How to catch love?
The matter of feelings, which seems to follow fate, is actually a rule to follow.
Just think, what kind of person can make you have a sense of admiration?
From a man's standpoint, the advantage in appearance will make men have a feeling of liking. If it is a marriage talk, men usually value the inner and hope to meet a woman of good quality.
Short-term relationships look at appearance, long-term interaction depends on character.
In the passage of time, beautiful looks will usher in an aging day.
And good quality, but will make a person to maintain an excellent side, in the passage of time, still be the charm of the person who lasts, let people can't help but approach, let the opposite sex has been fascinated.
Girls look forward to true love.
After all, love and marriage are related to their happiness for the rest of their lives.
If in a relationship, both lovers can be sincere, each other will strive to complete love.
Even if the next, the two sides will face more tests, two people can maintain the state of "having the strength to go together", face the wind and rain at the same time, let the feelings get more opportunities to heat up, so that the two hearts are closer and closer.
If so, meet a man with a different heart.
So what kind of situation will girls face?
Usually, if a man does not truly love each other, even if two people are entangled, there is no happiness at all. Girls face more and more disappointment, and they will continue to consume the limited time of the rest of their lives.
Therefore, smart girls will try to grasp the quality of love.
What kind of woman can become the woman in the minds of men who is worthy of a lifetime of protection? From a psychological point of view, if a girl wants to tie a man's heart, she is not focusing on her own appearance, but starting from the inside and being a "noble" person.
Want to fascinate men? Make yourself "expensive".
Be subtle and let men favor it.
In love, whoever takes the initiative will become passive.
Even if you love a boy deeply, women must understand the reasoning.
How to understand it? In a word: "The favored have no fear".
Both parties in love often face an invisible game. As a weak party, reserved is the biggest charm of women, if you give up the implicit side, in love to take the initiative, such a woman, it is easy for men to underestimate.
As a result, it is conceivable that girls will fall into a passive situation, and the balance of love is easily out of balance.
Reserved girls will give themselves a hazy sense of beauty.
In the world of fate, it is necessary for girls to maintain the necessary subtlety. In this way, you can not only maintain a sense of mystery, but also inspire men to take the initiative to love you.
Stick to the bottom line and respect yourself.
It is undeniable that fate can make people emotional.
When meeting a beloved boy, women will also strive to complete each other's fate.
When encountering obstacles, some girls will also make moths to put out fires to prove their determination to love.
If the man is reliable, he will certainly try to cherish you and use the rest of his life to give you meticulous protection. But many men, in love, will be fickle, but also easy to see different thoughts.
If girls give up some bottom lines, they can easily face the "broken window effect".
For example, if a man does not follow the principle of "exclusivity" and maintains ambiguous relationships with other members of the opposite sex, the girl must stop it in time and cannot choose to indulge him because she loves him.
Only in love, adhere to the bottom line and principles, such a woman, will win the respect of men, let the other party realize that you are not weak and deceitful, let him understand that you are also looking forward to love.
Being able to lift, men will admire.
How do you make yourself more noble?
In fact, smart girls will maintain a promoted posture and maintain an independent side in this way. They do not rely on anyone, but can take the men around them and find the initiative together.
Imagine what man wouldn't value such a woman?
Unless it is a myopic eye in love, it will turn a blind eye to her. And such a man is not worthy of girls to trust.
Many women spend their time and energy on their own appearance. I hope to win the attention of men by dressing up and enhancing my personal charm, but in fact, this way will only make myself tacky.
A truly intelligent woman can maintain a good appearance and know how to improve herself.
Under the witness of time, they live like a poem, and their inner temperament will continue to improve, and eventually they will become the people who "have poetry and bookishness in their belly" in men's minds.
In the face of such a girl, how can a man be willing to give up? He will only do his best to give her endless protection, and give her the rest of his life, enough happiness.
Although, love is the result of interaction with each other.
However, the long-term fate is inseparable from the operation of either party.
If you want a man to love you, girls don't abuse themselves, but start with "getting expensive".
In the process of interpersonal communication, everyone should restore some rationality, rather than making emotional moves. For example, even if you love, you must maintain a reserved side; grasping the necessary bottom line will allow yourself to gain respect; and a woman who knows how to improve herself will become more glorious.
For the rest of your life, please cherish yourself more, and make yourself noble.
And such a you will easily become the object worthy of careful protection in the eyes of men.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.