The child's name will accompany the child's life, and many parents will worry about it, afraid that the name given to the child is not good, and will be disliked by the child when they grow up.
At this time, the fortune teller will be asked to go to a good name according to the child's five elements. The old man attaches more importance to the name, believing that the name is related to the blessing of the grandson's life.
There is a family with the surname "Gong", and the husband and wife are happy to have triplets after marriage, and the in-laws in the family are very happy. The two old men have been looking forward to the stars and the moon, and this time it is good, and the daughter-in-law gave birth to three grandchildren at once.
Thinking about the picture of sharing the joy of heaven with my three grandchildren in the future blossoms.
But there is a question that makes this family difficult, what kind of name should the three sons give?
The couple decided to give the task of naming the child's grandfather, who immediately made a decision and gave up three domineering names - Gong Ping, Gong Zheng, and Gong Kai, and the harmonic sound is "fair and just and open", which is pronounced smoothly.
And it's very righteous, and the family loves the name. Just after the birth of the child, when the husband and wife went to the household registration office to register the child, the police at the police station also praised the name, which was really domineering and loud.
It turned out that Grandpa had been a soldier when he was young, and when he named his children, he also integrated his military feelings into it, so that he had such a special and profound name.
The name of the child is still very exquisite, the following taboos must not be committed:
First, do not give names that are not distinguished between men and women. There is a strange saying that if you give a girl a male name, the child will look beautiful, and if you give the boy a female name, the child's life will be smoother.
This statement is not reasonable, the name is meant to provide a synonym for children's future schooling, work, and marriage.
Try not to give children a name that is easy to mix between men and women, it is easy to cause trouble to each other, and even be teased, so girls still take some names that can reflect the femininity of women; while boys have some masculine names, so that it is appropriate.
Second, try not to share the same name as the great man. Although the deeds of great men and sages deserve praise and admiration, try not to use the names of celebrities and great men in the names of children.
Because this way of naming has the nature of blind worship, children may not want to become such people when they grow up. At the same time, such a name is just a rigid set, and it does not have its own creativity and personality.
Third, do not cancel the name of the pole. If the child's name contains negative words, such as "sad", "sad", "sad", "sad" words, it sounds very sad, I believe that parents still hope that the child is optimistic every day, but if even the name is so depressed, what does the child take to be optimistic? This will have a bad impact on the child's mind and the child's social interaction.
Don't take some vulgar names, not only don't pronounce it well, but also appear to be very vulgar, and others are reluctant to associate with him. And the grandfather of the triplets did not commit these taboos by naming his name, no wonder his name can be praised by so many netizens.
The child's name will follow the child for a lifetime, the child will often use his own name as his spiritual pillar, and the optimistic name can make the child feel warm when he sees his name.
At the same time, the name also pins on the parents' expectations for their children, so you must be cautious when naming the name, and you can't just do it casually.