There is a saying on the Internet: Men become bad when they have money. This is a bit absolute, not all men will be like this, but there are a large number of men who will become bad when they have money.
Maybe their intentions did not want to become bad, but when they have money, they have more room to choose in many things, and there are more temptations, and they unconsciously become bad. Maybe in their own eyes, it's not about getting bad, just living a different life.
When women choose the object of marriage, they must not measure love by more money and less money, and there are men with single feelings among rich people; men without money may not have single feelings. Some men who have no money seem to be emotionally single-minded, because they do not have the capital to spend their hearts, and when they have money, they may spend more than anyone.
When encountering love, many girls who are not deeply involved in the world are very naïve and imagine love as infinitely beautiful. But when she entered the marriage, the man who had once said that he loved her was like a changed person, and the girl was dumbfounded.
The infatuated girl married the poor boy, and ten years later her husband had a career to divorce
My neighbor's only daughter, Wang Qing, is very beautiful and has good academic performance, which was once the pride of her parents. At the age of looking for a partner, there are many young men pursuing Wang Qing, and relatives and friends have also introduced her to many young men with good conditions, but she prefers a poor boy.
The young man's surname is Zhang, we all call him Xiao Zhang, Xiao Zhang is a foreigner, I heard that the conditions at home are very bad. At that time, Xiao Zhang worked as a barber in a barber shop, and Wang Qing often went to get a haircut, so he was familiar with Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang is very handsome, the culture is not high, only junior high school education, Wang Qing is a college degree.
After Wang Qing and Xiao Zhang fell in love, one of the two people was not you not married, one was not you married, and the love was dead and alive. Wang Qing's parents are very opposed, first, because Xiao Zhang is a foreigner and the conditions at home are not good; second, they feel that Xiao Zhang is unreliable and feel that other people's character is not good.
But in order to marry Xiao Zhang, Wang Qing fell out with his parents, and his parents threatened to break off relations with him. Like a demon, Wang Qing stole the family's household registration book and went to get a marriage license with Xiao Zhang. Then the two of them rented a house outside and started to live.
The parents were distressed about their daughter, and later asked their relatives to send a sum of money to Wang Qing to buy a house, and since they were married, they had to have a home. But Wang Qing gave this money to Xiao Zhang, and Xiao Zhang used the money to open his own barber shop and recruit a barber.
The next year, Wang Qing gave birth to a daughter, and while being a full-time mother, she went to the store to help. Slowly, Xiao Zhang's business got better and better. Ten years later, he not only expanded his storefront, but also opened 4 more branches in other parts of the city.
The poor guy of the past is now a successful career and a boss. Wang Qing felt that she could return to her hometown now, and she also had face in front of her parents, so she wanted to reconcile with her parents.
But Xiao Zhang did not agree with Wang Qing's walking around with his mother's family, saying that since he had fallen out and his parents-in-law said that they had severed their relationship, Then Wang Qing should not go back again. Wang Qing did not listen to him, after all, her parents were parents, before she did not go back, it was a gamble with her parents. Now she didn't want to gamble, so she went back, and her parents were naturally happy.
After Xiao Zhang knew about it, he had a big fight with Wang Qing, and Wang Qing was very angry, saying that the money for opening the store was still given by her parents! Xiao Zhang took out a sum of money, saying that these were the money that had originally opened the store, plus interest, and took it back to Wang Qing's parents, and then cleared it twice, and was not allowed to come and go again.
Wang Qing was very angry, saying that she would not cut off contact with her parents, but she still took the money back to her parents. After the parents learned about the situation, they blamed their daughter for not marrying Xiao Zhang. As a result, Wang Qing was angry with both her husband and her parents, and she was embarrassed and very sad.
Later, Xiao Zhang actually found another woman outside and wanted to divorce Wang Qing. Wang Qing never dreamed of this, her infatuation, in exchange for her husband's betrayal. Wang Qing felt very unwilling, because she could not swallow this breath, she resolutely did not divorce, she would consume her husband.
For the next two years, the couple lived in a noisy and noisy manner. Wang Qing did not go back to her mother's house to tell her parents about the divorce, and she felt that she had no face to say. The man she had to marry back then, today's look, she feels very embarrassed. Because of the depression, Wang Qing's body had problems later, and he was found to have cancer.
Wang Qing lived in the hospital for half a year, and her husband did not see her once, and finally Wang Qing was depressed. Her parents sent the white-haired people to the black-haired people, and they were very sad, and Xiao Zhang simply handled Wang Qing's aftermath.
