preface:
Women will always be very emotional in their feelings,
A gentleman who is very gentlemanly in this emotional intake will ask the other party whether he loves himself or not.
Slowly, I will no longer expect the value of my emotions.
But we must know that happiness is not a necessity of life, and a comfortable life will make us more precious.
It is good for two people to live comfortably and happily together, and never rely too much on one person.
When we become firm in our hearts, we will be much more emotionally stable in the future than when we go alone in those days when we are at the same time.
Many women have a false perception that the person who says he loves himself forever can really do it.
Therefore, my heart will always look forward to a beautiful and happy life.
However, the ideal is very full, and the reality is very bone-chilling.
Not all feelings start and end up staying the same.
So as a woman please clear your mind after marriage only by doing so will we be happier and happier.
"Both men and women eat grains. So I never value human nature as more noble. ”
In fact, this is not to persuade women to be afraid of marriage, but no matter how strongly two people love,
Women should also always maintain a clear understanding of the marriage of the other half.
Therefore, in marriage, if a woman only has expectations of her partner,
But we don't know enough about human nature, and in the end it only hurts ourselves.
Therefore, in marriage, we must maintain a clear understanding of the other half and do not rely too much.
Being able to face up to the authenticity of marriage will not have too many expectations for marriage.
In any case, we should not underestimate human nature, face the truth of marriage, and do not overestimate our place in the hearts of our partners.
In this way, there is sufficient psychological preparation to let yourself go along your own principles in marriage.
1. Don't always ask the other person if they love themselves or not
Many women in life even ask their other half every day whether they love themselves or not.
In doing so, men will also feel very numb, and slowly you will feel that love is not important at all.
Happiness is also not a necessity of life.
Only a comfortable life makes us more precious and cherished.
Two people together for a long time, you will find the cooperation pleasant in the future,
In this way, you can get rid of it, rely on the dependence of others, and learn a firmness.
It is better to go alone than to be swayed by emotions, so that your heart will become stable.
2. Will not be physically exhausted by the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
In any relationship, we must know that he cannot stand up to blood relations,
Any consideration is inseparable from the interests, so we should not try to spy on human nature,
Don't complain about the other person's parents in front of your other half and try to change him.
Because no one would like a woman who nags and complains,
Therefore, smart women often turn a blind eye in marriage, and can flex and stretch.
3. Stop talking and learn to laugh without saying a word
Understand, advice can only be said to parents, and the truth is not very popular.
Right or wrong is not so important in life.
If you have a number in your heart, don't put a lot of things on the surface to say.
Maybe when we say it, others will feel very unhappy inside,
As adults, we must consider the consequences of things, and it is better not to do things that have no meaning.
Many times words that don't make sense don't say.
4. Learn to distinguish between what is other people's business and what is your own business
Women must not interfere or interject too many things in marriage,
We might as well go all out to do our own thing and not make self-sacrifice.
One day you will pay the price for inner peace, after all, we are looking for a partner, not a son.
Blindly managing each other's affairs will only make yourself more tired,
So a lot of times there is no need to be thankless.
In marriage, do not talk about the three views with your other half, and do not compare everything to the truth.
Keep a corresponding distance from your mother-in-law and don't wronged yourself.
To refuse is to refuse, to express is to express this is what we should do.
Conclusion:
In marriage, we will certainly have all kinds of contradictions, and these contradictions are mostly trivial.
In fact, it is not so difficult to resolve family conflicts, and many things do not need to be divided into who is right and who is wrong.
Because everyone's point of view is different, mistakes cannot be generalized.
You should find a suitable way to express it and choose the right way to deal with it.
Women in marriage as long as to do calm, do not be grumpy, have something to say,
You will find that the marriage will become a good look.
In the long run, it seems that we have earned it, so why not enjoy it.
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