My name is Zhang Lina, a native of Jinzhou, Liaoning, and I am 26 years old. Two years ago I discovered my mother-in-law's secret. I kept it a secret, I didn't even tell my husband. I'm afraid he won't be able to accept it after he knows it

My name is Zhang Lina, a native of Jinzhou, Liaoning, and I am 26 years old. Two years ago I discovered my mother-in-law's secret. I kept it a secret, I didn't even tell my husband. I'm afraid he won't be able to accept it after he knows it. Yesterday I really couldn't hold back and told my father-in-law directly. Now my husband is divorcing me, saying it's my fault and I'm a victim too, why is everything pointing at me?

Because my husband and I were pregnant before marriage, my mother-in-law has always been against us being together, and she has always disagreed. The bride price on our side is generally 200,000, my mother saw that I was pregnant, she directly did not want the bride price, and gave tens of thousands of dowries, so my mother-in-law's attitude towards me has not changed.

My father-in-law and mother-in-law opened a grocery store. When I was four months pregnant, it was winter. My mother-in-law said: You go to wash clothes, my clothes are very expensive and need to be washed by hand. I knelt in the bathroom to wash my clothes. At the time, I didn't have a cell phone. My mom came without saying hello. When she saw me doing laundry, she cried and got into a big fight with my mother-in-law.

Later, when my child was born, my father-in-law and aunt bought gifts for the child and told my mother-in-law that just like when our son was a child, my mother-in-law liked the child.

The child was full moon, my parents came, and my husband went out to buy wine. My mother-in-law gave my parents all kinds of faces and didn't give me face at all. I let the kids call my parents grandparents. My mother-in-law immediately said: Don't mess around. I said: That's what it's called now. My mother-in-law said: Why is an outsider shouting so intimately? We are true grandparents.

At this point, I couldn't hold back any longer. I said: My son is my own, but your son is not a child of your father-in-law. I've seen you chat with someone several times. Don't think I don't know. Last year, the whole family underwent a medical examination of the epidemic. I went to get the report. My father-in-law and my husband have different blood types. I thought I was wrong. When I compare, it's true.

You were pregnant before you got married, so I got pregnant before I got married, and you're afraid I'm just like you. When you were pregnant, you made me do the heavy lifting, you made me have an abortion again and again, I couldn't do your kind of thing, you weren't allowed to bully me later.

My father-in-law asked me to take out the report, and when he saw that there was a problem, he pulled my mother-in-law straight back into the room and began to scold. When my husband came back, he learned about the situation and said to me: You are not willing to destroy our family, right?

My husband and I went back to the room, and my husband said: "A good family, just because you can't control your mouth, you've been angry for many years, and now you can't stand it." Hearing my husband's words, this is completely defending my mother-in-law, I don't care about me at all, and I am also sad.

This morning, my father-in-law and mother-in-law divorced. I said: Your mother has been in contact with outsiders, what does your parents' divorce have to do with me? My husband also proposed divorce to me. He thinks it's all because of me.

Now my husband wants to divorce me, and this matter is not my business. Obviously, my mother-in-law is old and improper, doing the wrong thing, I just told the truth, why do you point all the responsibility to me? What does this have to do with me?

@Lina Zhang

You shouldn't get involved in your mother-in-law's business. Since you and your mother-in-law have an opinion and can live separately, why not bury it in your stomach?

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