We all guess that Xiao Zhang's heart is estimated to be very happy, in the past it was said that the loss of a middle-aged wife was a tragedy, but now for people like Xiao Zhang, the middle-aged widow may be gratifying. What a sad thing! Therefore, every woman must love herself well, and do not do things that hurt the relatives and the enemies are happy.
When a girl is looking for a partner, she must find a man with good character
When talking about love, the two people must be Qingqing and me, gracious and loving. If this is not the case, it is impossible to walk together, so many girls will be confused by love and fall in love.
Looking for a partner, you must find a man with good character, and character is the first. Only on the basis of good character can we talk about other things, and we will be happy after marriage. If the character is not good, no matter how good the other party's conditions are, the girl will not be happy after marrying him.
When a man pursues you, he will always be good to you and will fully show his good side in front of you. If you blindly believe this, it is very likely that you will fall behind. Some people always try their best to please you in order to get what he thinks.
But when he gets what he wants, he won't please you like that anymore, and what you feel is that he has changed. In fact, he has not changed at all, because that is his nature. In order to pursue you, he suppressed his own nature and pretended to please you, but now he is just restoring his nature.
"The country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to move", what is a person's original character, he will be how he will be after all. Marry a man of good character, even if it is going to be divorced, he will not do an outrageous thing.
When a girl is looking for a partner, she must find a reliable man
The boy's economic conditions are not good, which is not terrible, it can only mean that the family conditions he was born into are not good, it is not his fault, it is the problem of his parents.
Maybe his parents are not in good health and can't work well to earn money; maybe it's that his family has encountered some disaster, so the family's economic situation is not good; it may also be that his parents are lazy and lazy, and they don't work hard enough to cause the poor economic conditions in the family.
The girl has to decide according to the specific situation, and his family situation will indeed affect him. But then again, people have to rely on themselves after all, and their parents are limited.
So as long as the young man is reliable, down-to-earth, and diligent, his life will always get better, because the heavens reward hard work. When getting married, we must find a reliable man, and men must be willing to endure hardships, have a sense of responsibility, and know how to cherish their wives and children.
It is good that a man is handsome, but if he only thinks about other conditions because he is handsome, it is very likely that something will go wrong after marriage.
Wang Qing is like this in the above article, because her boyfriend is handsome, she is fascinated, and she would rather break off relations with her parents and marry her boyfriend. But the final result, but let Wang Qing's life take over, she sacrificed everything for love.
When a girl is looking for a partner, she must find a man who knows how to cherish you
A man cherishes you, will cherish the family, the family will be happy. Wang Qing's husband, Xiao Zhang, did not cherish Wang Qing at all, and when he and Wang Qing were together, it was entirely because he was poor, his conditions were not good enough, and there was no more choice.
In Wang Qing's view, her husband loves her very much, just like she loves her husband. For this love, Wang Qing stole the family's household registration book and secretly went to get a marriage license with Xiao Zhang. After her parents entrusted relatives to give her a sum of money, she immediately gave it to Xiao Zhang, who used the money to open a shop and became financially better ever since.
But after ten years of marriage, Xiao Zhang was not grateful, but found Xiao San and wanted to divorce Wang Qing. Wang Qing was depressed every day because he was sad and angry, because he felt faceless, and finally fell ill and died. Wang Qing ruined her health for such a man, it is really not worth it, and women must love men who deserve their own love.
Xiao Zhang did not cherish Wang Qing, and when he was with Wang Qing, he could not say that he did not love Wang Qing, but at least he did not love enough. At best, he used Wang Qing as a springboard, and when he had money, he would kick out his original wife, which was the contemporary Chen Shimei.
Therefore, when women are looking for a partner, they must find a man who truly loves herself and cherishes herself. Only in this way can happiness be possible after marriage. Women must be full of wisdom to choose the marriage partner, to listen to the opinions of parents, not to insist on going their own way.
In short, women must understand that although love is very beautiful and precious, love is only a part of life, not the whole of life. If love and marriage are not happy, women must learn to think open, do not affect the whole because of this part.
In addition to love in life, there are also family affection, friendship, etc., there is no need to put your life on the line because love and marriage are not satisfactory, which is not worth it. Life is your own, you must know how to cherish, you must love your body. When the body is good, you can talk about other things, otherwise everything is empty.
Women must live well, to love themselves, people first love themselves and then people love them. When looking for a partner, be sure to find a man with the three characteristics mentioned above, so that the marriage can be happy.
Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.