There are more and more only children in modern families, and every newborn baby is given good hope by parents and elders, so they take pains when naming their children;
It is not how difficult it is to name itself, but that parents want to give their children a name that is both meaningful and nurturing, so that naming a name becomes the first problem after being a parent.
In order to make their children appear more unique, parents often rack their brains, everyone is like this, and the aesthetics of each generation are almost the same, so the child's name rate is also very high;
The "Zi Han" of all the staff has become a thing of the past, and a new batch of "rotten street" names have struck, and the teacher feels helpless
My girlfriend is a kindergarten teacher who once complained to me that she didn't know what these parents thought and why they named their children "Zi Han";
After careful discussion, I learned that there were several children in the original class called "Zi Han", but there were different words in the same name, such as "Zi Han", "Zi Han", "Zi Han" and "Zi Han", and there were 4 in their own class;
There are also several in the next class, every time they do games or classes together, a shout "Zi Han", stand up several children, children still argue endlessly, "the teacher shouted me", the teacher said that the heart is really tired.
Every time at this time, the girlfriends are a first two big, this group of children have not graduated easily, to go to primary school, I thought that such a situation will never happen again;
Who would have thought that the "ZiHan" era has passed, and the names of a new batch of "rotten streets" have come from, such as "cola", "yogurt", "glutinous rice" and other food-related names, which have also been used by parents;
Although it is indeed very cute, but there are too many people who really use it, especially the baby in the kindergarten, when entering the kindergarten, whether it is a parent or a child who introduces himself, he is called by a small name;
Everyone remembers that they are all nicknames, on the other hand, small names can also be kind, when shouting big names, children always think that they have made mistakes and dare not do anything;
In fact, not only kindergarten teachers have such troubles, primary school teachers are the same, and now there are many parents, in order to express how strong the love between parents is;
When naming children, they often use the father's surname + the mother's surname, combined together, to make names for children, such as Zhang Yang, Li Chen and so on;
Although the name is strange enough, but not all the parents' surnames are combined together are appropriate, if the parents' surname is Wei, the mother's surname is Zhu, is it still necessary to call "Wei Zhu", "Wei Zhu" = "feed the pig"?
Such a name with a harmonic sound, when the child is in school, there will be classmates to give the child a nickname, which will seriously hurt the child's heart.
What issues should parents pay attention to when naming their children?
A person's name will accompany a person's life, when parents are still naming their children, they must first understand the meaning of the name, and cannot hastily name their children because of their own whim;
When naming children, try to avoid some awkward or strange words, such words are not only difficult to read, but also very difficult to write;
Especially when children just learn to write, they will practice writing their own names, and when children can't write their own names, they will dislike or even hate this name.
Secondly, do not take a harmonic sound, or ambiguous name, everyone should have experienced it when they went to school, give other students nicknames, many times this nickname is very unpleasant, so it will cause great harm to the child's soul, and even hate to go to school.
In addition, do not take some too popular names, such as "Zi Han", there are many people who use it, and they will cause unnecessary trouble in later life.
Therefore, when naming children, we must be cautious and try to give children a name that is both meaningful and nurturing.
Finally, I would like to say:
Names represent more than just a person's symbols, they can also affect a person's personality, for example:
A child with an introverted personality who does not like to communicate can take a passionate name, so that the invisible public can make everyone have an image of him, and will also let him form a self-perception;
For example, people with words such as "ice" and "cold" in their names usually have a calm and constricted personality, while people with words such as "laughter" are often lively and extroverted.
Therefore, the name represents not only a symbol, used to distinguish others, but also represents a person's character, just like seeing words as faces, listening to names as seeing people.
Names are also the first way for others to understand, good names can leave a good impact on people, so a good name may affect the child's life, but also to bring confidence to the child.
Therefore, in the matter of naming the child, parents must be more careful, must not be sloppy, if the child is worried about the name in the future, it will not be worth the loss.
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