We often say that an era has the characteristics of an era, which can be seen from the name of the child, such as the 1950s and 1960s, the name is usually "founding the country".
Then later, many parents thought that the more "earthy" the name of the child, the better the child was fed, so names like "dog eggs" and "iron pillars" appeared in an endless stream, and at that time people did not seem to realize how important the name was, and it was very good to be alive.
Later, after the development of the 90s to become a parent, many parents will refer to the names of celebrities when naming, or refer to the names of some novel protagonists they read, and strive not to fall into the clichés.
So there are a lot of "Zi Han", "Zi Xuan", "Zi Xin" and so on in a class, so that the teacher is stupid and unclear, just because their surnames are different, the teacher can barely distinguish, but it is also a headache.
And the national "Zi Han" fever has just receded, and the name of a new round of rotten streets has come again, so that the teacher can call out too helplessly
Nowadays, there is a new way to give students a name, which is to use the names of both parents to combine the surnames, such as "Wang Siyuan", "Zhang Lianlin" and so on.
Some parents are even more simple and rude, directly combining the surnames together, there are names such as "Yang Chen" and "Li Wang", but can such a name avoid "rotten street"? Not necessarily.
In this way, it is easier to "bump into the name", and the recognition of the name is not high, the gender of the students cannot be highlighted from the name, the kindergarten teacher invisibly increases the difficulty when the class is held, and the teachers are also helpless.
Although the name is given by the parents, at least the parents should also use the snack, after all, this is synonymous with the student's life, if it is too hasty, is it not responsible for the student.
So, what are the problems with the parent's last name to name a child?
1. The repetition rate is too high
When the name "Zi Han" became popular, many parents followed the trend to name their children "Zi Han", but it is also common to use the parent's surname as the child's name, and the repetition rate of the name is extremely high, because there are only a few surnames that we commonly use.
And this way of naming looks very casual, although on the surface it is said that the child is the crystallization of the love of parents, so it seems to be very meaningful to take the name, but the more people take it, it loses its special meaning, and it seems less sincere.
2. Easy to appear awkward
Using the parent's surname to name the child, although the meaning is really good, indicating that the child is the crystallization of the parent's love, condensing the parent's love, but when the parent's feelings are broken, the child's name is very embarrassing.
It sounds like the parents are very affectionate, but in fact the name can only become a memory, and the name will also make the child more disgusted and painful.
Now parents are full of personality, they all want to give their children an unusual name, but also do not always want to be unique, too special names will also make children embarrassed, especially attract the attention of others.
For example, the name of "pseudo-compound surname", obviously not a compound surname, perhaps the name of the protagonist of the novel is too much, giving the child the name of "combination of earth and ocean". There are also things like the harmonic sound in the name should also be avoided, and children will cause misunderstandings when they go to school.
What would parents do to name their children?
Parents want to give their children a good name, but do not want to "rotten street", parents can use allusions, our country's Chinese culture is broad and profound, many classical poems are particularly beautiful.
Using these poems as names will sound more elegant, appear to be very connotative and cultural, will become a good name that makes people shine, leave a good impression on others, and will be of great help to the future development of children.
Just like the name Jiang Shuying, she herself once said, is taken from the Northern Song Dynasty poet Lin Kui's "Mountain Garden Xiaomei", "Shuying horizontal oblique water is shallow, dark incense floating moon dusk." This gives the name a richer meaning and a deeper connotation.
This is also a kind of high hope given to her by her family, hoping that she can be as tenacious as the plum blossoms in the mountain garden, and can be braver in encountering difficulties and face difficulties.
Wouldn't such a name be more vivid and beautiful? It also strengthens the memory of other people's names, and the teacher can remember them more easily, so they are more able to supervise them in their studies.
At the same time, if parents feel that it is a more difficult problem to name their children, they can also find some knowledgeable elderly people and wise people to help them name, so that it is easier to get a beautiful and beautiful name.
At last
In short, parents must not take the name of the student seriously, the student's name may follow them for a lifetime, and even affect their fortunes, this really needs to be paid attention to.
It is not impossible to use the name of the parent's surname, but it is also prone to the situation of "rotten street", which seems to give people a very random feeling of naming.
I hope that when you name students, you should pay attention to giving them a catchy, well-meaningd name, and add some luck to students.
Today's Discussion:
Do you think it's okay to use your parents' last names? Welcome to discuss and share exchanges.