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Life is miraculous, but it is also fragile.
No matter how good life is, there will be a day of exhaustion, this is the law of nature, no one can violate it.
A person's life goes through 4 stages: infancy, youth, middle age and old age.
After maturity, the longest stage a person goes through is about youth, middle age and old age.
From a career perspective, every age stage has the possibility of success, but the probability is greater when you are young.
From the perspective of life, each stage has a different meaning and value.
From the perspective of marriage and love, youth is the greatest value, and there is no distinction between men and women at this point.
Many men always think that age does not matter to men, as long as they have money, in fact, this is just a self-deception.
There are many men around who are over thirty years old and still can't step into the marriage hall, they have a house and a car, they have reached the standard of marriage, but they have been repeatedly rejected in the process of blind date.
After encountering many failures, they also have different choices, some use Buddhist attitudes to face marriage, some are full of hatred for women, and some are still actively looking for the other half.
After the age of thirty, men will find that the threshold for them to take off the single will be much higher than when they were younger.
And this is the main reason why older leftover men are difficult to get off the list.
Women demand much more from leftover men than younger men
Similarly single, a 25-year-old man and a 35-year-old man entering the dating market at the same time will encounter different requirements, while 35-year-old men will face more critical and more difficult requirements.
1. Young people still have the opportunity to be used as potential stocks
A 25-year-old man who has nothing is not a particularly terrible thing, because at this time he is still very young and he has unlimited possibilities for the future.
As long as he is positive, hard-working, and good to girls, he has the possibility of stepping into the marriage hall.
There are many such cases in real life, many young men marry early and have children even if the conditions are mediocre, and they can meet a girl who fights with them from scratch.
But if you are a man in their 30s, it is difficult to have such a situation, because they are past the age of being considered a potential stock.
When a man has nothing in his 30s, he will give people the feeling that their lives have been fixed, and neither girls nor their parents are willing to bet on him.
As a result, men in their 20s can get married under ordinary conditions, while men in their 30s have no chance of marriage at all.
2, the age difference should be made up with a lot of advantages
Since most of their peers are married and have children, older leftover men usually only choose young girls in their 20s, and in the process of pursuing young girls, they will encounter great challenges.
Girls are very concerned about a man's age, unless the other party has an advantage that can make up for the age disadvantage, and there are only a few men who can meet this requirement.
The highest level that most older leftover men can achieve is nothing more than having a house and a car, and the house is still bought with a mortgage.
This condition is naturally incomparable to that of young men, so they will often be rejected.
An older man who wants to impress a young girl, in addition to the house and car, he must also have a high income, high appearance, and even more additional wealth.
If he does not meet such standards, he will often be rejected by young people of the opposite sex.
Age is the biggest obstacle for men to get off the road
1, less than 10% of the owners of wealth, the vast majority of people are ordinary people in their lives
Many men say that as long as they have money, they can do it, but this sentence is extremely simple to say, but it is more difficult to do than to ascend to the sky.
You must know that rich people are a very small minority after all, in this world, 90% of people are ordinary people, unchanged throughout their lives.
They are in their 20s with ordinary conditions, and when they are in their 40s, they are still in ordinary conditions, and the only difference is that they have an extra set of just-needed houses under their names.
A 40-year-old man has a just-needed house in his name, a 20-year-old man has no house and no car, and 99% of women will choose the latter.
Men without a home may buy a house in the future, while a 40-year-old man will never become a 20-year-old.
2, in the world of ordinary people, age is the biggest hard wound
In the world of ordinary people, age will become the biggest hard wound on everyone's way out of a single road.
Once a person crosses the 30-year-old mark, the road to get off the single will become more and more difficult, and the probability of getting off the single will become lower and lower.
This is the main reason why many parents are very worried, they will choose to urge marriage from the beginning, they are people who come over, they have seen many cases, they do not want their sons to follow in the footsteps of others.
If people want to get rid of the pain of being single, the best way is to get married as soon as possible
Men want to get rid of such distress, the best way is not to let themselves become older leftover men, although some truths are particularly hurtful, but the reality is that older leftover men are really not good at getting off the list.
A very real problem, you are most likely just ordinary people in this life, you can't become the individual case you say, and as you get older, your advantages will be less and less.
The elderly often ask young people to start a family first and then establish a business, and pass on this wisdom of life for thousands of years, and there are natural reasons for this.
If everyone can become good, if everyone can become rich, what is the gap between people.
Whether it is in the past or at present, or even in the future, excellent people are a very small minority after all, and the fate of the vast majority of people is ordinary, and everyone must accept this reality.
Ordinary people have the way of living ordinary people, do not seek great blessings and nobility, only seek family fun, at what age to do what is the wisest choice.