The name, for most people, although it is only a code name, but in the hearts of the parents of newborns, it has a different meaning, not only a simple code name, but more importantly, carrying the hope of the family and the love of parents.
This is also the reason why most parents are very cautious when it comes to naming their children.
If you look closely, you will find that the times have given the child a unique breath of the name.
In the founding era, most children will focus on patriotism, founding, establishment, etc. When they are named, although it sounds very rustic and has no personality now, at that time, it was also very characteristic of the times.
With the gradual development of the times, the children's names have gradually come close to the footsteps of the times, especially now a large number of people called "Zi, Han, Xuan" and so on.
The frequency of occurrence is even beyond the imagination of all parents.
In a kindergarten class, it is likely that there will be several identical names, but the last names are different.
After seeing this, many netizens will also sigh: they are parents who grew up in nursery rhyme film and television dramas, and the names they have such a strong resonance.
However, nowadays, the boom of "Zi Han" naming has gradually faded, and many parents have made their children's names more personal and unexpected.
A few days ago, the invitation letter of a primary school student in Hangzhou was completely popular all over the Internet, Xie Zulongen.
Let's not say 4 words, the superficial meaning of these 4 words alone is impossible to call out.
Many netizens sighed: giving children such a name, do not know what parents think in their hearts.
In fact, so many alternative names appear today, simply because of the following reasons.
[The reason why there are so many "alternative" names for children]
1. Greatly affected by the network
With so many children today, there are alternative and bizarre situations.
The main reason for this situation is the impact of the Internet.
In the state of the Internet, many parents like to brush dramas and watch variety shows.
The rapid spread of various "stems" in a short period of time is pervasive in the lives of young parents, which has also become the basis for their children's names.
2. The loss of traditional culture
The emergence of so many alternative names for children is, in a way, inseparable from the loss of traditional culture.
In recent years, Korean dramas and romantic dramas have constantly filled people's lives.
Seasons full of romance and fantasy haunt the hearts of many young parents and, to some extent, influence their children's names.
The loss of traditional culture has also made children's names vulgar, simply imitating the high-frequency vocabulary in film and television dramas.
It is the above two reasons that make the child's name fall into an alternative state.
Therefore, his parents should be more cautious and rational when naming their children.
【Precautions when naming your child】
1. Avoid falling into the "harmonic stem"
It can be seen from the names of many children: although parents have great expectations of their children, if they are repeatedly recited, they will find that there are obvious harmonic sounds in the children's names.
These harmonics are likely to be used by children after school, causing children to fall into a state of being nicknamed.
This will not only affect their interpersonal relationships during their schooling years, but will even be a powerful blow to their self-confidence.
When naming your child, be sure to avoid the presence of harmonic stems.
Although for a while, parents may feel very interesting, but the harm caused to their children for a long time is immeasurable.
2, difficult to write difficult to recognize the name, be careful
When naming your child, be sure to avoid all kinds of difficult and difficult names.
Many parents believe that giving their children some overlapping words or more difficult words to recognize is a symbol of culture.
As everyone knows, this will also cause unnecessary harm to children's future interactions and learning.
Especially for children who have just entered the primary school stage, holding a pen is still a problem, and writing such a complex name will even make the child cry.
3, to maintain the basic connotation and provenance
For every parent, when naming their child, it is important to find the source as much as possible.
Only in this way can children be targeted when introducing themselves and understand the good intentions of their parents.
【Author's Message】
Goethe once said that man is not born with everything, but by what he learns to make himself.
Nowadays, many children's names make many people can't help but laugh.
No matter what kind of wishes parents have, they give their children strange names, but they ignore the troubles that will bring to their children's lives.
Nowadays, although the tolerance is very strong, in the process of children's growth, inappropriate and inappropriate names are likely to cause their self-esteem and self-confidence to be strongly hit.
When naming your child, the above points must be kept in mind.
The name is not only to highlight the personality of the parents, highlight the difference of the child, more importantly, the name, but also the parents' most powerful expectations for the child, but also the gift that accompanies the child's life, so be more cautious when naming.
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