her. She also shyly agreed to me. After we were together, she didn't tell me about her willingness to divorce her ex-husband, never mentioned her ex-husband, and I never asked her, after all, I don't care about that.

After more than 3 months, we got married. We invited a lot of friends to dinner, the atmosphere was good, everyone was very happy, drank some wine and chatted, and everyone enjoyed the environment at that time. After everyone left, we also went home, Liu Yu said that today is still quite tired, want to take a shower and relax. After she went to take a shower, I was sleepy, so I fell asleep in a daze.

I don't know how long later I suddenly woke up, I listened to the bathroom and the sound of water, always felt that something was wrong, so I went inside to see. I found that there was no one in the bathroom, and there was no trace of Liu Yu at home, I didn't know why Liu Yu left, so I put on my clothes and hurried out to find her. During this period, no one answered the phone. I was already planning to go to the police, and at this time I received her WeChat.

She said she had gone home and told me not to worry about her. I called her right away and told her I was worried about her and had been looking for her. She replied, uncharacteristically, coldly, "Oh."

On the phone, she said: "Xu Jixing, as soon as I entered the room, I saw your wedding photos with your wife. I'm a little sad. I think you may have forgotten to take it off. But I never expected to go into the bathroom and see your wife's toothbrush, towel, and cabinet full of skin care products, and I was really sad. I am with you, you are my husband, and my husband's life has another woman's life atmosphere and shadow! ”

She went on to say, "I never told you why I divorced. It was because my ex-husband and my good friend hooked up behind my back. They were the two most important people to me, but they betrayed me together. Now I love you so much, and I'm also afraid of being hurt again. If you can't give up your feelings for your ex-wife, then let's not be together! ”

I explained, "I really love you." I didn't pay attention to that picture either, sorry, I'll clean it up. I didn't remember anything in the bathroom, and I didn't live here very often, nor did I think about cleaning up. I'm sorry! I explained to her, but she didn't believe me and didn't want to come back to me.

She felt that I still had my ex-wife in my heart, and she didn't really mean it to her. But I really love her and want to live with her. What the hell can I do to get her back?

Women are very concerned about details, and she has been hurt. I hope you can think clearly about whether you really love her, if you love her, let her calm down, and then use practical actions to prove your love for her to her. I'm sure I can impress her!

Do your friends have any good advice for him?