The author | Sunflower
Bing Xin once said:
A good family is the root of all happiness and strength.
Whether a family is happy and warm does not depend on others, but on the attitude of the husband.
As the saying goes: first have a good husband, then there is a good family.
The more caring a man loves his wife, the more he learns to harvest his wife's doubly cherished and paid for him, and the happier the family will be.
On the contrary, the more men who ignore their wives' efforts and treat their wives coldly and ruthlessly, the whole family will be as cold as an ice cellar, and there will be no happiness to speak of.
In the second half of the marriage, it was the husband who fought.
Attitude towards his wife
The best temperature in the family
In a family, having a virtuous wife, doing the housework for you, raising your children with your heart, accompanying you through ups and downs, and never complaining about abandonment, then for you, it is the greatest blessing in this life.
To have such a virtuous wife, not by birth, but by watching the husband's pampering and pampering.
Many times, the husband's attitude toward his wife is the best temperature in the family.
If a man always blames his wife, always gets angry with her, does not cherish his wife's efforts, and does not know how to treat his wife well, how can he exchange his wife's understanding and consideration? How can families be harmonious and warm?
Ignoring your wife's efforts, being hot and cold to your wife, even if you love your wife again, her enthusiasm will be consumed by your indifferent attitude, and her love will be dispelled by you.
Marriage needs to pay each other, and understand each other, only one party maintains, the other party is indifferent, the family will inevitably fall apart.
Only by treating your own days well and taking good care of her, what you harvest is full of happiness, and the family will be happier and more lucky.
If you want a happy and harmonious family, you must pay together and understand each other, especially the husband knows how to tolerate, know how to give in, and know how to cherish, so that the marriage will be more satisfactory.
The pattern of dealing with family affairs
It is the best education for children
The famous educator Spencer said:
Throughout our lives, we may not accumulate too much wealth and have little fame, but each parent has accumulated some good experience and conduct through life.
Give these to the children, and they will enlarge and shine with new life.
I know that parents are the first teachers of children, and their words and deeds are subtly affecting children's growth and mind.
Men are the backbone of the family and the head of the family.
A man's pattern in dealing with family affairs is often the best education for children.
The relationship with the partner largely represents the family relationship, the family affair, and the happiness of a family.
When dealing with the relationship with the partner, if things have already happened, learn to think differently, and be more considerate and tolerant to the partner. Don't go to great lengths because of a trivial matter, you have to win or lose.
Men who really have a pattern know how to control their temper, will not leave the worst temper to the closest people, and will not be angry because of small things.
Family will always be the people we care about the most, but this does not mean that we can be angry without fear, indulge our emotions, and chill our families.
When dealing with family affairs, be more tolerant of your family, make more concessions, and quarrel less. Family is the closest person, don't let them chill, tolerate and love for the family, the child will also learn to understand and empathize in the subtle.
No matter how big the problem, no matter how difficult it is to solve the family affair, there are ways to solve it, it will become the past, relax your heart, don't look at it angrily, get along well, and cherish the company.
Facing the responsibility of the family
The best blessing for the family
In this life, when people enter the married life, the passion when they fall in love slowly fades, and then there is the chai rice oil and salt of life, and each of us needs to bear too many responsibilities.
When a man bravely shoulders the responsibility of the family and learns to pay, it is the best blessing for the family.
A responsible man knows how to be considerate and care for his wife, knows how to tolerate his family, and has a sense of responsibility for his family.
Responsible men, regard the family as very important, responsible enough for the family, kind to their wives, know how to pay and be grateful.
The money earned by hard work will give the family the best life, and it will not spend days and wine, and it will not be messed with flowers and grass.
Even if the life is difficult, it will not treat the family badly, and it will not be lazy to eat, work hard, and always maintain a positive and optimistic attitude towards life.
If there is a family conflict, know how to reconcile the rigid relationship, and will not let the contradiction intensify.
A responsible man, the family is the happiest, because he will not ignore his family in order to eat, drink and have fun, will not be tempted to lose his mind, will not betray his wife, and always put his family first.
A responsible man is the best blessing for his family, not afraid of difficulties and wind and rain, he will build a solid and warm harbor for his family, shield them from the wind and rain, and become the family's eternal dependence.
A man with responsibility is the man that women most admire, and the responsibility of a man is not only the foundation of a family's harmony and happiness, but also the greatest blessing for every family.
Sanmao said:
Patience, resilience, understanding, tolerance, inclusion, are synonymous with love.
Only when you have a good husband can you have a happy and happy family.
For the rest of our lives, we can meet a good man who embraces you, cares about you, and cherishes you, be your invincible backer, give you the warmth of your family, and give you the most beautiful happiness.
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