Now in kindergartens, primary schools in the children's parents are mostly after 90, many families in order to reduce the pressure of raising only one child, so this child experienced the parents, grandparents and other people's love, it can be said that in the mouth afraid of melting, holding in the hand afraid of falling, so these children are pampered.
But now very for the name of the child is more and more casual, in the grandparents era often use animal names used in people, because in the past people often do not have enough to eat, and even often sick, for them to call the name of the animal means that the child is easy to feed, in fact, this is a superstition, in their that is through the "dog", "livestock" "donkey" such a name, in the parental era people are used to use "righteousness", "gang" "Wen", etc., in the post-nineties era and used to use "Ya", "Hui", "Jing", etc. Now it is the turn of the post-90s parents, and most of their children use words such as "Xuan", "Xuan", "Hao", "Zi" and other words that they have seen in novels in middle and high school.
Not long ago, I was teaching in a make-up class institution, and when I looked at the flower name list, I saw many of the same names, and even the following situations occurred:
Most of the ordinary people after the nineties are lack of innovation, they are the birth of exam-oriented education, many early marriages do not even have much knowledge, they rely on novels to give their children names, second, rely on dictionaries, turn to which page is even which page, third, children become their playthings, they will give children a lot of harmonic words, in order to have fun, such as "Qi Li" and "Xia Ke". Not long ago the ice pier on the Internet is particularly hot, some parents are in the Winter Olympics period to give birth to the child named "summer ice pier", when seen on the Internet to marvel at "the child's parents love the ice pier too much", but in hindsight, this is just a way of fun for young parents, and when the Winter Olympics pass, when the child reads in the future, he will find how casual and embarrassing this name is.
But if we think about it, does it cause a lot of problems for children to have so many names now? The answer is of course, in the class teacher is difficult to call out the student's name, in the question of the student when the teacher is difficult, and the teacher can not distinguish the student's name for a while, which is not conducive to the teacher's familiarity and management of the student, will make the student take a loophole, is not conducive to their learning, this practice also makes the student's name meaningless, not easy to be remembered by others, in addition, we will also find that their last name is actually not matched with the name, it is more difficult to pronounce, especially those harmonic names, Make the child be ridiculed by others, make them feel embarrassed, after all, the shame of the child is very strong, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of the child, parents should not ignore the growth of the child for their own happiness.
In fact, parents should pay attention to avoiding strange words when giving children a name, children writing strange words is very troublesome, I deliberately avoid the writing of strange words when I was a child, specifically choosing homophones with few strokes as their own names, avoiding strange words is not only sympathetic to children, but also for kindergarten teachers and primary school teachers, for children to write strange words is equivalent to doing a problem, so parents should try to avoid strange words.
Secondly, parents should avoid using some derogatory and neutral words, boys' names should use masculine words, girls' names should use feminine words, it is best to make many people think of this person when they see the name. A good name is also an indicator for others to remember you.
Finally, the phenomenon of deliberately using four-character names should be minimized, many parents follow the trend and advocate the four-word names in the TV series, but the TV series includes two words in the surname before taking the four-word name, why do some obviously single-word surnames have to arrange four-word names?
Summary: Parents should not be casual when giving their children a name, let alone cause embarrassment to their children's lives according to their own temporary preferences, the name is like our face, it is accompanied by our life, we ourselves are eager to drill into the hole when encountering the same name and the same surname, harmonic sound, and even the same age also has a lot of dissatisfaction with their own names, and privately change the phenomenon of name, so in order to avoid the same things happening to us in our most beloved children, we should give the children a meaningful, connotative, bright name Instead of blindly following the crowd, trying to make themselves temporarily fresh will cause them a lifetime of embarrassment.
Now there are also many parents in the "Book of Poetry" and "Chu Ci" to find a suitable word to name their children, we may wish to learn from it, or we can also find a special name master to give the child a suitable name, these are some ways to take.