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Many people have seen "Snail House", and after the seaweed was favored by Song Siming, it fell step by step in the trap that Song Siming intentionally loved.
The fundamental reason why seaweed will be captured by Song Siming is that Song Siming gave her what she wanted, such as the life of her dreams, such as the vanity that women have.
When a person, when pursuing another person, can give the other party the feelings they want, can meet the other party's thoughts and ideas, it is easy to pursue success, even if it is difficult at the beginning.
This is true not only for men chasing women, but also for women chasing men. The most effective way for a woman to want to eat a man is to give him two feelings.
These two feelings are based on the universal characteristics of men. Before men get married, they want women who can be brought out, and after marriage, they want women who can both bring out and bring back.
01 The woman who can take it out makes men proud
The woman who can take it out will give the man a sense of pride. This type of woman often has two qualities.
First of all, this kind of woman must be beautiful. Women are beautiful enough to take them out to have face, so that men can feel proud.
Of course, the beauty here does not only refer to the beauty of the face. The face is not beautiful, it is innate, we can not change, but we can make ourselves beautiful through the efforts of the day after tomorrow.
For example, learning to make up, a decent makeup, can make a woman who looks very dull immediately come alive.
Another example is to learn to dress well. Women who can wear, from the inside to the outside reveal a sense of high-end, let themselves have temperament at the same time, but also let others envy.
Also, women who are confident enough also look beautiful. A woman's confidence comes not only from a beautiful face, but also from a strong heart.
A woman who is knowledgeable, talented, and confident can be strong inside. The so-called "belly has poetry and bookish self-glorification", read more books, let yourself have insight, talent, full of self-confidence, let others look like an aura, this kind of woman, is also beautiful, but also can bring out.
I once met the wife of a friend, the kind of woman who could bring it out very well. She always has delicate makeup, and around her, you can feel her powerful aura.
At the same time, as the saying goes, she is very good at things, there is life in her eyes, with her, you will not feel embarrassed, do not have to be afraid of the cold field, she is the queen, can control the whole field.
So, every time we meet, the friend brings his wife with him. I think any man would be willing to show up with such a woman in front of his friends.
When a woman can have the ability to give men this feeling, is it still sad that men are not willing to go home, or complain that men have socializing and never take her?
Of course, women make themselves beautiful, become strong and confident, not only hope to be able to be taken out by men or husbands, which is more of a kind of confidence, when you have this confidence, naturally will not be insecure in love, but also feel more free.
02 The woman who can take it out and bring it back can make men feel safe
What kind of woman is mentioned above and can be taken out, so what kind of woman can be brought out and brought back?
If the former needs to rely on women to try to change themselves, then the latter needs to rely on men. If you want a woman to depend on you, a man must give a woman what she wants, such as the most basic sense of responsibility, security.
A responsible man will make women reluctant to stay in the outside world. This reason is very simple, this one at home is good enough, how can you fall in love with the one outside the house?
Just like the reason why seaweed will fall in love with Song Siming, in fact, Xiaobei can't give her the life she wants. Of course, seaweed broke through the bottom line, and in the absence of a breakup, choosing to entangle with Song Siming was indeed the biggest mistake she made.
If Xiao Bei can have the ability to solve her sister's troubles and bring her the life she wants, Seaweed may not fall into Song Siming's gentle hometown and be impressed by Song Siming's generous shots.
This is the same for men, if men can give women the life they want, both a sense of responsibility and a sense of security, then women will definitely not be attracted to others.
Women need to be secure, and men need to be secure. When men have paid for women, can give women a sense of security, so that women do not like other people, women should also give men a certain sense of security.
The sense of security that women give men actually comes from being virtuous, single-minded, and loyal.
Some men like to hide in the golden house and are unwilling to take their beautiful wives out to show everyone, in fact, it is not that they do not want to be taken out to make people envious, but they are afraid that some people will not have good intentions, and they are afraid that their wives will not be able to withstand the temptation.
The reason why men have this kind of worry is that many times women do not give him enough security, but give men a sense of uncertainty that they will withdraw at any time.
In the relationship between the sexes, all feelings are mutual. Both women and men need a sense of security, and the lack of security on either side will make the relationship collapse in an instant.
In my opinion, the premise for a woman to want to eat a man is that she can attract the other person herself. Give the other person a sense of security and make yourself attractive enough.
Seaweed, very similar to such a woman, but not like. Like she is beautiful enough to attract men like Song Siming, unlike she is not strong enough, not loyal enough, not single-minded enough.
When she faced temptation, in the face of Song Siming's warm greetings, strong love, and ability to solve problems, she was not able to resist her own heart, fell into the temptation of the other party, even if she knew that this had broken through the bottom line, she was willing to moth fire and hurt others.
Love is a game. In the book "Great Body Language", it is written: "Love to the real, can not be hidden, even if the mouth does not say, as long as the two people close, it will be accompanied by the secretion of love hormones, causing a series of physiological reactions." ”
Eating a man is not worthy of pride, how to eat a man on the basis of making sure that his love for you is real and cannot be hidden, is worthy of pride.
May every woman get the love she wants, and at the same time, may every couple last forever.
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