Introduction: As we all know, phoenix men are not popular in the marriage market, although they have achieved good results through their own efforts, but they are greatly influenced by the original family, especially after marriage, they often put all their energy on the original family and ignore their own small family.
I believe that many people have watched the TV series "Dajiang Dahe 2", in which Song Yunhui is a typical phoenix man, although he has made great achievements in his work through his own efforts. However, after marriage, due to the huge differences between the two sides in the three views, there will often be contradictions, and eventually they will part ways.
If after the two parties get married, one party puts all his energy into the family and becomes self-contained every day, eventually the two parties will open up the gap, resulting in an easy failure of the marriage.
Therefore, many people now pay attention to the door-to-door pair, mainly because the two sides are consistent in the three views, so that there will be a common language in married life, even if they encounter contradictions, they can be quickly resolved.
Some girls may not agree with the right view and feel that their parents are not right, but after trying, there will be profound lessons.
Wang Jing is an only child who has lived in the city since childhood and does not agree with the door to the door. Both of her parents have formal jobs and have accumulated some connections as a result of working for many years.
So she has been having a smooth life since she was a child, and eventually got into college through hard work, but before she graduated, her parents arranged a decent job for her.
Later, she found a boyfriend Wang Qiang, and the two began to communicate, but Wang Qiang was a phoenix man, not only handsome and talented, but finally at the insistence of Wang Jing, his parents gave them a wedding.
After they first got married, they lived a very sweet life, because Wang Qiang's personality was very good and he was particularly tolerant of her, but when she gave birth to a child, the two had differences.
Because the values of the two people were originally very different, because Wang Qiang had a good personality and was particularly good at forbearance, Wang Jing had not found out.
After giving birth, the mother-in-law came to take care of Wang Jing's confinement, although her mother-in-law was kind and simple, but her thinking and cognition were completely different from her, and she was particularly stubborn, and each communication was very laborious.
Perhaps because of postpartum depression after giving birth, Wang Jing's mood fluctuated greatly, and eventually there was a dispute with her mother-in-law, and finally Wang Qiang sent her mother-in-law to her hometown.
At this time, Wang Qiang also had an official position in the unit through his own efforts, relatives and friends from his hometown often came, Wang Jing became upset, and finally at Wang Jing's request, Wang Qiang no longer brought them home to eat and stay overnight.
A few years later, with the help of his father-in-law, Wang Qiang changed to a new unit, and because of his outstanding ability, he quickly adapted. Through his efforts, he has been promoted and raised, the future is very good, at this time, the people around him have also begun to flatter him, and Wang Qiang's mentality has also changed.
After Wang Jing's parents retired, Wang Qiang's mentality was even more inflated, and he no longer swallowed Wang Jing's anger, and later he began to look for other women, and after Wang Jing found out, he directly chose to divorce. But Wang Qiang did not keep it, because he felt that he now had capital.
After the divorce, he quickly got revenge, although Wang Jing's father has retired, but still has many connections, and eventually Wang Qiang was also beaten back to his original form.
Conclusion: In fact, the reason why their marriage failed has a lot to do with the three views, because marriage needs to be right, and the worldview, outlook on life and values of both parties should be in line, so that marriage will last longer.