Accompany yourself throughout your life, but what do others call the most? That's your name. Many mothers have probably thought of the names of one hundred and eighty boys and girls for choice from the moment they conceive their children. The older generation will say that the most feared thing in a person's life is to change the name, so what are the characteristics and trends of the current post-10s and post-20s names? Let's open our eyes!
The most common names given to children are their own parents and mothers, in addition to grandparents or grandparents, and some children have their names given by their parents to people who have grace or high levels of education, and the origin of the name is mostly like this. Choose many families also follow the genealogical "character generation" ranking naming rules, then the name of the child after birth is simpler, only with the last word is good, save a lot of trouble!
How did the children's names come to be? Some parents will take out the "Xinhua Dictionary" to read, find out the meaning of beautiful, their favorite words, put together a phrase to set a name for their children; in contrast, some parents are not so "reliable", as if they see the Chinese characters at will and set a lifelong name for their children, such as the following parents!
The full name is written in two strokes, this is to let the child "win at the starting line"?
In order to avoid common names or duplicate names, many parents will give their children some strange words or names with more strokes, but such names are often called "losing on the starting line" by onlookers! The reason is that each subject examination will first require the writing of the name, writing the name takes so much time, and the time spent on the question in the limited examination time is relatively small, so the accumulation is not "lost" at the beginning of the examination?
Perhaps with this in mind, there was a boy whose father gave him a full name that only needed to be written in two strokes. However, this little boy's surname is also of a rare type, which is the "B" of A-ethyl-D-Din! This surname is written in one stroke, what about the first name? A single name with a "one" word is really the simplest of the names!
This boy's father is really "brain hole", think of such an excellent name, not only easy to write, remember is also very easy to remember, see the name of these two words, have to say a sentence "you won"! Compared with many students' names to "high difficulty" to think, in order to avoid duplicate names, in order not to fall into the cliché, this is the opposite of a trick, just do it, is really high!
Look at the parents of the same class, some give the child a four-character name, and some give the child a two-word name but use a strange word because of too many duplicate names. It is estimated that these strange words have been seen, do not you have to take out the "Xinhua Dictionary" to look up before you can read it correctly? And because it is not commonly used, will it be embarrassed the next time you meet it because you forget to ask the other party how to read the name? It seems that this strange word name has come up, not only pit others, but also pit their own children!
Parents give their names at will, but they will make children say that they are very "tired"!
There are also some names that imply "too good" names, and it feels like children use them as "the unbearable weight of life"! For example, this rich and handsome boy, I believe that people who see the name will want to see if the boy's appearance has violated the meaning of the name, and if he is not careful, he may be laughed at by his classmates and friends, leaving a psychological shadow in the process of growing up! Not to mention this Yue Fei classmate, as if he was born to be compared, it was really "tired"!
Speaking of tiredness, it is estimated that there are no students tired in the picture above! These Chinese characters are estimated to be rarely encountered in their academic careers, let alone in everyday life. Students with these names should learn how to read and write their own names, and indeed belong to the category of people who "lose on the starting line" on the exam; not only that, in later life, as long as they recognize new people, they must explain the pronunciation of their names and the meaning, in the long run, it is too tired!
There are also some classmates whose names are out of order, neither with their father's surname, nor with their mother's surname, and when asked, they learned that the father of the original classmate was very fond of studying history, and in the major dynasties of Chinese history, he was particularly keen to study the Spring and Autumn Warring States period, and he did not do two without stopping, directly named the children who were still in their infancy as spring and autumn battle results, such parents, are also "willful" to speechless!
The name should not be too arbitrary, and it may affect the life of the child!
The name is too arbitrary, and the first dilemma that children face is to be joked about by classmates and friends with their names. These jokes are harmless to others, and the laughter will pass, but for the person concerned, it will leave a shadow of growth in his heart, and he will remember the "flower name" he once was named for a lifetime, leaving a lifelong memory.
Post-90s parents who are keen on games, even to name their children can not forget the passion of the game, directly put a well-known mobile game name "given" to their children, this girl called the glory of the king, I don't know if it will be a shadow on the game when she is young? This little girl is nearly 5 years old this year, and when she was in elementary school, Wang Glory did not know whether it would be as popular as it is now?
It is true that the starting point of the name should be a good meaning, but it is too brain-opening and arbitrary, which is to impose the influence of parents on the child. Children are ridiculed or joked about by name when they grow up, which can be avoided when they are named as parents, so why not let the children deal with less embarrassment and be more happy?